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Gardenia, 51
United States, New Jersey, Browns Mills

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About Me

YES we are all looking for PERFECT….BUT, what is really perfect??? I have discovered over time that what I thought was perfect in my giddy 20's is definitely not defined as perfect to me today. Ultimately, my perfect match would be someone who I could sit beside and do absolutely nothing, yet feel perfectly happy. Life's lessons and experiences as well as maturity sure change that. That ol Cliché' of "If only I knew then what I know now" ever so true. I can now see the forest THROUGH the trees. Be a man of integrity.; I have been single for a good while. With having kids growing up very active in sports through the years, I sort of forgot about me. They are grown now and beginning their adult lives. I have a lot of life to live and have a lot of good years left and hoping to find that special someone to share it with. I am really tired of doing this thing called "life" alone. I have had experiences and have lived enough of my life to know what I want. I am not looking for a relationship just to fill the void. I definitely like affection and give it in return, easy going. I am independent and pretty self-sufficient, but I am definitely NOT the feminist. I'm fairly laid back, patient. I am not pretentious or high maintenance. I am soft spoken but definitely NOT the push over. I can get my nails dirty without having a coronary. I am NOT the Barbie girl; meaning I do not fit into the "slender or athletic and toned category". I am a little fuller-figured; basically….I am Woman…I have 3 boys; 2 who are grown and married and the youngest will graduate high school this school year. He lives with dad. My daughter passed away this past year, just a month shy of her 27th birthday. It was definitely the worst time in my life. I can definilty say that I am not over it...never will be...BUT..life moves forward...one day at a time....I have one grandchild who is absolutely my “little guy”. YES grand parenting is a wonderful thing. If you have kids I am OK with that even if they are still at home. I will respect the relationship you have with your kids and family as well as you with mine. I enjoy the outdoors and have diverse interests. I am a Christian, I enjoy the country, sports, both college and professional, not a golfer but would love to learn and join you or just drive the cart; I really enjoy working in the yard, planting new flowers for the season, enjoy fishing, hunting, camping, motorcycles, water, beach, mountains to theater, music, or just grilling out and being with family and friends, nice quiet night in with some wine or other beverage and just enjoying time together. Something casual, a public venue where we can both be comfortable, chips salsa, a beer, margarita, coffee. Where we can talk and get to know each other without having to shout over the noise.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Action History Sport War Western Dirt Bike Racing Ice Hockey Shooting Sports Tennis
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