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Harlow, 53
United States, New Jersey, Cape May

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About Me

About me: I’m from back east originally, so I'm kind of animated when I’m passionate about something, which is pretty often. I think most of my friends would probably describe me as fun, easy-going and relaxed with high energy, a positive attitude and a zest for life. I'm a good listener and communicator, with a big heart and a generous spirit. I have a large, varied menagerie of friends, for whom I'm very grateful. I can be hippy, goofy, beachy casual one moment, and elegant, professional and sophisticated the next. I'm very progressive and politically liberal, but also traditional about some things. I have a very varied career path, have run a few small businesses, and love variety and being creative. I just became an empty-nester, and I am ready for a relationship with the right guy who no longer has kids at home, or at least getting close to leaving home. Within a committed relationship, strong physical chemistry and plenty of touch and affection is really important to me. Not afraid of PDA :).About you: l love engaging with INTELLIGENT, interesting, multi-faceted people. I am attracted to men who are passionate, insightful, curious, funny, educated, accomplished, attractive, extraverted, financially secure, open-minded, generous, communicative and very affectionate. You already have a posse of friends and/or extended family of your own and are happy and secure with who you are. You are in touch with the spiritual connection we all have with one another. It's a given for me that you are honest, kind, and caring, with high integrity. I'm looking forward to engaging in drama-free and positive interactions. I have been very fortunate, have 2 wonderful grown daughters, get along with my ex, and hope you have been just as lucky. Ok, so it's a tall order, I know, but why not put out there what I really want?I love being outdoors and staying active and fit, hiking, biking, skiing, taking adventures, playing strategy card and board games, exploring new places, activities, traveling, going to concerts and movies.This is such a great age, where we feel secure with who we are and know what we want and are not afraid to ask for it. ;) I love to take a beach walk on the first meetup, relaxed way to talk. I'm really pretty open....Feel free to ask me whatever you'd like to know about me, just please make it a 2-way conversation, where you show your interest in getting to know me too. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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