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Finuala, 28
United States, New Jersey, Stratford

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About Me

I have a 5 year old son, and he's not going anywhere any time soon. I'm not able to have any more children, so if a large family is something you absolutely MUST have, I'm not your woman. I have 6 tattoos. and I'm surprised at how many people don't care for them. So- if you don't like tattoos, again, I'm not your girl. I do not consider myself a high-maintenance woman, but do want someone who will adore me and give me all of the physical and emotional aspects essential to a healthy relationship, because I am committed to giving those things to my partner completely. Wouldn't anyone, though?Moving forward-I'm looking for someone to have coffee with, go out with, kick back with, talk, laugh, and feel comfortable with. I'm looking for someone beautiful on the inside, who takes care of themselves on the outside as well. I'm not perfect by any means, but I bathe every day and have all of my teeth :) I'm looking for someone who is self-motivated, and isn't happy with settling for an "okay" life when the only one standing in the way of a "great" life is themselves.I love my job and the paycheck, and happily work overtime whenever it is available. I'm not all about being a buttoned-up workaholic, though. Going for ice cream or for a walk or bike ride is a good time to me. I enjoy campfires and barbecues as well. At this time in my life, I am past partying and being immature and irresponsible. I want to settle down and start living the good life. I've got all of my ducks in a row and am enjoying the life that I have created for my son and I, now I just need someone to compliment it. Could you be that someone? We will most likely hit it off if you:Are employedHave a vehicleAre not constantly on your cell phone or web deviceLove to show your affectionLike sushiUnderstand that children do not have minds like adultsAre emotionally stableLike coffeeAre literateAre hygienicAre fun-lovingHave a great sense of humorHave a great smileWe will probably not get along so well if you:Have emotional issuesHave no patience for childrenThink the word "frustrated" is spelled with an LDon't brush your teeth on a daily basisAre secretiveDon't waste my time if you:Are unemployedDon't have a vehicleHate kidsAre missing any of your front teethAre in the middle of a divorcePlan to have more than one girlfriend at a timeDo drugsPossess the maturity of a 12 year oldHave a violent criminal record Fall is my favorite season. That being said, I'd love someone to have hot apple cider with, go apple-picking and through corn mazes. Crunch over crisp, newly-fallen leaves. "These are a few of my favorite things." Allow me to share them with you, and lets make a memory out of combining each others favorite things.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian Metal Spirituality
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