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Dervila, 55
United States, New Jersey, Buena

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About Me

I'm a very engaging, easy going, down-to-earth woman with charisma and full of life! I checked "NO SMOKING" as my goal is to quit altogether; I do smoke E Cigs, however, which are only vapor and odorless.I love to make others happy, much laughter, enjoying each other's company. A person without humor is void within - life is meant to be fun, enjoyable & fulfilling, we only go around once or at least that's what they say!! Appealing qualities for me is a man with a great sense of humor, DEPENDABLE/RELIABLE (if u make a date w/ me, please keep your promise, UNLESS it's a matter of life or death or work related, I will understand), inner & physical strength, integrity, honesty, sincerity and loyalty. Physically, I prefer TALL men ( 5'10"-6'4") with average build and easy on the eyes. I found my own family many years ago - to give back to others is very rewarding personally and emotionally fulfilling!If we find we are attracted to each other by our pictures, that's a great beginning, but we really won't know till we meet in person to see if there's any REAL chemistry between us. So for this reason, I would prefer seeing you after a few chats *** endless hours of online talking or texting - if you're looking for a buddy or just someone to talk to because you're bored out of your mind, having nothing better to do, or too shy to meet and are a serial chatter, please move on. I am searching for a meaningful relationship, but not one that suffocates and doesn't allow my freedom as an individual; someone who enhances my life as I would yours; someone I can trust & is there for me, as I would be for him.I am a very happy woman, I like where I'm at in life and I know I am blessed with wonderful life-long friends and family here in America & Next trip planed for ***. Besides many other interests, I would have to say music is at the top of the list and has always been a huge part of my life - I play the piano and keyboard, making up my own songs/tunes if the mood strikes me! I look forward to weekend or during the week getaways - have seen much of the USA & Europe.; I believe in keeping fit, not only physically, but mentally as well. I belong to a gym, going ***days per week. I have a curious mind, enjoying reading biographies, philosophy, different lifestyles and far away exotic places. I have two choc labs (brother & sister) and one orange kitty whom I consider my "kids". A kind heart towards our four-legged pals is a plus. Thank-you for reading my profile and may the "gods of fate" bring happiness & love to everyone on this site. Public setting for Tea/Coffee, Appetizers/Drink, Lunch or Dinner where we can talk & get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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