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About Me

YES we are all looking for PERFECT….BUT, what is really perfect??? I have discovered over time that what I thought was perfect in my giddy 20's is definitely not defined as perfect to me today. Ultimately, my perfect match would be someone who I could sit beside and do absolutely nothing, yet feel perfectly happy. Life's lessons and experiences as well as maturity sure change that. That ol Cliché' of "If only I knew then what I know now" ever so true. I can now see the forest THROUGH the trees. Be a man of integrity.; I have been single for a good while. With having kids growing up very active in sports through the years, I sort of forgot about me. They are grown now and beginning their adult lives. I have a lot of life to live and have a lot of good years left and hoping to find that special someone to share it with. I am really tired of doing this thing called "life" alone. I have had experiences and have lived enough of my life to know what I want. I am not looking for a relationship just to fill the void. I definitely like affection and give it in return, easy going. I am independent and pretty self-sufficient, but I am definitely NOT the feminist. I'm fairly laid back, patient. I am not pretentious or high maintenance. I am soft spoken but definitely NOT the push over. I can get my nails dirty without having a coronary. I am NOT the Barbie girl; meaning I do not fit into the "slender or athletic and toned category". I am a little fuller-figured; basically….I am Woman…I have 3 boys; 2 who are grown and married and the youngest will graduate high school this school year. He lives with dad. My daughter passed away this past year, just a month shy of her 27th birthday. It was definitely the worst time in my life. I can definilty say that I am not over it...never will be...BUT..life moves forward...one day at a time....I have one grandchild who is absolutely my “little guy”. YES grand parenting is a wonderful thing. If you have kids I am OK with that even if they are still at home. I will respect the relationship you have with your kids and family as well as you with mine. I enjoy the outdoors and have diverse interests. I am a Christian, I enjoy the country, sports, both college and professional, not a golfer but would love to learn and join you or just drive the cart; I really enjoy working in the yard, planting new flowers for the season, enjoy fishing, hunting, camping, motorcycles, water, beach, mountains to theater, music, or just grilling out and being with family and friends, nice quiet night in with some wine or other beverage and just enjoying time together. Something casual, a public venue where we can both be comfortable, chips salsa, a beer, margarita, coffee. Where we can talk and get to know each other without having to shout over the noise.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Brook

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 26-46

    Hi! My name is Brook. I am never married other hispanic woman without kids from Browns Mills, New Jersey, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Jaqueline

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Hi! I desire to find the one who will be my partner for the rest of my life, he will be my best friend and love.Do you feel the same way? It seems harder to date now and find love compared to when we were younger.I'm here looking for serious inquires only. Not here for friends with benefits, mind games or being controlled.. If you think you can start talking to me with sexual comments just pass me by. I want someone who really wants to get to know me. Lets just let things happen naturally and not expect me to meet you and go to bed with you. Isn't there a man out here that is wanting to take things slow and not want to jump in bed?One would say I am passionate, loving, caring, understanding, patient, respectful,romantic and can communicate well.I love to cuddle and kiss. I enjoy the simple things in life. Family and friends mean a lot to me. I do enjoy nature and all its beauty.What I am looking for a man is one that is honest, caring, loving, passionate, romantic, can communicate well, has a sense of humor, respectful, shares some of the same interests I do. A man that loves to hold hands and kiss and can show affection in public. I hope your one who communicates well too.I know what I want do you? Please message me if you like to get to know me more. I so tired of the ones who play games, lie and truly don't know what they want.Good luck in your search! It depends on the time of year. Could be a nice walk, a cup of coffee, or going out to eat. It really depends on what we both feel comfortable in doing.

  • Lula

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am a woman in my 50's and proud of that! If you are looking for "arm candy", stick thin with a 20-year old hard body then boy are you on the wrong profile! I am secure with who I am and want to find that special man who sees what is on the inside as being the MOST important feature. I try to take care of myself and I do "clean up" nicely. I have a sense of humor and admire that quality in the man I'm with.I love the outdoors, the beach, outdoor cookouts with friends. I feel I'm at the stage in my life where it's time to ride in the front seat with that special someone, that person who wants to be with me as much as I want to be with him.I've never been "into" game playing and am definitely too old to start now. I'm not looking for casual sex, I want someone to share things with such as walks on the beach, watching sunrises and sunsets. Sharing a good movie on the TV together just enjoying each others company.I treasure honesty and loyalty in my friends and relationships, if this is not something you live by then thank you for stopping by my profile but no thanks. Also I would like to add that I like to meet someone in person to see if there is any chemistry....I am not looking for another *** I am not a big fan of texting. Don't mind talking first and then meeting.

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