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Kitty, 34
United States, New Jersey, Mays Landing

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About Me

I grew up in a house full of men so I am definitely not your typical woman. I love camping, hiking, going to the beach, basically any out door activity. I always try to look my best but I am very practical. I'm not wearing my best clothes while going hiking. There's a time and a place for everything. ;) I am definitely dreamer and can say I am fortunate enough to have made all my dreams come true so far. I am very adventurous and I love getting out of my comfort zone and trying new things. I'm afraid of heights but I'm learning to rock climb this summer. I especially love learning languages and about other cultures. I speak Chinese, Japanese and Spanish. I am lucky enough to have traveled all over the world during my time in the military. I love a night in but I am definitely not a homebody. I love getting out of the house on my days off.I also love going hiking. I am member of the Sierra Club and I try to go hiking at least once a week. My friends and I all have Disneyland passes so we go there quite often. I'm not much of drinker but I love going out for the occasional drink with friends. I also love seeing live bands. I love to cook and I am always trying out new recipes. I am a bit of a gym rat. I typically workout 5 days a week. I love swimming and I am not shy at all so you can usually find me in the pool at the gym. I just got a membership at Gold's and I've fallen in love with cardio cinema so you can often find me in there too. I am really not one to make an exhaustive list of what I am looking for in a man. I believe that people and relationships are too complex for that. I'll just list what is most important to me. I'm looking for someone who is respectful, has a positive attitude, confident, adventurous, and drama free. Last but not least, open-mindedness is a must. I have friends of all ethnic backgrounds and sexual orientations.Random things about me :1) I can find the silver lining in any cloud.2) My favorite persian dish is khoresht ghormeh sabzi. 3) I want to learn to rock climb but I will never sky dive.4) I sleep on the wrong end of the bed.5) I am an Air Force veteran.6) I appreciate what all military, police, and firefighters do but what's most important is the quality of a man's character not the uniform he does or doesn't wear.7) I was stationed in Okinawa while in the military.8) I've heard it all. Being in the military means that as a women you hear all the stuff guys normally don't talk about in front of women.11)I think you're pretty awesome if you've read this far.13)I miss real chinese food.***When I stepped out of a quiet trainstation in Shanghai one morning all of the food cart venders started shouting HELLO nonstop to me. 15)I love Jing'an temple. 16)Ask me about this one. :***Too means also.18)D*ck pics from guys are similar to women posting duck lips and mustache pictures in that both are annoying and unattractive. Please don't send me pictures of your d*ck I can't believe I have to say this. Bonus points if you get this.20)My family and I went camping every summer when I was young. I love the outdoors. If you complain that you're cold,tired or that your shoes are getting dirty while we are out I'll know that you are too high maintenance for me.***I gave one of the firemen on base a piggyback ride while in the military.***I lived to regret this because he got such a kick out of it, he would randomly try to show all our friends. Surprise piggyback rides are not good!***I think pickles are cucumbers soaked in evil. I like to stay active so let's go hiking.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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Techno Spanish
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