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Elfreda, 32
United States, New Jersey, Hammonton

Offline, last seen Sun, 19 Oct 2025 06:43:02

About Me

Wow, I never thought I would ever be here again, but here I am. I am recently out of a 5 and a half year relationship where I was hurt very badly, so right now I would just like to make some new friends, chat with some new people and go from there. You just never know what might happen. These "profiles" are always a little ridiculous, but let me see what I can come up with. I am a lady when I need to be and a vixen when I want to be. I have 17 tattoos and a few piercings, but don't let this fool you as I can be very professional and DO have a career. I am a huge animal lover and yes I am a "cat lady", lol. Crazy is for you to decide. I have lots of my own cats and also foster for a local cat rescue organization. This is a HUGE passion of mine. :) I love all animals in general, so if you're a hunter...we probably aren't meant to be. ;) I absolutely love to read and have been called a bookworm many times. I enjoy a great movie, primarily horror, and am not a typical chick at all in that respect. Give me blood and guts over a romance or comedy any day. I am much more into intelligent humor than I am stupidity humor. I adore nature and really enjoy going for walks. I also LOVE to go camping, and am sorry to see the summer fade away. I'm a very affectionate, loving person and really enjoy cuddling, touching and showing my affection to those I care about. Nothing more enjoyable than spending an evening curled up cuddling with someone special and enjoying a great movie or my favorite shows. I LOVE Sons of Anarchy, American Horror Story, The Walking Dead, Boardwalk Empire, etc.; Breaking Bad are now finished...lol. I also really enjoy traveling. Can't wait! I've been bit by the travel bug! LOL I am pretty self sufficient and expect you to be as well. I don't care WHERE you work as long as you have a job. :) PLEASE don't message me if you are looking for a one night stand or to just hook up as I am not even remotely interested. If you're going to message me, make it worth your while. One or two word messages are very boring. ;) Please send me a message if you want to talk though, I WILL reply. I'm just usually too shy to make the first move. Walks are always nice to just talk and get to know one another. Surprise me, take the initiative and have some creativity and come up with something totally unique. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Music Drawing / Painting Caribbean Chinese Indonesian Spanish Thai Action Sport Western
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  • Vashti from Hammonton | Woman | 35 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I am easy going, unless you make me mad! Just kidding. I am pretty laid back, like to have fun and laugh. Hope you have a good sense of humor, because I think I do, not sure yet though. I am an optimist so if you are a pessimist please don't contact me. Unless you can be changed easily. You know how us girls love to fix things. Seriously though I am not up for a project. I will accept you as you are and if we don't click I won't try to make it work. I hope you can accept me as I am, as there is nothing to change because I am perfect. I know because my mom told me so. Okay, so she didn't but I think I'm alright. Contact me and we can get to know more about each other. I am not big for writing. Talking about myself I love. Just kidding again, hope to hear from you soon. Something simple like coffee or tea or juice or water.

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  • Mimi from Hammonton | Woman | 32 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    i like to write i want a guy that make me laugh takes long walks on the beach and like taking walks the music i like is old school slow jams my goals are to be with some who will show me things i have never seen reading me poems at night that work hard to have there life together my goals are to be in school so i can get to what i want and far in life my first date i want to go on the beach and sit on the sand and look up at the stars holding hands

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  • Willetta from Hammonton | Woman | 32 years old | Libra
    Willetta

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I don't think I am too good for anyone or better than anyone. I'm really just a sweet girl with a big heart. I am very much a lady & expect to be treated like one. If you come at me rude or disrespectful, you're wasting my time as well as your own. I prefer a man with class & tact, as opposed to "swagg" or whatever. I appreciate the little things in life & relationships. I don't need some huge gesture or a lot of money spent on me. I prefer your time & attention. I am not shallow nor superficial. I like getting dirty & playing hard, but it's also nice to get all dressed up and feel beautiful sometimes too. I am a one-man kind of girl, so the guy I'm dating is the ONLY one who gets my attention & expect the same in return. I just don't have it in me to date multiple men at the same time. I'd rather one got all of my attention and see where it goes til it's played it's course. If you need the attention of multiple women or you're a player, I'm not interested. I'm not 100% sure what I expect to find on here, but when I do, I'll know it. I know that I am not just looking for a "good time". I could go to a bar for that & not waste my time on all this on here lol. I believe in at LEAST ***dates before I will even consider sleeping with a guy. And yes, I'm serious and no, don't take this as a challenge. I am also really not wanting pics of your d*ck, nor am I interested in "sexting" after we only have chatted for a few hours (come on now fellas, step up your game please, try actually getting to know me). I truly am a lady and if you cannot respect any of this, don't waste my time or yours. ;) Thanks.I don't really have a "type" or am I actively "looking for" something. But here is a list of a few things I am attracted to:A great smileKind eyesHonestyStrength (and no, I don't mean big muscles)LoyaltyCompassionLaughterNot taking everything seriouslyPDAPrideSincerityConfidence (not to be confused with arrogance)True friendshipThe ability to laugh at yourselfMorals & EthicsVolunteering (caring about others)Ok, I guess I could go on forever so I will just stop here lol. If I haven't scared you off & you'd like to talk to me, I don't bite. Send me a message.. & as long as you're polite & respectful, chances are I will respond. However, If its painfully obvious your message is a Copy/Paste, I won't waste my time (my time is too precious to waste) responding since you couldn't be bothered enough to be original. I believe I deserve & I'm worth the time & energy for a thought-out message typed out special just for me. Lol Happy Fishing, Guys!!

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