Total users: 62,538,327 Online users: 225,336
Malisa, 53
United States, New Jersey, Buena

Offline, last seen Tue, 28 Apr 2026 22:04:54

About Me

FIRST OFF: I put down that I smoke occasionally BUT I smoke Electronic Cigs. Coffee flavor. I have been smoking these for a little over a year. So NO smell of smoke on my hair, clothes, or when kissing. WHO AM I: First off, all my pictures are only TWO years old except the graduation pic (been a nurse for 25 years but finally returned to school for that BSN degree) which is from ***. I do have a couple ***pictures and one from ***. I am 55 years young. I tried to be a few years younger due to the age brackets on the site but after two weeks you can no longer change your age on here without deleting and doing an entire profile over. I am tall, Blond/Green Psych RN. I also like Dodger games, shooting pool (I have my own cue), antique hunting, or going on cruises, especially with a great guy. I have not played much golf, but would love to learn how to improve my game. I think I can look pretty sexy covered in mud or dressed up to the nines. Am a tomboy at heart, but ALL Woman. Love my pedicures. Love to laugh and have fun. I am a romantic at heart. I enjoy intimacy and special times with ONE very special man. I have a big heart and am willing to share it with the right man. Have grown adult kids and have a very special bond with them. I am an animal lover and have two Lab/Corgi mix dogs. Enjoy gardening and doing things around the house. Enjoy going to Big Bear and staying at my little cabin. Great place to just "get away" and relax. I really enjoy anything that has to do with water. I Love the outdoors. I think about 70% of me has on the halo and the other 30% is sporting horns.:) I am here to find that special guy. Too many on this site keep looking around the corner always thinking someone might be better, when in reality, you just might have someone wonderful staring you in the face. Don't pass her by, grab her. You might be happy that you did. The way I see it: "You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect - you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there.” WHO AM I LOOKING FOR: ONE down to earth positive thinking guy who can make me smile. I am not needing someone to take me for a meal or buy me a drink ( I hear there are many women on this site looking for only that) but, if you took me to dinner and we clicked, the next one might be on me, I would love to fix you up a great home cooked meal. Am looking for a Real Man, who enjoys boating, fishing, camping, harleys (not a deal breaker if you don't have one) weekend getaways, Vegas, BBQ's, and cuddling up at home with ONE special man. Be romantic, caring, affectionate, intelligent, good at communication, honest, have a sparkle in his eye, and be able to make my heart skip a beat when I hear his voice or see him pop in the door. Hope you are comfortable holding hands and putting your arm around me in public while walking down the street. I like that physical connection. Have my back no matter what and I will also have yours. Be rugged but soft. Be able to dress up in a suit, but more comfortable in Levi's. Please be financially secure. I have my act together and am looking for a put together guy. Come capture my heart, Its available for the taking. I am NOT ***friendly.(marijuana smoker). I am a VERY lite drinker. I enjoy a nice glass of wine once in a while and will have a couple of beers while shooting my mean game of pool. If you like to drink every night or every weekend or abuse any drugs please hit that back button. Thanks for taking the time to read my profile and if we are not a match, I wish you luck and happiness in whomever you find. I am NOT a serial dater. First Date. Well I think it's more of a meet and see.....Hopefully we would agree on something fun to do. I don't think it's the place that you choose to go but rather the company you are with. But if I HAD to pick a few places or things to do, how about walking around City Walk or meeting up and shooting some pool or if you are more daring, a Dodger game or a ride on YOUR Harley. Maybe a picnic with some wine and munchies? I would like to go somewhere we would be able to talk and find out a little more about each other. To see if we click and hopefully look forward to the real FIRST DATE. No pressure. I would like us to just be comfortable in whatever we have picked to do. I am open to ideas. One final thought, ~Women are Angels....on a broomstick. We are flexible like that~

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Caribbean Greek Crime Music Cricket
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Mirtha from Buena | Woman | 55 years old | Virgo
    Mirtha

    Offline

    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I want to find...not someone I can live with....BUT Someone I can't live WITHOUT!I love Dogs. I have 3....A Jack Russel/Queensland mix.....a Bichon and a Havanese...no cats....I am allergic PhotographyHorses......Used to ride and show Thoroughbreds Learning stuff everyday on my computer. Power walksListening to any kind of music...well...some I don't like but give everything a chance.I like motorcycles.Car racing....car shows......dune buggies...roller coasters...traveling...especially cruising...seeing new places...Good movies,with popcorn of course...beach days and Barbecues...rainy days...spooning...IntelligenceNice, sincere smiles Good healthy food...well...most of the time, no smoking any time...Most of all I want that spark and my lifetime love ........someone who has good old fashion goals and wants a great partner...wife....lover.;Individuals reach their greatest potential and experience their fullest humanity when they are involved in a close relationship with another person with whom they can share their triumphs and failures and be unconditionally accepted."Are you my guy??? It's my time for a great life with my LAST LOVE.....Is it yours...Is it YOU????? Good conversation....see if the spark is there.....a walk in the park or dinner in a quiet setting, coffee

    Chat
  • Katheryn from Buena | Woman | 55 years old | Sagittarius
    Katheryn

    Offline

    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I enjoy playing ice hockey, camping, hiking, fishing, and riding my Harley. I have 3 adult kids that I adore; I really hit the genetic lottery. I also have 3 grandkids who always make me smile. I am a vibrant person and love to try new things to complete my bucket list like skydiving, zip lining, snow mobiling, snow boarding and wake boarding. It looks fun.; R, but don't get to go as often as I would like. Mostly tho, I would just like to find a special person to care about and have fun with. But, I am pretty happy just being me for now. I love to meet people and make new friends.Things about me: I like to spend quality time and cuddle but I also like to go out to dinner and dance. I don't need a lot of PDA but I don't mind it at all. I want to meet someone who is content with themselves and in a good place. I want them to be happy just being with me. I have a good heart and I'm content with one man in my life. I like all sorts of music but my favorite would be classic rock or country music. I say.... let's meet somewhere that we can have a nice cup of coffee or maybe a cold beer and just smile and get to know each other.

    Chat
  • Dervila from Buena | Woman | 55 years old | Pisces
    Dervila

    Offline

    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I'm a very engaging, easy going, down-to-earth woman with charisma and full of life! I checked "NO SMOKING" as my goal is to quit altogether; I do smoke E Cigs, however, which are only vapor and odorless.I love to make others happy, much laughter, enjoying each other's company. A person without humor is void within - life is meant to be fun, enjoyable & fulfilling, we only go around once or at least that's what they say!! Appealing qualities for me is a man with a great sense of humor, DEPENDABLE/RELIABLE (if u make a date w/ me, please keep your promise, UNLESS it's a matter of life or death or work related, I will understand), inner & physical strength, integrity, honesty, sincerity and loyalty. Physically, I prefer TALL men ( 5'10"-6'4") with average build and easy on the eyes. I found my own family many years ago - to give back to others is very rewarding personally and emotionally fulfilling!If we find we are attracted to each other by our pictures, that's a great beginning, but we really won't know till we meet in person to see if there's any REAL chemistry between us. So for this reason, I would prefer seeing you after a few chats *** endless hours of online talking or texting - if you're looking for a buddy or just someone to talk to because you're bored out of your mind, having nothing better to do, or too shy to meet and are a serial chatter, please move on. I am searching for a meaningful relationship, but not one that suffocates and doesn't allow my freedom as an individual; someone who enhances my life as I would yours; someone I can trust & is there for me, as I would be for him.I am a very happy woman, I like where I'm at in life and I know I am blessed with wonderful life-long friends and family here in America & Next trip planed for ***. Besides many other interests, I would have to say music is at the top of the list and has always been a huge part of my life - I play the piano and keyboard, making up my own songs/tunes if the mood strikes me! I look forward to weekend or during the week getaways - have seen much of the USA & Europe.; I believe in keeping fit, not only physically, but mentally as well. I belong to a gym, going ***days per week. I have a curious mind, enjoying reading biographies, philosophy, different lifestyles and far away exotic places. I have two choc labs (brother & sister) and one orange kitty whom I consider my "kids". A kind heart towards our four-legged pals is a plus. Thank-you for reading my profile and may the "gods of fate" bring happiness & love to everyone on this site. Public setting for Tea/Coffee, Appetizers/Drink, Lunch or Dinner where we can talk & get to know each other.

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: