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Sulema, 52
United States, New Jersey, Cape May

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About Me

I enjoy all types of people, I'm a very happy person, enjoy sporting events, wine tasting, cooking, gardening, golfing, traveling, beach picnics shopping, Spending time with those I love. Helping in my community, Love to hear funny jokes, I need to laugh daily. I have two adult children on their own and enjoying life! I just adopted a 4 year old boy in June from Foster-adopt ....... I'm not looking for a father to raise him....... I'm well able to do that on my own, So if your not interested in a women with a younger child...... I don't think were a MATCH ;(I'm a very honest person don't want to waste anyones time Thanks for understanding and I hope only the best for you in your search for love.I Love traveling, exploring new places, seeing new sights, I also enjoy relaxing at home by the pool/fireplace with the man of my dreams, whether it's by ourselves or with love ones sharing family get togethers. The company matters, not the place. Favorite things:My Family, Fresh Flowers, The Beach, Shopping, My Dog, The color pink, Cooking with passion, Professional sporting events, Great vacations, Relaxing by the pool, Spoiling my Guy ;)My Friends say I'm a diamond in a Tiffany setting, I see myself more as "The girl next door" Love those friends ;) Remember how men and women used to meet? We'd make eye contact in some public setting, You would come up to me, and make a clever comment, You might do a little playful flirting, and there would be some banter to see if there was mutual interest. With that as a start, we'd lightheartedly explore new things, share some of the favorite parts of our lives, and just see how things develop, without all of the pressure. This "Electronic spin-the-bottle" has reversed the process. Just from a profile, you already know more about someone than you would on a second date when we were younger. We both have questions for each other, but posing them on line takes away a lot of the fun! Let's try something a little different. Why don't we arrange a brief phone "meet and greet", and just let things happen..... It's ***are you feeling adventurous? ;) My photos are current, please have current photos also...........')WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice. The first date could be anything from just a fun phone conversation, to meeting for a drink,hitting golf balls to a four star dinner. Just having good fun between two healthy adult people. Sharing life goals and dreams.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Love my life but would love to share it. I believe life was meant to be shared with that someONE special, I do not believe it is ever too late in life. I do not act or feel my biological age. A lot of living to do yet. I need someone that will keep up and has an adventurous soul.There will never be enough sunsets in life. Have enjoyed enough of them alone, time to share some with someONE special that has the same appreciation for them as I. There is so much beauty in the sky and the stars. Sitting around a bon fire up at my cottage is so enjoyable, also.I am very independent and self sufficient, but not enough so that I won't accept a last love in my life. I have worked for the same company for 36 years. I am very fortunate to have missed any of the lay offs during these tough times.. Traveling (warm places) is something I love to do, again better when shared :)Hoping to find a best friend to fall in love with. Common interests are very important at this point in our lives. We don't have time to grow apart. No two people are the same and we all have some sort of issues. It is accepting someone for who they are. There will be great times and maybe a few tough ones. Accepting this fact can lead to an everlasting love.I still believe in the Happily Ever After :) Always remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder. That is a positive comment. Believe there is a match out there for everyone, though it seems hard to find. I just read this in a man's profile and I am going to copy it here "I don't sleep with a man that I am not in love with" (well he said woman) I work out 3 to 4 times a week and looking for a similar situation with a man. In other words height weight proportionate and works at keeping himself physically fit. Would be fun to have you join me at the gym.Please understand that if I do not reply it is nothing personal. I either don't think we are a good match or the distance is too far. Thanks for understanding in advance. :) FYI: Chat does not work for me, not sure why.Music: Classic Rock, Blues, Jazz, MotownI wish everyone the best in finding that someone special. Simple is best

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  • Lilianne from Cape May | Woman | 53 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Im a great woman, with a heart of gold, so if your looking just to get laid, pass me by. Really though, im looking for much more than that, and sex wont happen until i know you we care for eachother. I love my grandkids, im very social, and love people. I looking for someone who has the same quailtys. I like long drives through the canyons, relaxing outside on a nice night, and would love someone to enjoy life with. I want a mellow, relaxed guy. Dinner lunch get to know each other. But as i said im not looking or have intrest in someone that jusg wants to get laid. So if your a gentleman, lets talk.

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

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    I like all kinds of music,going for walks,go to the beach,mountains, and going for rides Coffee,movies,dinner just somewhere to talk and get to know each other

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