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Adena, 51
United States, New Jersey, Cape May

Offline, last seen Mon, 23 Feb 2026 01:56:29

About Me

I don't even have a return ticket home yet and I'm not in any hurry to go back. But I am taking this opportunity to help with my Grandfather's care and keeping an open mind as to where this is leading me. Hello....I'm glad you stopped by. I am hoping to be in the right place at the right time to meet the right fellow. I live in the rural neck of the woods and I am ready to share my life. It's hard to find a good match in such a small pond. I am blessed with a home and beautiful surroundings but I am not necessarily anchored here. I am open-minded about life. I believe what goes around comes around and try to live my life with that in mind. I appreciate all types of music like Blues, Jazz, Classic Rock, Country, and some Rap can be fun to dance to. I also enjoy music from the 50's and 60's. Remember songs like, "; "; "Downtown," "This Guy's in Love," "I Only Have Eyes for You," "Cherish," "; "I Say a Little Prayer for You," "You're Just Too Good to be True (I Love You Baby)?" Ok, sappy, but I like it. And...ok....totally by accident (of course), I was listening to an old Bee Gee's YouTube upload....The greatest songs, I believe it was called.... like.... "More Than a Woman to Me," (amongst others) and I rather enjoyed it. I would like to be more active (it's better when you can do things with someone). Clubs, dinner, rides at the fair, and traveling would be fun. I would also like someone to show me some of their interests such as golf or snow skiing if that's what you like. I also like hanging out at home, watching TV, surfing the web, walks, cooking or making a garden with someone special. I have done many different things in life. I used to play and sing in a band, worked with the elderly, worked with children, and developmentally challenged adults and children. I have worked in a restaurant/pub during the day. I am one math class away from an associates degree (I'm not much of a math girl). But over all I would consider myself a musician/singer more than anything else. Harmony has always come naturally to me and it would really be a plus if we could share that interest. I'm not afraid of a microphone and a stage :) I don't like control freaky types of people but that doesn't mean I don't like someone to lead or guide, or even protect as a gentleman would do. I am not threatened by a more traditional type of relationship. I would like to find my best friend and it turn into love or vice versa. Someone who makes me feel like I want to be a better person and who finds that in me as well. Someone who accepts this red head exactly the way I am. I am honest, loyal, giving and an individual. Very Much luck to you. > ´¯`·.¸¸..> ·´¯`·.¸¸..> A coffee shop sounds cool...or Walmart, where we can push each other around on a grocery cart and have a frozen coke ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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