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Lanie, 31
United States, New Jersey, Hammonton

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Well, I have been on this site for off and on, about 2 years, and nothing has came of it so far. Just some fine entertainment, and random junkies. I never really like talking about myself, as it makes me feel like I am selling something. I am not trying to sell Jack squat, just trying to meet a decent earthling.I am sure we all have wonderful stories to tell about random crazies from this site. I won't bore you with mine, just know....I have met a couple =) (Thats right, you know who you are, because your probly viewing this right now!)I am 31, have a career, a great education, and 3 beautiful boys. I am not looking for someone to to help me raise them. I have done well by myself and plan to continue too.I have a great job, and love what I do.Some hobbies:I am easy going, could have fun in a car ride. I am well rounded so, anything from fishing, to dancing is fine by me. Like to stay away from bars. I would not bring a guy home from a bar, nor would I have an interest going on a date to one.Goals:I have achieved most of my Huge goals, but I make daily goals every single day. I have even taught my children to do this. I am looking for someone who:Has a careerHas their own placeIs independantIs good with kidsHas a carIs not a criminalHas a Large...heart lol!Sense of humor is a must!Likes to have fun. My job is so serious, I would like someone I can goof off with.Me:I am stylishprettydown to eartheasy to pleasenonjudgmental (however please do not be a criminal, I will look you up...HR in me)FunnyA fantastic motherDrivenFamily orientedGod fearingBlessed LadyI am unique, because I am awesome lol! I have a great self esteem and playful nature.Music:I love it all! Guys are funny. Pictures of your arm with one terrible tattoo does not suffice that you are good looking or a good guy. I also see that almost every guy on here adds a pic of a woman with them. Not sure what point your proving. Your either trying to say, this is what u must look like, or better than; or this is my girlfriend/wife im cheating on in case you ever see me in public. What we really see is the guy who just begged a random stranger for a picture with them. Just throwing it out there.Helpful hint #1 Most guys put pictures on their profile that would be totally great...if your impressing other guys. Most women don't find your cars or motorcycles impressive. They want to see YOU. Your face, eyes, teeth, hair, & height are most important. Hint #2-Also it is VERY uncool to take a picture of yourself in a dressing room. This is seen often and only makes me laugh. I see the tags hanging off your shirts and pants. Take the outfit home and take the tags off. ..Then take the picture. And clean your dirty laundry up off the floor first. Every gal doesn't want to see your dirty bloomers laying around while you try to GQ it up.Hint#3 if you live further than 45 mins away, I probably won't respond. Its far to difficult to see one another and not convieniant for either of us. At some point in time its likely to be an avoidable fight.Hint#4- if someone does not respond, take that as they are not interested. If you keep pushing it, be ready for the truth and put your ego aside. I wish I could say how many I say that I'm not interested in and they get angry and say hateful things. Why?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Disco R&B Documentary Family & Kids History
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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

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