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Neida, 34

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About Me

Does anybody else find it a bit awkward to sum yourself up in words? Well, here I go... First and foremost, I like to have fun. Fun, for me, can be looking for cool leaves or bugs, playing hockey, coloring, or making silly music with my five year old son. It can be going for a walk with just my music, thoughts and smiles from random passersby. It can be hanging out with my best friends on our spontaneous random nights out on the town. It can be watching college football (Go Hawkeyes!), Blues hockey, NFL, or playing catch with family or friends. It can also be curled up reading a thought provoking book listening to great music (especially on a cold, rainy day).I love to laugh -often at myself! I have been told, and I tend to agree, that I am quite silly. I like to think I am quick witted. I like a man that can challenge me on that level. Humor is sexy! So if you love to laugh (at a cheesy joke, a witty comeback, at yourself, or sometimes with/at me), then you're cool in my book! I am a go with the flow kinda girl. Life is too short to get wrapped up in the nonsense. Don't get me wrong, I take my responsibilities quite serious. But with all I've experienced so far in my life, I've learned to not sweat the small stuff. Life should be appreciated and valued. And more importantly it should be lived.I enjoy being active. I try to exercise at least 4 days a week. Although sometimes that is simply running after the kiddo. :) I am not one to sit on the couch for hours on end, but an occasional movie and cuddling makes for a good time. I have also found an appreciation for healthier food options and cooking.As far as qualities I look for in a partner.... I've already mentioned a couple things above, but here's a little more. I like a guy who is confident in who they are and what they want from life. Friendship in a relationship is key for me as well. I gravitate towards guys that can enjoy the simple things in life. I hope to find somebody that would love to have spontaneous days from time to time. I would like somebody who values family and friends. As I said above, I do have a son. So I need somebody who can accept that part of my life as well. I like to take things as they come and see where they go.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Catherina

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I am an honest, sensitive, caring and compassionate divorced mother of two amazing children looking for mr right. Family and Faith come first and excellent communication is a must!! I enjoy doing a wide variety of things and I am very driven. LOVE my job and where I work.I have fun doing just about anything :)I tend to find something good in anyone. I LOVE to smile!!Looking for someone who loves my kids and I just as much if not more than themselves. Someone that follows the "Golden Rule". Here to find my soul mate... First date should be simple.... coffee. Good conversation and many laughs!!Second date... lunch or dinner and maybe a nice walk... fall is my favorite time of year!!Third date... to be determined :)

  • Emma

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I am a professional gal and take my career (that I love!) seriously but not quite so much my own self. Not sure if I laugh with myself or at myself more? I'm outgoing, a people person for sure, smart (and a smarty pants, as my dad would say), funny, kind of saucy and sarcastic, but have a big heart and really really easy going under all that jazz. I'm up for any adventure though photography is my number one creative passion..then its a toss up between volleyball and jogging (I'm thin but athletic/toned ie. I've still got junk left in the right places), hiking, and drawing, and the welcoming feeling of settling into my cozy couch for a movie, and of course, Guinness. I have my you-know-what together and hope to find someone who does too, finds it important to work on growth and finds joy in a good day of hard work...someone that is also fun/funny and positive to be around and likes to tool around and let loose like me. Basically, I adore witty goofball guys...with ambition and smarts. Trustworthy is a "duh" :)..and I want to admire your decisions. Curious to find a cute date, future relationship (wanna "go steady"? Lol...apparently it is near-;serious" in any sense of the word?? Haha:), or some comfortable companionship, and/or also expand my circle of friendships here in Maui. I do miss having an important man in my life to care for and make laugh (and surprise, love surprises)...and vice versa. The good stuff...My life is rather busy so I don't plan to overwhelm anyone, and I'm not the constricting clingy type but I'm also not into being, or feeling like, one-of-twenty by yet another guy (sorry!) that is overprotective of his Maui "single-dom". Respect (and responsive communication) is important (and sexy!)."No pets" just means I don't have any right now. Pets help make the world go round...so does red wine and dark beer!Just a small FYI, profile pics of just your sculpted chest taken in the bathroom mirror that cut out your face kind of just creep me out. Though charm can overcome height, I cant help but be attracted to men that are a bit taller than me, and it's important to care about ones physical fitness/health (yeah, charm does not overcome this so well, gotta take care yourself!), and who doesn't like someone that's just darn cute (in my way of thinking someone is cute, which might not be the norm). Yeah...a job and car are basics, a full grill, and a prominent sense of humor and understanding. No heavy drugs, please. And, I hope you like kids because mine are seriously amazing. I get to kick it with them ***nights a week.If I judge a man other than by what I learn directly, it's from the level of respect they have of their friends, and if that's all good it goes a long way. Alrighty then. Have a great day and best wishes. Cheers! I can have fun in most any environment (preferably not your ex's backyard though). In regards to good old fashioned gentlemanly date etiquette...while I am able to take care of my own (and more) by means of doors and tabs and such...chivalry is NEVER not hot and goes a looooong way :)... so don't worry that I'll be all women's-equal-rights offended or anything by you being a gentleman in Maui. I am a lady and assume that's why you have asked me out for a fun time? Don't be shy :)

  • Reene

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I've never been any good at how to describe myself but ill try. I'm a strong independent woman. I have 2 wonderful kids who are my world. I have a great personality and I love to laugh and have a good time. I always make time for everyone no matter what. I enjoy being around my friends and family. If you would like to know more all you have to do is ask.

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