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Shaye, 34
United States, New Jersey, Haddonfield

Offline, last seen Mon, 02 Feb 2026 18:28:53

About Me

Many people say they want unconditional love but what many people really want is for someone to give to them ***percent without giving anything in return. I believe everything in life has a price and it's unfair and unrealistic to expect everything from a person and demand so much without doing the same over even a fraction. If you love someone you love someone meaning you'll always be there for that person no matter what and nothing will change that. Honesty, compassion, understanding, someone who isn't going to play games, and a mature person who can handle their own, this is what I want and need. I'm not looking for that perfect person because they don't exist but I am looking for that real person who can be my equal and maybe more. I need a man who can not only be there but also support me in my decisions. I don't want any of these little boys running around thinking they men just because they have a kid or they making money. Life is about a lot more than money and clothes or cars and if you don't know that then we have absolutely nothing to talk aboutANOTHER THING IM NOT NO HOE SO DNT ASK ME FOR SEX FOR MONEY OR NOTHING LIKE THAT IF I NEED THINGS I GET THEM MYSELF IM A STRONG INDEPENDENT WOMEN SO IF THATS ALL U WANT DNT HIT ME UP CUZ TRUST U WILL BE *** HAVE BLESSED DAYHere is the thing i dnt get y men show interest say they wanna meet then weekend rolls around and then they vanish........there r few things that pop into my head 1. girlfriend 2. your jus not that into me "Ive gone through the fire, & i've been through the flood, i've been broken into pieces, seen lightening flash from above. BUT through it all I remember that he loves me & he cares, & he'll never put more on me, that I can't bare..love that song -It's never wrong to praiseStop worryin about someone that is not worried bout u.... Never leave ur key of happiness in someone else's pocket........ I HATE LIERS HATE HATE HATE SO PLZ BE REAL CUZ IM A MOTHER AND I WILL FIND OUT IF I COULDA WROTE THIS ANY BIGGER I WOULD HAVE so my idea of a first date maybe going out to dinner talking to get to know one another not a good first date asking to come to my house

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Funk Adventure Music American Football
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