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Sulema, 52
United States, New Jersey, Cape May

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About Me

I enjoy all types of people, I'm a very happy person, enjoy sporting events, wine tasting, cooking, gardening, golfing, traveling, beach picnics shopping, Spending time with those I love. Helping in my community, Love to hear funny jokes, I need to laugh daily. I have two adult children on their own and enjoying life! I just adopted a 4 year old boy in June from Foster-adopt ....... I'm not looking for a father to raise him....... I'm well able to do that on my own, So if your not interested in a women with a younger child...... I don't think were a MATCH ;(I'm a very honest person don't want to waste anyones time Thanks for understanding and I hope only the best for you in your search for love.I Love traveling, exploring new places, seeing new sights, I also enjoy relaxing at home by the pool/fireplace with the man of my dreams, whether it's by ourselves or with love ones sharing family get togethers. The company matters, not the place. Favorite things:My Family, Fresh Flowers, The Beach, Shopping, My Dog, The color pink, Cooking with passion, Professional sporting events, Great vacations, Relaxing by the pool, Spoiling my Guy ;)My Friends say I'm a diamond in a Tiffany setting, I see myself more as "The girl next door" Love those friends ;) Remember how men and women used to meet? We'd make eye contact in some public setting, You would come up to me, and make a clever comment, You might do a little playful flirting, and there would be some banter to see if there was mutual interest. With that as a start, we'd lightheartedly explore new things, share some of the favorite parts of our lives, and just see how things develop, without all of the pressure. This "Electronic spin-the-bottle" has reversed the process. Just from a profile, you already know more about someone than you would on a second date when we were younger. We both have questions for each other, but posing them on line takes away a lot of the fun! Let's try something a little different. Why don't we arrange a brief phone "meet and greet", and just let things happen..... It's ***are you feeling adventurous? ;) My photos are current, please have current photos also...........')WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice. The first date could be anything from just a fun phone conversation, to meeting for a drink,hitting golf balls to a four star dinner. Just having good fun between two healthy adult people. Sharing life goals and dreams.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Opal from Cape May | Woman | 53 years old | Sagittarius
    Opal

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Hi! I have three boys that are the light of my life. Two are with me 50% of the time, but they are getting older & it's no longer cool to hang out with mom. The other is proudly serving our country in the Army. I work in the commercial real estate field, and am involved in a couple charities that near & dear to my heart.I have a quirky sense of humor and have been called as smarta$$ on more than one occasion. Levity is an essential part of life....much like breathing. My major pet peeves are bad grammar and tardiness. I am not a couch potato and I'm not interested in anyone who is.. Fitness and health is extremely important to me, and for me not working out on a daily basis is simply not an option. I'm not going to be interested in anyone who does not share a commitment to being fit and healthy. Don't misinterpret the above to mean you have to workout everyday. If you can stay in shape working out only a few days a week, you are the lucky one! :)Ok the "body type"...I have is set as undisclosed because I don't think any of the descriptions fit. I am certainly not average and athletic doesn't fit since I don't play any sports. My pictures are recent, so you can pick the adjective.I love to travel; It is where I am from, and all my family is there.If you want to know more, please ask. I will generally answer all questions, but please know I am also brutally honest. Don't ask a question you don't really want to know the answer to.P.S.If you don't have a recent pic posted or offer to send one with your 1st ***, I will not be chatting with you.Oh and if there's a dead animal in your profile pic(s)....huge turn off!! I'm not against hunting per se, I just don't want to see it.Free advice for you men: if you make getting to know the woman the goal rather than sex your goal, you'll likely get there faster. You're welcome. Just do it. Endless *** are a waste of everyone's time. If you're not going to follow through, then please don't bother asking to meet me. And if you meet me & I'm not your thing, just say it. Don't just *** & I'll do the same for you. We're presumably all grown ups & can be honest & candid. Right??

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  • Wendi from Cape May | Woman | 53 years old | Aries
    Wendi

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Like healthy living - going to gym, eating healthy. Wants someone who is honest, fun,and willing to try new things. I would like someone who appreciates dogs like i do. i enjoy movies, shopping and hanging out with friends. on my first date i would like to get to know u. What u like and dislike, your hobbies,family and job. What u r looking for in a person. i also hope we would have of similiar hobbies. and of course u would love dogs too,

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  • Emmy from Cape May | Woman | 54 years old | Scorpio
    Emmy

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am looking for a decent man. One who knows how to treat a lady and can value her and respect her. If you are here looking for casual sex click to another profile. I am here to find a serious relationship. Ok, having said that, I take things one day at a time. No drama, just good times without the everyday pressure. Love the outdoors riding my bike, spending time with family and friends. Love a variety of books and music. Good wine and conversation. Tell ya more later if your serious about finding more than a casual encounter. Good luck and thanks for stopping by. Bottle of wine, nice dinner no pressure good conversation. Just enjoy one anothers company.

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