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Detra, 31
United States, New Jersey, Marlton

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About Me

I am very creative, a singer-lyricist, a vegan, non-drinker, non-smoker, and non-drug user. I am super spiritual, but not religious. I don't believe there is one true religion, but rather truths in each religion. I think of life as a sort of spiritual matrix, or perhaps a dream, but I am open to many beliefs. I do practice divination, usually on a daily basis. I would like to make a living doing what I love, and am good at, as well as change the world for the better.This next part is very important: I have been celibate since November, ***, and am re-waiting for love. Please do not message me looking for hookups. I am not interested. I am looking for friendship that could potentially lead to something more, with the right person.The type of guy I'm looking for would be someone super intelligent, educated, liberal minded, kind, compassionate, talented, creative, preferably a vegan, 5'10" or above, ***years old, who doesn't smoke, or use recreational drugs, and who doesn't need a drink to have a good time. FYI: You're not an animal lover if you consume tortured, murdered animals for food.Turn-ons: Intelligence, open-mindedness, compassion, fluid communication, excellent writing abilities, using a semicolon correctly (You can't join a full sentence and a fragmented sentence with a semicolon. It surprises me that people with their masters degrees can't write well), affection, without smothering me, passion, without aggression, musical talent, creativity, a college education, dedication, loyalty, genuine compliments, firm handshakes, commanding voices, long, thick fingers (they serve a purpose), romance, chivalry, nice eyes, bright smile, and kissable lips that aren't too big, or too thin. Turnoffs: Using all lowercase letters in profiles and ***, spelling words incorrectly that you should have been taught how to spell in 9th grade (alot is not a word - it is two words - a lot), completely dismissing punctuation altogether, *** go like this: "How u doin," or "Hey wazzup you look like ur fun we should get a drink sometime," I need hair! Not grey hair. Not orange/red/ginger/copper hair.With that said, I have had a lot of chemistry with guys who were my opposites, as far as extracurricular activities were concerned. I like to learn new things. I like when guys teach me knew things. I love peeling back the layers of a guy that I'm interested in. Just as long as we're attracted to each other, and we can get into a lot of great conversations, I'm a happy camper. Top thing necessary for a relationship to work is open, honest, fluid communication. As far as looks and occupations go, I don't have a type. I've dated guys 5'8" to 6'4", some were skinny, some athletic, some a few extra pounds or more. I've dated and liked waiters, musicians, a rocket scientist, non-profit workers, computer geniuses, people working on creating renewable energy (Top Secret stuff), business professionals, television/film producer/writer/director, actors, and students with no job. I like guys with enough hair that I can grab onto during intimate moments. I won't date someone under 5'8". Sorry. That's super short, as is. All the men in my family are 6'2" or 6'3". But I would say I am very tall for my height, and like to rest my head on my guys' chests or shoulders. Meet for coffee/tea and a walk, if we hit it off. If we really hit it off, then vegan friendly organic food sounds good, too.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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