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Alissa, 35
United States, New Jersey, Glassboro

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About Me

"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be?" - Marianne WilliamsonSo, who am I? That is, after all, what a "self-summary" is all about, right?Who and what I am is constantly changing and evolving into bigger and better things. Today, however, I am a tattooed single mom, a college student, a BBW, an animal lover, educated, sexy, intelligent, sweet, smart ass, honest, outspoken, independent, strong-willed, a lover of life, often times quirky, child-like at times, and many more things, some of which I haven't even discovered yet.**sad face**), fast cars, motorcycles, sci-fi, horror, doomsday, and drama movies, horse back riding, snorkeling, boating, ocean fishing, sunsets (I AM a woman, after all lol), comedy clubs, and on occasion...a bar or club.I'm a very positive person, looking to surround myself with equally positive people. I've worked hard and have come a long way from where I used to be and I don't have the time nor the desire to be around those that are pessimistic and don't see their lives going anywhere.Oh, and I love to sing but can't carry a tune to save my life. I sound like a dying cat, but hey...I know it and if you laugh at me when I sing, I promise I won't hold it against you LOL.I'm a full time honor student. I'm currently working towards my AA. Once I'm done at community (Dec ***, I'll be transferring to a University to earn my Bachelors in Child Psychology or Social Work...and I will probably continue on to my Masters.I'm a very positive person, looking to surround myself with equally positive people. I've worked hard and have come a long way from where I used to be and I don't have the time nor the desire to be around those that are pessimistic and don't see their lives going anywhere. I love and am passionate about anything having to do with the legal system, medicine, criminology, and psychology. I also enjoy history and shows on channels like National Geographic, Animal Planet, and The History Channel.Some of my favorite shows include The Walking Dead (Zombies? Hell yeah!), Criminal Minds (I wanna be Dr Reid when I grow up!), House, Scandal, Law & Order SVU, Survivor, and Amazing Race (the only 2 reality shows I watch), Deception, and Undercover Boss (the endings always make me cry lol). Sci-fi (I LOVE anything related to space/astronomy! I prefer a first date to start out simple with maybe a lunch or dinner. If we think we click, then we can plan on doing something else afterwards. If not, then we're not stuck with each other for several more hours, or hoping for that "emergency" phone call from a friend lol.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

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