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Clara, 53
United States, New Jersey, Cape May

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About Me

Hi, there! For example, I want to try geocaching ... would you like to join me? I'm up for new ideas for fun, too!It would be great to find a mature, well-rounded guy with whom to celebrate life. I'm looking for a man with a positive outlook and a curiosity about the things that happen around us. This man should recognize that some questions just don't have answers, but it's still enlightening - even fun - to discuss. He doesn't have to be worldly, but I think that a deliberate exposure to the world around us helps us figure out which questions to ask. For example, what color is the number three? And, how many licks does it take to get to the middle of a Tootsie-Pop?Physical characteristics aren't as important to me as a man's intelligence, sense of humor, coping skills, work ethic, and personality/attitude. I do appreciate a man who dresses appropriately for the occasion, and who has a sense of style (even a casual sense). I don't have a huge ego, so writing about myself is hard to do. I am independent and resourceful, but that's mostly because I've had to be. I'm best as part of a team ... a partnership. I miss: having someone's back and knowing he has mine; discovering ways to spend time with the man who owns my heart; silly conversations that go nowhere except straight to our funny bones; deeper conversations about what we'd change about the world; cooking his favorite meal; snuggling on the couch for a movie with popcorn; enjoying small, casual gatherings together with family and friends ... the list goes on. Drop me a line, and tell me about yourself. I prefer a casual setting where we could continue the conversation we've started online/by phone. Coffee, drinks, dinner ... something like that. P.S. Sooooo, if we meet and you're nothing like the man your profile depicts, you are required to introduce me to your boss, your brother, your neighbor ... or whoever you were describing in the About Me section. K? :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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