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Kalysta, 32
United States, New Jersey, Haddonfield

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About Me

I will tell you that I'm a momma but I will not discuss my children with you so please respect my privacy. I'm slightly cynical, tenacious, hard headed, and sassy. Try to keep up;-) Just kidding! I work hard, I love to laugh, I am family oriented, extremely independent, strong willed, I don't lie, and have never cheated. I am attracted to the type of man who works hard but knows how to relax, who is respectful to women, who is family oriented, who knows how to laugh even at himself, who is physically fit and works out (let's see those muscles;-) I believe physical attraction is as important as anything else in a good relationship. I would ultimately enjoy a relationship but I'm not rushing into anything. If one date turns into two dates then great, if not, its fine. I enjoy going out and meeting new people so if it doesn't work out, I haven't lost anything and if it does then great! Nothing ventured, nothing gained;-)The rest of this is going to sound a bit rude but it is necessary because of the content of messages I get from the types of guys who send them:I would like to add that if I'm not attracted to you physically or if your message doesn't interest me then I won't likely respond. I'll be forthright here... the very first thing that I am going to do is look at your pics. If you don't have pics, I probably won't respond to your message unless it is super interesting. Also, if I look at your pics and I am not attracted to you, I will not waste your time or mine. To clarify, I am not saying you aren't attractive, you just aren't attractive to me. Physical attraction isn't everything but it is a big thing. If I have not responded to two messages from you, please stop messaging me. Sorry!Disclaimer: I am NOT on here looking for sex. If I want it, it's available without finding a complete stranger to get with. I am not seeking it so if that is what your interest is in me, press on elsewhere. Also, fellas, come on. Athletic and toned means a six pack, not a twelve pack... if your belly sticks past your pants then you can not classify yourself with the guys who actually put effort forth to being athletic and toned. You aren't anywhere close! Also, my father is in his early fifties. If you're within ten years there, we are a no go. On the opposite end of that spectrum, I am not interested in being with a young 20's something guy. I am sure you are great but you're just too young for me. Best of luck! BTW: my headlines don't mean anything... so don't be so offended! Honestly, some of you guys are as bad as women! lol I'm not a dinner and movie kind of gal. Lets keep it casual or make it really fun as long as it's not stressful and awkward!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Latin Canadian South American Crime Martial Arts Mystery Romance Basketball Dirt Bike Racing Soccer / Football Tennis
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