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Kalysta, 32
United States, New Jersey, Haddonfield

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I will tell you that I'm a momma but I will not discuss my children with you so please respect my privacy. I'm slightly cynical, tenacious, hard headed, and sassy. Try to keep up;-) Just kidding! I work hard, I love to laugh, I am family oriented, extremely independent, strong willed, I don't lie, and have never cheated. I am attracted to the type of man who works hard but knows how to relax, who is respectful to women, who is family oriented, who knows how to laugh even at himself, who is physically fit and works out (let's see those muscles;-) I believe physical attraction is as important as anything else in a good relationship. I would ultimately enjoy a relationship but I'm not rushing into anything. If one date turns into two dates then great, if not, its fine. I enjoy going out and meeting new people so if it doesn't work out, I haven't lost anything and if it does then great! Nothing ventured, nothing gained;-)The rest of this is going to sound a bit rude but it is necessary because of the content of messages I get from the types of guys who send them:I would like to add that if I'm not attracted to you physically or if your message doesn't interest me then I won't likely respond. I'll be forthright here... the very first thing that I am going to do is look at your pics. If you don't have pics, I probably won't respond to your message unless it is super interesting. Also, if I look at your pics and I am not attracted to you, I will not waste your time or mine. To clarify, I am not saying you aren't attractive, you just aren't attractive to me. Physical attraction isn't everything but it is a big thing. If I have not responded to two messages from you, please stop messaging me. Sorry!Disclaimer: I am NOT on here looking for sex. If I want it, it's available without finding a complete stranger to get with. I am not seeking it so if that is what your interest is in me, press on elsewhere. Also, fellas, come on. Athletic and toned means a six pack, not a twelve pack... if your belly sticks past your pants then you can not classify yourself with the guys who actually put effort forth to being athletic and toned. You aren't anywhere close! Also, my father is in his early fifties. If you're within ten years there, we are a no go. On the opposite end of that spectrum, I am not interested in being with a young 20's something guy. I am sure you are great but you're just too young for me. Best of luck! BTW: my headlines don't mean anything... so don't be so offended! Honestly, some of you guys are as bad as women! lol I'm not a dinner and movie kind of gal. Lets keep it casual or make it really fun as long as it's not stressful and awkward!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    New to the area and getting back into the dating world, have some friends who've had luck online so here goes..looking for someone to enjoy my downtime with who's like me, honest, funny, sarcastic, intelligent but down to earth, laid back and family oriented. I enoy the beach, kayaking, overcoming stagefright at karaoke, am a bowling shark (its like a pool shark but with heavier balls) movies, both good and bad TV and love a good book/kindle download-no they're not the same but I appreciate both...Enough for now?So just changed my profile to wants a relationship...it is what I would eventually want dating to lead to but not looking to "jump back in" that quickly so thought dating would be a good start. Apparently though that leads some men to believe that you really just want to hook up. So sorry to mislead them as their messages were so fascinating. Ha. So if that's what you're on here for feel free to keep moving. If you're looking for a little something more I'd love to chat. This is a horrible prompt to have to fill out. Am I supposed to describe my actual first date? Seventh grade was awhile ago so I don't think it has much effect on my dating decisions now. Or how I would want my next first date to go? I think for most people on this site the next first date they go on is going to involve food and some form of a fermented beverage, be that wine, beer or something harder. I would probably try to stick to wine or beer for safety's sake- I don't know you yet so tequila comes later. Maybe I should plan a sunset picnic on the beach for you but let's be real with each other, I don't own a picnic basket. I could maybe wrangle up a cooler if need be. So if you're into beach blanket picnics I'm down but you'll be carrying the supplies!

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  • Venetta from Haddonfield | Woman | 34 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I am a young professional looking for someone with similar interests. I love music, reading, trying different foods and adore travelling to different parts of the world. My latest trips include the South of Spain and NYC. My ideal partner is witty, successful, kind, caring and values family. Im looking for someone who is fun and enjoys seeing the world! While enjoying travelling is not a deal breaker, it would be nice to have a partner who enjoys doing that as well.Im not big into the outdoors, I prefer to stay inside, enjoying a dinner or a martini with friends or simply staying in and watching a movie. While having a child is not a big priority of mine, if it happens it happens. Ive learned from experience that finding someone who is OPEN to the idea is probably the best. I dont like to set any limits on myself, one never knows what life can bring and when one can change their minds :).

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  • Ping from Haddonfield | Woman | 35 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    First, I'm not very good at talking about myself. If you ask, I'll answer. :) A little about me...I've been single for a few years now, dating seems much harder and complicated than I remember. Lol At any rate, I'm easy-going, love my job, travel as much as I can, enjoy challenges, look for the best in people, and try to make memories each day. I am not perfect and I don't expect anyone else to be either. I'm very passionate about things but I pick my battles, not everything needs to be an issue.I own t-shirts that say "Save the shire", "As you wish", lots of Justice League stuff. Anything else, just ask and I'll tell ya. First dates should be casual, over the top seems silly. A nice place to sit and talk, have some food, and relax. Creative first dates are impressive, but usually stressful.

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