Total users: 62,320,034 Online users: 224,348
Ruthie, 51
United States, New Jersey, Browns Mills

Online

About Me

The written word. It can convey so much and yet here, on this profile, it seems entirely inadequate. Yes, the pictures help predict a possible physical connection and lists of interests point out the activities we might share but exactly how does one bring one’s essence to life here in this finite box? Because aren’t we all ultimately looking for the kind of connection that surpasses words? Yet the journey has to start somewhere so a blank page (box?) it is and hopefully, when completed, you will have a sense of whether you would like to get to know me better. :)The predictable me…Loving and supportive mother, silly and fun-oriented, youthful in appearance and mindset, loyal friend, committed work professional, compassionate listener, witty and self-deprecating, financially literate and stable, in touch with my nerdy side, watches a little too much tv (I’m working on it!), loves dogs, Starbucks, long walks, regular exercise and smiling -- even when I’m not entirely feeling that way on the inside. The less predictable me…Going with what feels right rather than what is expected, decisions on staying in or going out, my taste in music, responding to a challenge, interjections of humour, loving or hating online dating, initiating the first kiss.I am, in some ways, a study in contrasts. I work in HR, yet am not a very rule-bound person. Not that I don't believe in rules but I also believe doing the right thing sometimes requires understanding the intended spirit of the rules just as much. I believe we learn through our mistakes yet still hesitate about making new ones. Without blinking, I would give anything of myself to my family and friends but would stretch my own self- I am a very social person but prefer having a few very close friends. I’m intelligent but feel like I still have so much to learn.I don’t have a laundry list of what you need to be because attraction is a wonderfully complex thing. It often starts with physical attraction but there is nothing more attractive than a person who truly understands you, maybe even better than you understand yourself. And it's easy to tell when you're in the right relationship because when you are, you are each the better person for it. So if something I have said speaks to you, then I hope you take the time to speak to me. :) A test of chemistry but hopefully more fun than a chemistry test!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian Electronic Mexican Spanish Adult Fantasy Shooting Sports To Work Out
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Connie from Browns Mills | Woman | 54 years old | Libra
    Connie

    Online

    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    About Me work full time , when I'm off I like to enjoy myself with family and friends . I like movies nice dinners walks and enjoy the water at night when the stars are out... I just want someone to make me smile again it's been a long time now , eight years it's time for me now let's see.... Coffee Or a drink and see if we have a connection let's hope.

    Chat
  • Adelynn from Browns Mills | Woman | 51 years old | Capricorn
    Adelynn

    Online

    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am an energetic, self sufficient, motivated woman, enjoying my life and my journeyI enjoy being outside: landscaping, camping, fishing, hiking, water sports, sitting under old treesI'm quite social, well read, comfortable with who I am, and accept others for who they areI have always danced to my own music. My children are beautiful, grown and on their own ..its wonderful when your adult children become your friendI dislike people behaving rudely, I try to avoid negativity, too much drama is not cool, Mutual desision

    Chat
  • Sharell from Browns Mills | Woman | 53 years old | Sagittarius
    Sharell

    Online

    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I've been on here several times and met some nice gentlemen. However, nothing serious.I'm an energetic, kind, outspoken individual. I love NASCAR racing! I like Chiefs football, KU mens basketball, The Royals and Tbones baseball. Like country music and older Rock but will listen to about anything. I'm strong in my faith and family. We all know the first date is about attraction. Keep it simple and kind of quiet so we can hear each other. These can be awkward sometimes.......Unless you've lived under a rock, you know after the first meeting whether you want another. Am I right?Let's try it. What do we have to lose?

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: