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Opal, 53
United States, New Jersey, Cape May

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About Me

Hi! I have three boys that are the light of my life. Two are with me 50% of the time, but they are getting older & it's no longer cool to hang out with mom. The other is proudly serving our country in the Army. I work in the commercial real estate field, and am involved in a couple charities that near & dear to my heart.I have a quirky sense of humor and have been called as smarta$$ on more than one occasion. Levity is an essential part of life....much like breathing. My major pet peeves are bad grammar and tardiness. I am not a couch potato and I'm not interested in anyone who is.. Fitness and health is extremely important to me, and for me not working out on a daily basis is simply not an option. I'm not going to be interested in anyone who does not share a commitment to being fit and healthy. Don't misinterpret the above to mean you have to workout everyday. If you can stay in shape working out only a few days a week, you are the lucky one! :)Ok the "body type"...I have is set as undisclosed because I don't think any of the descriptions fit. I am certainly not average and athletic doesn't fit since I don't play any sports. My pictures are recent, so you can pick the adjective.I love to travel; It is where I am from, and all my family is there.If you want to know more, please ask. I will generally answer all questions, but please know I am also brutally honest. Don't ask a question you don't really want to know the answer to.P.S.If you don't have a recent pic posted or offer to send one with your 1st ***, I will not be chatting with you.Oh and if there's a dead animal in your profile pic(s)....huge turn off!! I'm not against hunting per se, I just don't want to see it.Free advice for you men: if you make getting to know the woman the goal rather than sex your goal, you'll likely get there faster. You're welcome. Just do it. Endless *** are a waste of everyone's time. If you're not going to follow through, then please don't bother asking to meet me. And if you meet me & I'm not your thing, just say it. Don't just *** & I'll do the same for you. We're presumably all grown ups & can be honest & candid. Right??

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Action Documentary Drama Ice Hockey Nascar Singing
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    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I have never done this before, so here it goes.I love rock and country, when I get a chance I like to g horseback riding, swimming, and I llike to cook. I am a widow. I am out looking for my adventuous side again. I also drive a school bus during the week. I am a big fan of sports. I have learned not to take life so serious, but just to have fun and enjoy life. I would like to meet someone that is funny, likes quite romantic evenings, has an adventuous side to they, and is very sweet and can treat a lady like a lady. Meet for coffee at a coffee house or drinks somewhere casual.

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