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Alice, 31
United States, New Jersey, Haddonfield

Offline, last seen Mon, 02 Feb 2026 18:25:09

About Me

"You want people to leave you alone, or better yet, treat you with respect? Demand it. Make them." I live my life this way. You can't treat me the way I know I deserve? You're out. Life's too short for anything but greatness, and that includes who I keep in my life.I have finally gotten to the point in my life where I love the person I have become and I love that I got there on my own. I don't need, nor want, a guy to make me happy. I want one to *share* my happiness with. "I'm one, not half of two." I could never date someone who needed a girl in their life to feel complete as a person. "You gotta love yourself if you can ever love me." (I live in lyrics) With that being said, I can't wait to find the guy that's going to ride shotgun next to me the rest of our lives. :)I absolutely HAVE to date someone who is as passionate about music and traveling as I am. Guys who aren't never seem to "get" me. My future career will be a tour manager because it combines those two passions beautifully.I have 1 doggy and 2 kitties. They mean more to me than most people I meet. We're a package deal, so if you can't love them then you can't love me.I'm not religious. I think bounding yourself to one religion is the most close-minded outlook on life possible. I believe I was meant to live my life according to myself, not some "god." I don't want to follow a path... I want to create my own.I love video games, especially the Zelda series. I'm an old school gamer at heart. I grew up with Atari & Colecovision. I've owned just about every gaming system there is, except PS3 and the Super Nintendo. (how I didn't own the Super Nintendo baffles my mind!) I'm also not the typical girl when it comes to their guys playing video games. I actually LOVE watching other people play! It actually is something I find comfort in... relaxing on the couch spending my day off watching someone play video games would be a perfect day in my mind. What I'm looking for on here?? Right now I'm only on here to meet guys who share interests with me to hang out with as friends. If more comes of it, then great! I simply don't like to have expectations about meeting someone on here. Physically, I typically go for rocker type guys- longer hair, wears guy liner, covered in tattoos. That doesn't mean that's ALL I go for, but it simply fits who I am so it tends to be who I gravitate towards.PS...-... the list could go on and on! The more unique the activity for a first date, the better. I love dinner & a movie, but come on... you have to admit taking someone to, say, the zoo would be way more fun. :) Plus, how much can you learn from someone while your mouth is full of food or you're quietly watching a movie??

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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