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Arlie, 35

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About Me

***Not looking for a hookup.******I'm not shallow, but if you don't have a pic of yourself chances are I won't respond to your messages. Looks aren't everything and beauty fades, but there has to be some sort of attraction to start a relationship***I am a happy-go-lucky girl looking for a happy-go-lucky guy to hang out with. I enjoy knitting, hanging out with friends, listening to good music, watching live music, camping, fishing, watching baseball (I'm a die hard Cubs fan~I know, it's tough) and just plain old having fun! I have 2 gorgeous kids that are an absolute joy! I am looking to date someone and see where it goes from there. An ideal first date would be dinner and drinks to get to know one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Hilda

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Hello everyone!!!Its been awhile since Ive been on here. I am a single mom 2 wonderful kids. My kids are my world wouldn't have it any other way. I am looking to meet new people and see what can or cant happen. I am a fun outgoing person. I want a man that wants me and only me not one that wants me and 20 others. I don't like a man that lies i don't care if its about the littlest thing if you will lie about that what else will you lie about. I don't want a man that will cheat. I know most say im not a cheater but my defention of cheating and your defention of cheating is 2 totally different ones. With that being said just remember I do have 2 kids that come first and will ALWAYS come first no matter what. If you cant handle that then you need to find another profile to look at. I have been through alot in my past and I have learned alot over the past 2 yrs since Ive been divorced. *** NEW UPDATE PLEASE READ*** Yes I am single again. I did meet someone and was with them for a while but things didn't work out. We were 2 totally different people, but at least I can say we gave it a shot. So since that has happend I am back on here to see if there is anyone actually out there for me. I am not picky I just want a descent guy, that has a job, that will accept my kids, that likes to go out and have fun with or without kids. I don't want someone that is gonna be jealous of my kids. Cause my kids WILL always come first and before anyone and anything. They are my world. Without them I don't think I would be where I am at right now. I am not looking for a night stand or fly by night relationship. I want something real and something that will last. I like to talk to someone and get to know them before we actually meet. I can tell alot about someone from texting and talking on the phone..LOL I will not rush into anything or rush into meeting anyone. It will take time after everything I have been through. So with that said if you want to know more or talk send me a message and lets go from there... Suprise me....

  • Avis

    Online

    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I really hope the profiles actually match the people, honestly. Have the courage to have a photo up before contacting me. Just looking to chat first. See personality, not just looks. Still possible to meet. I really don't have much faith in finding anything real here... I am not seriously looking for any relationship anywhere, so if I don't respond please don't take it personal as I am hardly ever on the site... I primarily just look. I am a private person, and do not hand out my # easily. I don't care if it is easier to text. Not looking for fwb. Or any other casual ****. If I want to just **** someone, I wouldn't need an app for that... Respect is expected and returned in kind. Trust is earned, not freely given. Hidden agendas just lead to disaster. 2 children. Boy girl Friends first. If I have my kids, I will not have anyone over. All dependent on too many variables to be able to post an answer here. But must include talking. Lol

  • Hanh

    Online

    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    My son will come first and if you are a parent you should understand this. I WILL NOT DROP EVERYTHING TO BE WITH YOU OVER MY SON, SO DON'T GET UPSET WHEN IT DOESN'T GO YOUR WAY!! RESPONSIBLITIES COME FIRST AND MY SON IS MY BIGGEST RESPONSIBLITY IN MY LIFE NO MATTER HOW BAD I WANT TO FIND THAT ONE AND ONLY. I work hard and work for a great company. I am big on family and I spend a lot of time with mine. I am a typical girl who wants romance and love. I am wanting a man who can have a big soft spot in his heart and truely wants more out of a relationship than sexual things. I will say that I do like to get to know a man before I let him be around my son so patiences will be needed if you choose me. I am not into drugs and will not put up with it. I also believe in moderation with the drinking. I like to have a drink every once in awhile but it is not something that I do not need on a daily basis. With that being said, if you feel you need beer/mix drinks more than paying your bills, move on. I don't have the time for men like you. I am wanting someone who wants a family and doesn't mind me already having a child. He does have a father who is in the picture and whom I get a long with. We are friends and do what is best for our son. I am a bigger woman, so I am sorry if that bothers you and you may choose to move along but you maybe missing out on the best woman..Just saying. I am making some changes for myself and will never do it for anyone else but for me and my son. I have noticed a lot f shallow men on here and I find it somewhat sad really. I try to workout ***days a week but find it is hard since I am a single mother...I do have a membership to Planet Fitness and do go and am loving. I have found a love for running and beating my time I did the time before.I am a very sweet, caring and loving person who does have more to offer a man than a perfect body. Sometimes you have to take chances. I do like a man who takes care of himself as in; Sorry boys, body oder does bother women, if you want a woman to smell good then you have to do the same as well. I may not be perfect body wise but other wise I am not so bad..lol. I don't like or want perfect, I want REAL!!!So if you think you are up for it then message me. Talking/drinks/dinner??

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