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Ailie, 55

United States, New Jersey, Browns Mills

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Before you take your time and read all of this, I do not answer if you do not have a photo. Long distance is too far for a meet and great over coffee or dinner and I do not bring strangers to my house, nor do I go far if I do not know you. Sorry My preference. But I do wish you the very best in finding that special person for your life. Also I have met several special men on here and have dated them, and after the second date if I feel this is someone I would like to spend more time with I get off this site. If you are obsessed with this online dating and unable to get off of it for a relationship with someone and you feel I will not find out your still looking for someone better PLEASE pass me by. I am not into games, cheating and threesomes.Often it seems, after talking to a lot of people that have tried the online dating thing, we look for a relationship on here, we tell everyone what we like to do or want for our lives, and they say pretty much the same thing just in different ways.. A walk on the beach at sun set, camping, fishing, tennis, good food, movies, a play. Yet we never seem to find the right one. They either are older then their pictures, fatter, skinner, don't talk much or too much, and then with out ever giving them a chance we move on to the next one, because there are a lot of lonely people out there. So we can. But if I do not take that chance, and if I do not look for that special someone, and just opt for a cup of coffee at Starbucks, or a nice dinner, then maybe that special one will turn up when I am not expecting it. One day there will be that spark that says "wait, I don't want to lose this one."Is that why your here too? Looking for that spark?"Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. - Dr. SeussDr. Seuss knew what he was talking about...lol. Let us be honest with one another, live like there is no tomorrow and love like there is no other...AND if you aren't ready to find love, don't start looking because love is around the corner waiting to be found...About me, well I am pretty normal, I love life and yes I do love the beach and everything on the water. I love hamburgers, and pizza and wine, love sports, and I am a writer, I really do love to sit at the beach and watch the sunset, and I have no problem walking in the rain and love it unless it is a total downpour, and I can fix my car.( I have an old jeep so I will not be pulling up in a fancy new sports car) I do not consider my family as "baggage." and my friends are my friends and I don't have to "bond" and my life is my life not "drama." I do not do," jealous, angry, rude, disrespectful nor cheat," and if you curse out the waitress because your eggs are not right, well then you are not my type. I love to dance, movies, family and friend cookouts, I attend church regularly, I volunteer at a food bank, I enjoy going about anywhere, dinner, flea markets, but I also like a nice evening at home DVD and glass of wine. Most of my free time is in front of the computer working on my third novel. I would like to find someone that feels the same way I do. Life is too short to not enjoy every day of it. .in fact my motto for life is: "Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body...but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand - wine in the other, totally worn out and screaming "WOO~HOO - What a Ride!"About what I'm looking for?That spark How about a cup of coffee at Starbucks to see if that spark is there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop Photography Playing Cards Chinese German Adventure Documentary Family & Kids Fantasy Volleyball
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