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Alisa, 53

United States, New Jersey, Browns Mills

Offline, last seen Tue, 14 Apr 2026 14:11:54

About Me

A little about myself, I am divorced for over 4 years now, was married for 28 years ( yes, 28 years) have four grown children. All of which are independent and adults except for my youngest daughter who is almost 18. She finishes HS this year. I'm just waiting until my daughter graduates. So if you do not like the idea of traveling in order to date or get to know me then please just pass me up because I do not want it to be an issue.I am not looking for a one night stand nor a friends with benefits kind of relationship. If that is what you are looking for then please do not even talk to me! I prefer a man of integrity and class who has some old fashioned morals and believes in dating and getting to know one another with respect for one another. Call me old fashioned but I think it is an important part of a healthy relationship.If its important you have a woman in great shape then again pass me up...What can I say except that I am not 25 but 53, had 4 children and am overweight. So if that is a problem for you please spare me the drama and pressure of trying to be what I am not and what you want me to be. Is my health important to me? Absolutely! And I like most people my age do struggle with my weight but I take my health seriously and am always working on bettering myself. I work in the beauty industry, I have to look good but I am far from perfect!I love music, reading, walks, especially near a lake. I put God first in my life, then family and relationships next. I strive to grow and learn all the time and look to surround myself with those who do the same. I am very social and love people and kids, like to be busy and feel productive but also enjoy and appreciate a quiet night watching a movie.I am not one of those kind of people who like to be alone and need their space by not being able to commit. I prefer sharing my life with people and miss having a partner but I also understand that no man can satisfy my every need and always make me happy. I am generally a happy, positive person and find contentment in my life through my relationship with God and a balance in my life doing what I enjoy and what is important to me.I believe respect and love are the two most important things I can give a man and I desire a man who has a passion to grow spiritually while seeking a closer walk with God. I also believe that prayer between a couple is the glue. NO, I did not write what i have posted below this but if I had to express what I think is a happy healthy picture of a relationship and what I want, this would be it.......“Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you've never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colors seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.” Bob Marley Meet for a drink. Flowers are always an added touch ( I'm a woman, what can I say?) Do men give flowers to women anymore?

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man
Relationship

Divorced
Have kids

No
Wants kids

No
Ethnicity

Caucasian
Faith

Christian
Body type

Curvy
Height

5'2"
Eye color

Brown
Smoke

No
Drink

Yes, socially

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Dance German Thai Turkish Basketball

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