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Debbi, 28
United States, New Jersey, Woodbury

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About Me

So... yeah... this is a little awkward because I always never know what to write in blank spaces. Describing myself is even harder because I don't really think I'm the best to really give an accurate view of me. Either way, I'll lay out the basics. I'm pretty down to earth and easy going but balance that out with being pretty blunt and sarcastic. I'm a little bit of a techno-geek and love to nerd out on my xbox. On the flip side, I've found myself becoming a lot more fascinated with hiking and exploring the island - I've only been back on this rock for about a year so I'm really trying to soak it up.My zest for life? Every fear I have I love to challenge. I'm incredibly terrified of heights but will never resist a chance to zip line or hike up a rock face. I believe in keeping a bucket list of impossible and humiliating tasks that will be crossed off every opportunity I get.I have a strange and cynical sense of humor and love people that can make me laugh to the point I can't breath. I tend to stray away from pretentious or superficial people because I don't feel like I can relate to them. I've been called a tom boy on various occasions but I don't think that's accurate - I just don't believe in tying fake hair to my scalp, cementing plastic to my fingers, or sporting manufactured dreads to live a lifestyle. I have many girl friends that do so there's no judgement - it's just not me. I've never really connected with people that live their lives by regimen. I'm not saying don't have schedules or goals because I do - I am actually incredibly ambitious- but I guess I'm talking about trying to fit into some kind of pre-packaged bubble or preconceived path of life. If there's anything I've learnt along the way is that you have to roll with the punches and enjoy the journey and not a checklist of to-dos. So that's my mentality... or I guess as good as a "me" filler as it will get within this HTML text box.Why I'm on here, you ask? I love meeting new people and having them influence my life. Hopefully you can be one of them :) Something low key. Coffee and a walk... drinks in a pub. Something that eases the awkwardness of two random strangers meeting - and trust me, there will be awkwardness.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Latin Reggae American Italian
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