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Tarah, 34

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About Me

I have two very busy boys which keep me occupied and busy. They obviously come first and if you don't like kids or aren't open to eventually being a part of their lives (not tomorrow, but down the road), don't waste my time. My oldest son has Aspbergers which keeps me busy, so patience is much needed from you. I do know that I'm not here to find Mr. Right Now, but have the hopes of actually meeting someone genuine, caring, honest, loyal, funny, family orientated, and real. For the longest time I thought of what I wanted. I have always dreamed of the fairy tale life with the handsome man coming to rescue me. Those dreams were quickly shattered in the beginning of my adult life. I have since come to the realization that I want someone that loves everything about me. Someone that doesn't mind that I can sometimes be a picky person or that I would love to go for a Sunday drive with no destination in mind. I love to drive! I think that unconditional love is something that is possible with the right person. I tend to love too much because I am a caring person. I am funny, random, goofy, smart, and always willing to try new things. One thing I'm wanting to do this summer is go fishing with my boys. I'm not much of a fishing person, but would love to learn (like seriously learn) how to. That and all the fishing friends I have seem to know the different types of fish and I have no clue... As for physical appearance. I do have to be attracted to you. I know it may sound crazy, but the one part of a man I can't resist are his eyes. In case my pictures don't show it, I'm a big girl. I'm currently trying to change that and it's not easy by any means. It takes time to get the weight off as it took time to put it on. Ironically I like guys that are taller and average to muscular. I'm hoping to find the one person that gives me the extra motivation I need to work harder to get healthier. I don't like to be judged by my appearance alone. I have a lot to offer that special man and I hope you can see that.If you've made it this far I don't expect much. I expect you to be honest first and foremost. I'd like to take things slow since I do have kids at home with me. If I like you enough I would love to meet, but not after you just say "hi." Relationships take time to create. I'm a pretty open person, but will not tolerate being treated like a whore or "just some girl." I have standards just like you do. If you want to get to know me better just message me and I usually don't reply to one word messages.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Laudine

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I'm a mom, and a darn good one. I'm light hearted and love to smile and laugh. Love to cuddle, hold hands, kiss my man and be affectionate. I have a huge heart and a lot to offer in life. I'm hard working, trustworthy and HONEST. Even if that honesty makes you not want me. I'm not gonna lie to you or hurt you through even non spoken lies. Look its simple. No one is perfect. We all have a past and those pasts led us here, (where ever that is for you). I have learned the hard way that sometimes love can taint you and jade you. Sometimes crushes can crush you. Trick is to stay true to myself. I know what an amazing catch I am. The luck guy will also know what an amazing woman can be like. I think most of us deserve to be happy. No matter what happened to us in the past. Lets just make the future count. I have been recently reminded to not let my guard down too easily. Also to be WAY more picky and realize what I shouldn't settle for. Just cause your sweet and make me feel special, until your true colors show (good or bad) Ill know what to do next. Gotta have a car and a job! Cant do drugs, gotta like kids and be willing to sacrifice time to get to know me. I would like a man driven, not satisfied with being mediocre. Strive for better in life. I am NOT defined by one thing, one mistake, one wrong path etc.... I am alive, smart and amazing because of a lot of many things, great mistakes, plenty of wrong paths! Life with out risk, is a waste. Take a chance, let love in. Move with the music of your heart and dance to the sounds of a beautiful soul. And btw, I hate to say this but the last few guys I chose set the bar pretty low.... No more of that. Your gonna have to be one hell of a guy. Then you will deserve what I am willing to give. Be a rock star!! You know what to do if this interests you at all.... If not, that's cool too, just keep the negative hurtful meaningless drama to your self. Its not welcome here. :) Its what ever we wanna do, no pressure.. oh and please do not waste my time if your not serious! I like to be pursued so if u can't do that! Don't bother *** I DO NOT WANT A PEN /TEXT PAL!!!! If your interested show it! Text, call, put in the effort!! That's all.thanks

  • Neida

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    Does anybody else find it a bit awkward to sum yourself up in words? Well, here I go... First and foremost, I like to have fun. Fun, for me, can be looking for cool leaves or bugs, playing hockey, coloring, or making silly music with my five year old son. It can be going for a walk with just my music, thoughts and smiles from random passersby. It can be hanging out with my best friends on our spontaneous random nights out on the town. It can be watching college football (Go Hawkeyes!), Blues hockey, NFL, or playing catch with family or friends. It can also be curled up reading a thought provoking book listening to great music (especially on a cold, rainy day).I love to laugh -often at myself! I have been told, and I tend to agree, that I am quite silly. I like to think I am quick witted. I like a man that can challenge me on that level. Humor is sexy! So if you love to laugh (at a cheesy joke, a witty comeback, at yourself, or sometimes with/at me), then you're cool in my book! I am a go with the flow kinda girl. Life is too short to get wrapped up in the nonsense. Don't get me wrong, I take my responsibilities quite serious. But with all I've experienced so far in my life, I've learned to not sweat the small stuff. Life should be appreciated and valued. And more importantly it should be lived.I enjoy being active. I try to exercise at least 4 days a week. Although sometimes that is simply running after the kiddo. :) I am not one to sit on the couch for hours on end, but an occasional movie and cuddling makes for a good time. I have also found an appreciation for healthier food options and cooking.As far as qualities I look for in a partner.... I've already mentioned a couple things above, but here's a little more. I like a guy who is confident in who they are and what they want from life. Friendship in a relationship is key for me as well. I gravitate towards guys that can enjoy the simple things in life. I hope to find somebody that would love to have spontaneous days from time to time. I would like somebody who values family and friends. As I said above, I do have a son. So I need somebody who can accept that part of my life as well. I like to take things as they come and see where they go.

  • Ileen

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I am looking for new experiences. I have a great group for friends but not full of eligible guys. I am looking for a fun guy to kick it with. Nothing to serious. I have my own house, car, and support myself. I am looking for a guy who has similar responsibilities. I am not about ANY drama.I like going out and find new great places all over the cities, especially patios. I have found some of my favorite spots by being introduced to them by new people. I am all about the hole in the wall/dives. I normally end up in NorthEast or South. I also enjoy the occasional late night downtown. I am not into watching sports. But then I am sure you guys are not into the girl crap I watch either. Although I LOVE going to Wild games. I am really into music. Listening to not creating. I have a slight addiction to it really. I am into indie rock, hip hop/rap, and classic rock among others. I am always discovering new music to listen to. You never know what I will be listening to (way to loudly I am sure). I work in the beauty industry and I love what I do. I am laid back but almost always have my look together. Don’t get me wrong I don’t ‘have’ to do my hair and makeup. But I do for work and I work a lot. I am not a woman who has to styling my hair and put on makeup when I am camping or anything of that nature. But I do like to put my best foot forward so I am normally put together.

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