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Opal, 53
United States, New Jersey, Cape May

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Hi! I have three boys that are the light of my life. Two are with me 50% of the time, but they are getting older & it's no longer cool to hang out with mom. The other is proudly serving our country in the Army. I work in the commercial real estate field, and am involved in a couple charities that near & dear to my heart.I have a quirky sense of humor and have been called as smarta$$ on more than one occasion. Levity is an essential part of life....much like breathing. My major pet peeves are bad grammar and tardiness. I am not a couch potato and I'm not interested in anyone who is.. Fitness and health is extremely important to me, and for me not working out on a daily basis is simply not an option. I'm not going to be interested in anyone who does not share a commitment to being fit and healthy. Don't misinterpret the above to mean you have to workout everyday. If you can stay in shape working out only a few days a week, you are the lucky one! :)Ok the "body type"...I have is set as undisclosed because I don't think any of the descriptions fit. I am certainly not average and athletic doesn't fit since I don't play any sports. My pictures are recent, so you can pick the adjective.I love to travel; It is where I am from, and all my family is there.If you want to know more, please ask. I will generally answer all questions, but please know I am also brutally honest. Don't ask a question you don't really want to know the answer to.P.S.If you don't have a recent pic posted or offer to send one with your 1st ***, I will not be chatting with you.Oh and if there's a dead animal in your profile pic(s)....huge turn off!! I'm not against hunting per se, I just don't want to see it.Free advice for you men: if you make getting to know the woman the goal rather than sex your goal, you'll likely get there faster. You're welcome. Just do it. Endless *** are a waste of everyone's time. If you're not going to follow through, then please don't bother asking to meet me. And if you meet me & I'm not your thing, just say it. Don't just *** & I'll do the same for you. We're presumably all grown ups & can be honest & candid. Right??

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Action Documentary Drama Ice Hockey Nascar Singing
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Hi! My name is B. I am never married catholic caucasian woman with kids from Cape May, New Jersey, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am a passionate independent woman looking for my "best friend." I enjoy the simple things in life... however, don't mistake my kindness as a weakness.I consider myself to be quite intuitive. I read people well.I'm venturing out into the next chapter in my life... I truly enjoy my life and try to live it to the fullest. I am very optimistic and my glass is always ***full. I love laughing.. I don't take life too serious. My horoscope tells me; Caring and kind. Smart. Likes to be the center of attention. Very organized. High appeal to opposite sex. Good to find, but hard to keep (I'm not sure what that means)?! Passionate, wonderful lovers. Fun to be around. Too trusting at times and gets hurt easily. VERY caring. They always try to do the right thing and sometimes get the short end of the stick. They sometimes get used by others and get hurt because of their trusting. Extremely weird but in a good way. Good sense of humor!! Thoughtful. Loves to joke. Very popular. Silly, fun and sweet. Good friend to others but needs to be choosy on who they allow their friends to be. I love music... it always sets the mood.I am looking for trust, honesty and effective communication in you... with mutual respect! I hope to have a dynamic first date with you.... then on to something we both enjoy together! ; )

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  • Aja from Cape May | Woman | 51 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Hi! I am not really good at talking about myself, I would rather talk about you. I'm really here looking for that one special person to spend the rest of my life with. Aren't we all?!? Life is fun and offers so many wonderful oppurtunities...all of which are definately more enjoyable when you can share them with someone you love. I've been fortunate to have a successful career as a sales rep in the publishing industry and I am one of those strange people that really does love what I am doing. I enjoy our great outdoors. I spend as many weekends at my parents cabin that I can. I enjoy traveling around the country by car or plane. I am a very honest, sincere, and caring person. The truth is always the best, even when it's more difficult. I am a do-it-your-selfer. I always seem to have some home improvement project going. I'd much rather participate than watch. My ideal mate would be a successful person who enjoys staying fit and active. We'll have many of the same interests, as well as being able to introduce each other to some new ones. He will have a great sense of humor along with being honest and caring.Thanks for stopping by. I would like to keep our first meeting short to see if there is any spark or connection between us. If there is we can make plans to go on a date to dinner somewhere not too loud so we can talk and get to know each other.

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