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Ruthie
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Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 48-58
The written word. It can convey so much and yet here, on this profile, it seems entirely inadequate. Yes, the pictures help predict a possible physical connection and lists of interests point out the activities we might share but exactly how does one bring one’s essence to life here in this finite box? Because aren’t we all ultimately looking for the kind of connection that surpasses words? Yet the journey has to start somewhere so a blank page (box?) it is and hopefully, when completed, you will have a sense of whether you would like to get to know me better. :)The predictable me…Loving and supportive mother, silly and fun-oriented, youthful in appearance and mindset, loyal friend, committed work professional, compassionate listener, witty and self-deprecating, financially literate and stable, in touch with my nerdy side, watches a little too much tv (I’m working on it!), loves dogs, Starbucks, long walks, regular exercise and smiling -- even when I’m not entirely feeling that way on the inside. The less predictable me…Going with what feels right rather than what is expected, decisions on staying in or going out, my taste in music, responding to a challenge, interjections of humour, loving or hating online dating, initiating the first kiss.I am, in some ways, a study in contrasts. I work in HR, yet am not a very rule-bound person. Not that I don't believe in rules but I also believe doing the right thing sometimes requires understanding the intended spirit of the rules just as much. I believe we learn through our mistakes yet still hesitate about making new ones. Without blinking, I would give anything of myself to my family and friends but would stretch my own self- I am a very social person but prefer having a few very close friends. I’m intelligent but feel like I still have so much to learn.I don’t have a laundry list of what you need to be because attraction is a wonderfully complex thing. It often starts with physical attraction but there is nothing more attractive than a person who truly understands you, maybe even better than you understand yourself. And it's easy to tell when you're in the right relationship because when you are, you are each the better person for it. So if something I have said speaks to you, then I hope you take the time to speak to me. :) A test of chemistry but hopefully more fun than a chemistry test!
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Ora
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Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 51-61
I am a BBW..looking for a man who wants a woman with substance, is pleasant, funny, and affectionate. I am kind of homebody, but do enjoy going out with friend now and then..Poker games, camping, just for a few drinks to watch others do Karokee..lol. I enjoy all kinds of music, but lean more towards country and classic rock. I don't know what else I should type...so if ya think of anything you would like to know, just ask.Oh I am a single mother of two teenagers...Need adult company...Don't know what they are talking about most of the time.LOL That would be up to us. A nice meet and greet at a park, coffee shop, or during baseball season(sports bar)
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Layla
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Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 51-61
I've been on this site for a little while now, and although I've met some very nice men I haven't met the guy that makes my heart skip a beat. I'm looking for a professional guy who has a great sense of humor, is hard working, fiscally sound, and values his relationships. I enjoy spending time with intelligent men who are confident but not arrogant.- even at himself! :DI could tell you what a fantastic "catch" I am, but then my profile would sound just like thousands of others - and I'm many things, but not run-of-the-mill. People make assumptions about me when we first meet. I surprise them, even years later. I'm not a thrill seeker, but have the mindset of an adventurer. I enjoy seeking out new places and experiences. I'm curious and intelligent, organzed but not rigid. (An ESTP for those who know about MBTI.)For example, my favorite vacations are pretty free-form. We had a rental car, vouchers for each night we'd be there, and a vague plan of what we wanted to see. Our GPS took us down some interesting roads - we laughed a lot and made so many wonderful memories.I'm looking for a man who is willing to travel with me. Life is short - let's make some memories of our own! For an initial meet-and-greet the standard coffee, drinks after work, lunch, or ice cream work. When it comes to a first date I think it's easier to get to know someone when you have an activity you're both involved in. So maybe....going out for pizza, shooting pool, a trip to an aquarium or zoo, going to a flea market or bookstore, taking a cooking class together, checking out an exhibit at a museum, antiquing (I don't know anything about them but think the history behind things is fascinating), wine tasting, sightseeing or people watching, or finding a place with good music and maybe a little dancing? (Or please, suggest something - I love surprises! ;D )