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Dedra, 51

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About Me

I have an amazing life and want to share it with a great person. I'm happy and secure, love being outdoors and being involved in a wide variety of activities. I know how to balance hard work with adventure. I am versatile and have fun getting dressed in heels and doing a night on the town with dinner and dancing.I work in an office, so I love anything that gets me outside. I enjoy long walks on the beach, either by myself or with someone special. Hiking on the trails brings me next to nature. I have a zest for life and would like to experience all the good and fun things that life has to offer I am always looking for my next adventure. Rather than sit on the sidelines and watch, I like to get out there and live. I love trying new activities and visiting places that I've never been to before. I am now at the place where there is opportunity to be more spontaneous.My friends know me as an honest, responsible, and genuine and fun loving person who has a great sense of humor. I am a positive person and look at life's challenges as lessons from which we can grow and become strongerMy ideal match is an honest and genuine person who has similar interests, family values, is ready for a serious committed relationship, He is physically fit, has a great sense of humor and loves to have fun, but also has a serious side.I am looking for that special someone to share my experiences with and hopefully the future with as well. I desire a relationship that that is based upon trust, respect and keeping one another focused on our mutual goals in life.I am Really Good At: laughing, genuinely, even at the stupid jokes, cooking, kissing, making others feel better. sleeping, LIKE A ROCK LOL. I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve, though sometimes I wish I wasn’t so good at it, playing poker(I'd kick your ass) playing pool, well on that note not sure if I'm good, but i have fun doing it.If you think this description fits you, then I would love to hear from you! P.S. I prefer e-mails to "winks."

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kinsey

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Hi All.So here it goes....first I avoid drama like the plague (so many people in OC are so wrapped up in it and I am not one of them) I appreciate the simple things in life, am down-to-earth, very passionate and playful (do we ever have to grow up?), LOVE to laugh and can be a bit mischevious (ok maybe sarcastic) at times, have a HUGE heart, very responsible, intelligent and love thought provoking conversations. I live life by the "Golden Rule" and am very lucky to have developed wonderful friendships over the years and my friends mean the world to me! I am very easy going and am game for most things. (well..ok I am going to pass at jumping out of an airplane that is in perfect running condition) Love to travel and explore new places (especially off the beaten path), and enjoy doing things like: going to the movies, wine tasting, try new restaurants (love that spicy food) bike riding, hiking, the beach (could never live far from it) weekend getaways, theater, museums, live music and concerts, bbqs, attend festivals, the Zoo (I suppose I am a big kid at heart!). I enjoy getting out and being on the go as must as I do spending quality time at home, (cuddling, candles, a movie, glass of wine and that special person by your side is the best!) I think it is all about balance. I also have a great respect for animals and could not imagine a house a home without them. Whew ....that was tiring! LOL I would love to meet that special guy that would compliment my life. I have a nice life, but am just missing someone special to share all of the wonderful things that life has to offer. Other than my job I do not really have any ties here, so I am trying to be open about someday being able to relocate for the right person.Also, as you can see in my pics, sometimes I am blonde and sometimes brunette, I like to mix it up a bit!! To me the simplest things can be the best if you are lucky enough to have that right person by your side to share them with, so it does not really matter. Preferably something very casual.

  • Herlinda

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I am an independent professional woman whoAppreciates honesty and a man who shows Grace and respect to others. I am a no drama, happy, positive minded ladyWho loves the outdoors. I have a slender, athleticBuild and I look great in a little black dress withHeels or my jeans. I am comfortable in the boardroomOr at a BBQ and I mix well with all crowds of people. I guess I'm a "pretty good catch"" ha haAnd I haven't been caught yet because I haveBeen so focused on business and work that I Have not had time for a relationship. NOW I amReady to start thinking about the enjoyment of sharing With the right person. I am a one man woman andI steer clear of the "serial daters". If interested Reach out to me

  • Dervila

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I'm a very engaging, easy going, down-to-earth woman with charisma and full of life! I checked "NO SMOKING" as my goal is to quit altogether; I do smoke E Cigs, however, which are only vapor and odorless.I love to make others happy, much laughter, enjoying each other's company. A person without humor is void within - life is meant to be fun, enjoyable & fulfilling, we only go around once or at least that's what they say!! Appealing qualities for me is a man with a great sense of humor, DEPENDABLE/RELIABLE (if u make a date w/ me, please keep your promise, UNLESS it's a matter of life or death or work related, I will understand), inner & physical strength, integrity, honesty, sincerity and loyalty. Physically, I prefer TALL men ( 5'10"-6'4") with average build and easy on the eyes. I found my own family many years ago - to give back to others is very rewarding personally and emotionally fulfilling!If we find we are attracted to each other by our pictures, that's a great beginning, but we really won't know till we meet in person to see if there's any REAL chemistry between us. So for this reason, I would prefer seeing you after a few chats *** endless hours of online talking or texting - if you're looking for a buddy or just someone to talk to because you're bored out of your mind, having nothing better to do, or too shy to meet and are a serial chatter, please move on. I am searching for a meaningful relationship, but not one that suffocates and doesn't allow my freedom as an individual; someone who enhances my life as I would yours; someone I can trust & is there for me, as I would be for him.I am a very happy woman, I like where I'm at in life and I know I am blessed with wonderful life-long friends and family here in America & Next trip planed for ***. Besides many other interests, I would have to say music is at the top of the list and has always been a huge part of my life - I play the piano and keyboard, making up my own songs/tunes if the mood strikes me! I look forward to weekend or during the week getaways - have seen much of the USA & Europe.; I believe in keeping fit, not only physically, but mentally as well. I belong to a gym, going ***days per week. I have a curious mind, enjoying reading biographies, philosophy, different lifestyles and far away exotic places. I have two choc labs (brother & sister) and one orange kitty whom I consider my "kids". A kind heart towards our four-legged pals is a plus. Thank-you for reading my profile and may the "gods of fate" bring happiness & love to everyone on this site. Public setting for Tea/Coffee, Appetizers/Drink, Lunch or Dinner where we can talk & get to know each other.

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