Total users: 63,040,135 Online users: 227,174
Ruthie, 51
United States, New Jersey, Browns Mills

Offline, last seen Sat, 30 May 2026 06:15:52

About Me

The written word. It can convey so much and yet here, on this profile, it seems entirely inadequate. Yes, the pictures help predict a possible physical connection and lists of interests point out the activities we might share but exactly how does one bring one’s essence to life here in this finite box? Because aren’t we all ultimately looking for the kind of connection that surpasses words? Yet the journey has to start somewhere so a blank page (box?) it is and hopefully, when completed, you will have a sense of whether you would like to get to know me better. :)The predictable me…Loving and supportive mother, silly and fun-oriented, youthful in appearance and mindset, loyal friend, committed work professional, compassionate listener, witty and self-deprecating, financially literate and stable, in touch with my nerdy side, watches a little too much tv (I’m working on it!), loves dogs, Starbucks, long walks, regular exercise and smiling -- even when I’m not entirely feeling that way on the inside. The less predictable me…Going with what feels right rather than what is expected, decisions on staying in or going out, my taste in music, responding to a challenge, interjections of humour, loving or hating online dating, initiating the first kiss.I am, in some ways, a study in contrasts. I work in HR, yet am not a very rule-bound person. Not that I don't believe in rules but I also believe doing the right thing sometimes requires understanding the intended spirit of the rules just as much. I believe we learn through our mistakes yet still hesitate about making new ones. Without blinking, I would give anything of myself to my family and friends but would stretch my own self- I am a very social person but prefer having a few very close friends. I’m intelligent but feel like I still have so much to learn.I don’t have a laundry list of what you need to be because attraction is a wonderfully complex thing. It often starts with physical attraction but there is nothing more attractive than a person who truly understands you, maybe even better than you understand yourself. And it's easy to tell when you're in the right relationship because when you are, you are each the better person for it. So if something I have said speaks to you, then I hope you take the time to speak to me. :) A test of chemistry but hopefully more fun than a chemistry test!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian Electronic Mexican Spanish Adult Fantasy Shooting Sports To Work Out
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Chanti from Browns Mills | Woman | 46 years old | Cancer
    Chanti

    Online

    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-45

    Hi! My name is Chanti. I am never married other hispanic woman with kids from Browns Mills, New Jersey, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

    Chat
  • Aubree from Browns Mills | Woman | 52 years old | Taurus
    Aubree

    Offline

    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I love to garden. I have a 5 month old puppy. I am creative (scrapbooking, photos, decorating, re-purposing). I love animals, but I don't "obsess". They are a part of my life, but I don'I't center my life around them. I love nature: water, sunsets, beaches, parks, etc. I am a bit of a handy woman and would love to learn more. I'm not materialistic, but, yes, I want and need things. I hate shopping. Not fond of cooking. Love an intelligent conversation. Can do without sport talk and sport t.v. I love exploring new music I(not hip-hop/rap or country). I love to help others in need - be it the poor, the sick, animals, etc. I don't go looking for it, but if I see it I absolutely offer my help and follow through.I am a very "social" person and strike up a conversation very easily with people, but I would rather stick to a small circle of friends in the long run. My goals? I just want to adjust to life without my son (college) and start a new social life (after 17 years)! I don't want to go out every night to accomplish this. I want to wake up in the morning knowing there is someone in the same town looking forward to a hug, a laugh, and a great kiss!Upsdate: after just a few days on this website I have learned more of what i don't want: if you feel the need to post a picture of yourself w/o a shirt on - I don' need you, if you need to post pictures of your hot tub, your swimming pool and your entire house - don't need you, if you tuck your tee shirt in your pants - don't need you, if your heavy - don't need you, if you are into watching SPORTS - do not need you, if you message every single girl - don't need you, if you can't bother to "chat", "IM", etc., for awhile to get to know each other before going out on that "first date" - certainly don't need you - that's YOUR DESPERATION, not mine., if you claim you don't have a computer - that is completely suspicious to me and other women that you are hiding your search for woman from someone else, most everyone owns a computer. Hard to believe all these men on meetville don't have a computer!!! Don't lie about you having kids. We are not going to be put off. We'll be more put off when we find out LATER! If you want a one night stand: get a whore, go to a bar, or get an escort service. Some of us are serious! IF YOU DON'T HAVE PICTURES (and that is plural) Don't bother! Ha! Been a while! I would really like to have some sort of a picnic/sunset scenario. I have NEVER had that. Always wanted that. It just occurred to me. That's "IT".

    Chat
  • Josette from Browns Mills | Woman | 52 years old | Pisces
    Josette

    Offline

    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    At this point in my life I am enjoying the de-cluttering process, finding that less is more and the simple things are much more enjoyable.I like a couple of cups of hot coffee in the morning and a couple of cold beers at night.I love intelligent conversation and flirting and intellectual humor and even sarcasm, if you can't laugh at life it becomes much too overwhelming.I will forever believe that mushrooms ruin any food they go near, especially pizza. At 52, I know that everyone has a past, with baggage, scars, stories and memories that have brought them to where they are today and that is what makes us all so interesting now.Like me, I believe most of us no longer deal with the nonsense and just prefer to find the fun.thanksJude surprise me

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: