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Kalysta, 32
United States, New Jersey, Haddonfield

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I will tell you that I'm a momma but I will not discuss my children with you so please respect my privacy. I'm slightly cynical, tenacious, hard headed, and sassy. Try to keep up;-) Just kidding! I work hard, I love to laugh, I am family oriented, extremely independent, strong willed, I don't lie, and have never cheated. I am attracted to the type of man who works hard but knows how to relax, who is respectful to women, who is family oriented, who knows how to laugh even at himself, who is physically fit and works out (let's see those muscles;-) I believe physical attraction is as important as anything else in a good relationship. I would ultimately enjoy a relationship but I'm not rushing into anything. If one date turns into two dates then great, if not, its fine. I enjoy going out and meeting new people so if it doesn't work out, I haven't lost anything and if it does then great! Nothing ventured, nothing gained;-)The rest of this is going to sound a bit rude but it is necessary because of the content of messages I get from the types of guys who send them:I would like to add that if I'm not attracted to you physically or if your message doesn't interest me then I won't likely respond. I'll be forthright here... the very first thing that I am going to do is look at your pics. If you don't have pics, I probably won't respond to your message unless it is super interesting. Also, if I look at your pics and I am not attracted to you, I will not waste your time or mine. To clarify, I am not saying you aren't attractive, you just aren't attractive to me. Physical attraction isn't everything but it is a big thing. If I have not responded to two messages from you, please stop messaging me. Sorry!Disclaimer: I am NOT on here looking for sex. If I want it, it's available without finding a complete stranger to get with. I am not seeking it so if that is what your interest is in me, press on elsewhere. Also, fellas, come on. Athletic and toned means a six pack, not a twelve pack... if your belly sticks past your pants then you can not classify yourself with the guys who actually put effort forth to being athletic and toned. You aren't anywhere close! Also, my father is in his early fifties. If you're within ten years there, we are a no go. On the opposite end of that spectrum, I am not interested in being with a young 20's something guy. I am sure you are great but you're just too young for me. Best of luck! BTW: my headlines don't mean anything... so don't be so offended! Honestly, some of you guys are as bad as women! lol I'm not a dinner and movie kind of gal. Lets keep it casual or make it really fun as long as it's not stressful and awkward!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Latin Canadian South American Crime Martial Arts Mystery Romance Basketball Dirt Bike Racing Soccer / Football Tennis
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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    ME: I love so many things movies, dancing, camping, swimming, anything that has me going in a positive direction. First thing about me is that I was married for over 14 years and during that time I had 4 daughters that are my pride and joy so if that scares you then don't bother. Another one of my favorite things is putting on a movie and falling asleep in a pile of cuddly kids. I have my act together and work hard. That being said I am a huge dork and love being around people, get along with anyone unless you act as if you are better then others. I love life and live it to the best of my ability and attitude and I hope to one day share that with someone like minded. YOU: I am attracted to men that work hard and can get dirty but can clean up and take a girl out for a fun night. I can get down with a junk food party every once and a while but I like to eat healthy and would like to be with someone who desires a healthy life also. I am not looking for a man that looks like he has been carved out of stone I actually like a belly on a man as well.If you are interested say hi. If you want a hook up then keep looking because Im not here for that.. HAPPY FISHING BOYS! something spontaneous sounds great.

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I am thirty-four and finally at a point where I appreciate what's really in a person's heart. I love to laugh and make others laugh. It's pretty hard for me to have a bad day because I have so many things to be grateful for. I'd love to meet someone that is relaxed and comfortable in their own skin.I'd like to clarify a few things:Accountability is a must. I don't want to invest myself in someone that is incapable of keeping their word.Men without a sense of humor need not bother with me; I'd hate to end up offending your delicate sensibilities my sometimes off-the-wall sarcasm.I know my worth, so if it's not obvious to you what yours is then maybe it would be best to explore that before approaching me.I am completely open minded about relationships and have few boundaries. However the ones I do have need to be respected. I wouldn't violate yours, sooo...If this sounds reasonable to you then I'd love to get to know you. I may not be be every man's cup of tea. I may be hard for some to love, but when I love- I love hard. Nothing set in stone. I love to be surprised and spontaneity will earn you points. Don't be afraid to learn something with me by trying new things together. Just be sure to check your ego at the door. Life's too short to have a stick up your...

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  • Lesha from Haddonfield | Woman | 35 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    My personal faith walk with Christ defines who I am. I want someone as in love with Jesus as I am. I need someone confident, mature, fun loving, a good man of character, dependable, considerate, and genuine. I need a guy that's a leader, very articulate, a man of his word, and a man that goes the extra mile! I want a man that will challenge me to be my best self and inspire me by his example. I am a pretty detail oriented person, I'm a great finisher, witty, devoted, open minded, and consistent. I'm a straight forward, no nonsense kinda girl and I'd love a man that can handle that. I appreciate direct communication that is still respectful and sensitive to the other person's feelings. When I love, I love hard! I expect a lot but I also give a whole lot too so no double standards here.I want someone in full-time ministry such as a worship leader/pastor. I love to sing and worship the Lord so helping lead worship and teaching the Bible are right up my alley. I'd love a man that's passionate about helping people and passionate about music! I have a huge vision for my life and want a partner that's not afraid of chalIenges and some adventure along the way! IMPORTANT: 1. Serious inquiries only, please. I really want what I've described above and I'm just not gonna settle. 2. I am interested in single, widowed, or divorced love interests, the last thing I need is drama.3. If you message me with simply a "Hi, how r u?" I will not respond b/c I certainly need and want much more effort and creativity from a man to keep my interest. I was getting too many of these and it gets mundane.4. If you message me and I don't respond that means I'm simply not interested, I don't want to waste our time. I use to give a courtesy response but due to a recent circumstance I will no longer do so.Thanks for reading my profile and I wish everyone the best, never give up on your dreams! :) I've found it's more about who I'm with than what I'm doing. Dinner is probably ideal for the 1st date. Where, etc.? Do some research and surprise me!

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