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Sung, 55
United States, New Jersey, Cape May

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I enjoy a LOT of things - touch, having lots of kinds of music around me (mostly country), playing piano, dancing, movies, NHRA, motorcycles, traveling, new experiences, dark chocolate! I truly love riding my Harley- Love being in nature, and green things - plants, lushness, waterfalls, the beach, mountains, a starry night. Also love to read, do all kinds of crafts and handwork, sing, go on road-trips, go to the beach, take walks, see sights (famous and not so famous), and marvel at the things that fascinate someone else. Oh, and I love maps. I love going places I've never been and driving ways I've never been (read: getting "lost"), so I really want to spend time seeing the country again and sharing new places with my daughter...and a special partner.I believe a lot of things can be intimate, and can be very sensually passionate - that's a part of me I truly own. I am pretty optimistic. I suppose we all have our "stuff", but I'm pretty normal...and fun. I'm also pretty honest, but try to remember that something honest need be said only if it's 1) true, 2) necessary, and 3) kind. I'm analytical, introspective, sincere, compassionate, and love clean, funny humor. I love simple, silly things, and my family. Like most people, I suppose, I'd like to think I have a lot of admirable personality traits - like being caring and loyal, resourceful, creative, funny, loving, hard-working, etc., and I am all of those things sometimes…but I'm still a "student“ too. I’m learning more about making a contribution by living life well. We’re here to have fun! I’m spiritual but not religious; and find my strongest resonance with the teachings of "A Course in Miracles" and Law of Attraction. I began an Abraham-Hicks/Law of Attraction study group at our Unity church, and it's great fun! I also teach our young teens at church, which is fun. I'd love for someone to share a spiritual path with, while we're having fun doing the other stuff. I've done a lot of silly things - learned how to decorate cakes, took massage certification training so am pretty good for a decent body/back rub (remember, one must give to receive - have to keep the circle going!), have lived in the mountains and the cities, like to be on the water and don't mind fishing - but I've baited my last hook (well, maybe not), like camping and fancy hotels, and have LOTS of varied interests. In other times I used to be into bodybuilding, and still love lifting, but don't train anymore like that. I am, though, trying to return to being fit. I enjoy most all spiritual and metaphysical books, but also get lost sometimes in murder-mysteries! I love lots of movies - mostly ones that are inspiring or comedies. I can't take the blood&guts movies, but that‘s what “guy time“ is for.I'm interested in finding a fun, warm long-term relationship...or wherever that takes us. Marriage is not out of the question, but not an absolute end-goal. I'm looking for someone who is honest and caring; bright, kind and funny, with an intelligent sense of humor; interested in intimacy; financially stable and confident in who he is. I'd like to spend time with someone doing the things we love to do together (although everyone needs their time alone***for sure riding motorcycles, and sometimes they're quiet things, like reading on the sofa on a rainy afternoon, and sometimes they're more...active things; sometimes it's just going to breakfast on the weekend, working around the house, or a little road trip. And I love surprises and sharing surprises. I love romance/sensuality, but think that anything can be "intimate" if you are loving. I do appreciate the courtesies of a gentleman, and yet enjoy a little bit of bad boy and a little bit of country gentleman. I really appreciate a guy who can fix things or work on cars...my dad raised me with these things and I guess it has hung on. If you've gotten a little extra size over the years, it's fine with me...more to hug, but I still appreciate someone striving for a healthy lifestyle. I'd like to be with someone who has a sense of peace in himself. And he can't be a smoker or much of a drinker, thanks (no judgment - I just can‘t have that in my life). If you have enough confidence in yourself and in the possibility that we’ll have a great time together, I’d love to hear from you! Be brave! It’s worth it, I promise. Something comfortable would be nice - a coffee/tea date, lunch or dinner, or surprise me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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