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Ruthie, 51
United States, New Jersey, Browns Mills

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About Me

The written word. It can convey so much and yet here, on this profile, it seems entirely inadequate. Yes, the pictures help predict a possible physical connection and lists of interests point out the activities we might share but exactly how does one bring one’s essence to life here in this finite box? Because aren’t we all ultimately looking for the kind of connection that surpasses words? Yet the journey has to start somewhere so a blank page (box?) it is and hopefully, when completed, you will have a sense of whether you would like to get to know me better. :)The predictable me…Loving and supportive mother, silly and fun-oriented, youthful in appearance and mindset, loyal friend, committed work professional, compassionate listener, witty and self-deprecating, financially literate and stable, in touch with my nerdy side, watches a little too much tv (I’m working on it!), loves dogs, Starbucks, long walks, regular exercise and smiling -- even when I’m not entirely feeling that way on the inside. The less predictable me…Going with what feels right rather than what is expected, decisions on staying in or going out, my taste in music, responding to a challenge, interjections of humour, loving or hating online dating, initiating the first kiss.I am, in some ways, a study in contrasts. I work in HR, yet am not a very rule-bound person. Not that I don't believe in rules but I also believe doing the right thing sometimes requires understanding the intended spirit of the rules just as much. I believe we learn through our mistakes yet still hesitate about making new ones. Without blinking, I would give anything of myself to my family and friends but would stretch my own self- I am a very social person but prefer having a few very close friends. I’m intelligent but feel like I still have so much to learn.I don’t have a laundry list of what you need to be because attraction is a wonderfully complex thing. It often starts with physical attraction but there is nothing more attractive than a person who truly understands you, maybe even better than you understand yourself. And it's easy to tell when you're in the right relationship because when you are, you are each the better person for it. So if something I have said speaks to you, then I hope you take the time to speak to me. :) A test of chemistry but hopefully more fun than a chemistry test!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian Electronic Mexican Spanish Adult Fantasy Shooting Sports To Work Out
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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    "Life is what you make it"I am a fun, loving, funny, affectionate, love to cuddle, kissing is a must so you better be a good kisser, honest, trustworthy, one man woman. I am looking for that special person to share my life with. I enjoy being with my man and love to spoil him, I want a honest and trustworthy man, one that will love me for me. I have 2 children which are grown. I have 14 Grandchildren and 3 Great-Grandchildren, and I am very blessed. I have lost a son to suicide and my 2 year old granddaughter was killed in a tragic accident. If I can survived that, I can survive anything. Love to lay in front of a fire and just talk for hours. Go for a midnight walk. Just have fun and enjoy life. I like all types of musicI have a Harley and I love to Ride! Something you both agree too but quiet place so you can talk learn about each other and see if that "IT" factor is there!

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am a grandmother of three. I love my family and love doing stuff with them, but I am ready to find someone who wants to be with me, but does not mind being on his own also. He must like the things I like which is hunting, fishing, camping or just hanging out. I like to sit by the fire and drink a beer, but I also like to just hang out and watch my tv shows. I like to cook, not a shopper. I want a man that is ready to settle down and be with me. I dont want to raise someone else, been there and done that. He has to be able to raise himself. If you have an x that needs your attention or help, you are not the person for me. I do not want to have to compete with another woman. AND GUYS IF YOU ARE NOT OVER YOUR X DONT CONTACT ME EITHER, CAUSE ITS NOT FAIR TO START SOMETHING WITH ME IF YOU ARE STILL IN LOVE WITH HER......I have only truly loved two men in my life and was hurt by both, so now I am ready to try again, but will not be hurt again, will walk away.I think the best way to spend a cool winter night is getting in the truck and riding in the woods and counting the deer that you see. I am a simple person that does not need much. I love my Wranglers and boots and cowboy hat. I listen to county and old rock and roll. I am a biker chick also, so its a plus if you own oneI feel great about myself and want to share that with someone special. If you think you are that person, please contact me. Dinner and sit on the tail gate of the truck and talk or riding on the back of a motorcycle enjoying what we see.

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  • Kaylene from Browns Mills | Woman | 55 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I'm looking for someone that is looking for a friendship that could develop into a relationship. I enjoy traveling, camping, Sushi and live life to it's fullest. My goals are to be happy and stress free. I am a very positive person with a huge sense of living and a great sense of humor. I believe that in today's world, I need to stay focused on what is important to life, which is life itself. I traveled and lived in many countries growing up, which makes me a rounded person. I've had a good upbringing and lots of wonderful memories. My taste in music is vaste. I like all music depending on the mood. Not including RNB and RAP. No drama, no plastic, just a real person. I did not grow up in USA so not into sports or plastic people. I love different foods and cultures. Just want to have fun and a good friend as a starter, the rest comes with time. One can only grow into a relationship, once trust and friendship have been established. See you soon!!! Sonia On my first date I would like to find out if I share common goals and interests. I believe that a good relantionship must start with friendship. Then trust. After that, it's anyones guess. You must like a person and have things in common before moving forward.

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