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Heaven, 33
United States, New Jersey, Mays Landing

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Yes my headline means what you think it means. I'm not here to be judged or harped on so if you're comfortable with it message me and if not please just move along.An open mind and accepting heart is what I am in the market for. I am looking to meet a man who has a good head on his shoulders, one who is done with the whole "let's get f'd up all weekend" mentality. I like a man with confidence and who is comfortable in his own skin but if you feel the need to tell me how much you can bench press or how big your "whoha" is please move along, I am looking for a family man or a man who can be content to be part of a family as that is what is here. I am somewhat of an introvert at times until I'm comfortable with a person, after that I open up very easily and conversation flows. There are few things I am afraid of in life, except for snakes...yuck I hate those things! Good set of morals and values here and a willingness to try different things and to be open about my thoughts on the things I venture into. If you have mommy issues or you are hung up on your ex or are for some reason going to think I will be ok with being an option and not a priority please move along I am not here to play games. A responsible self sufficient man who can look after himself and doesn't require someone to lead him around by his nose. I ask that you have the ability to look after your finances without having a "personal banker" to make sure your bills are paid on time. If you don't like to be called out on your b.s. then don't feed me any of it. If your favorite and only extra curricular activity is getting obliterated I am not interested. I am not a person to hold back when it comes to my opinions and how I feel about things so if that scares you then I am not the woman for you.There is something to be said for the single life, it has it's perks for sure but at the same time life is meant to be shared, shared with someone that wants to share with you. Giving opinions and ideas, making valid points and maybe even a little disagreement from time to time because let's face it no two people agree on everything all of the time.I don't want to give away too much information right off the top, where is the fun in that? It would make for a pretty dull conversation if I did. There is much to know and I am not opposed to any questions so please feel free to ask me anything. Put a little thought into a message please, the generic "hey, how's it going, wanna chat?" doesn't really spark my interest and I most likely won't reply.I am a home body, I don't like going out to bars, I prefer dinner and a movie or a quiet night on the couch. Camping is something that I have always enjoyed, and I would love to do some more traveling. I am focusing on my children right now but do still need to get out and enjoy life. I love all types of music and going to concerts is one of my favorite past times. Happy Fishing!I like walks, movies, music, kids, cuddly nights on the couch, the smell of camp fires, and a man who isn't afraid to be a little mushy at times. Go grab a coffee and talk, but in my opinion that is just a way to get to know one another...a date is a whole different scenario...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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