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Ruthie
Online
Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 48-58
The written word. It can convey so much and yet here, on this profile, it seems entirely inadequate. Yes, the pictures help predict a possible physical connection and lists of interests point out the activities we might share but exactly how does one bring one’s essence to life here in this finite box? Because aren’t we all ultimately looking for the kind of connection that surpasses words? Yet the journey has to start somewhere so a blank page (box?) it is and hopefully, when completed, you will have a sense of whether you would like to get to know me better. :)The predictable me…Loving and supportive mother, silly and fun-oriented, youthful in appearance and mindset, loyal friend, committed work professional, compassionate listener, witty and self-deprecating, financially literate and stable, in touch with my nerdy side, watches a little too much tv (I’m working on it!), loves dogs, Starbucks, long walks, regular exercise and smiling -- even when I’m not entirely feeling that way on the inside. The less predictable me…Going with what feels right rather than what is expected, decisions on staying in or going out, my taste in music, responding to a challenge, interjections of humour, loving or hating online dating, initiating the first kiss.I am, in some ways, a study in contrasts. I work in HR, yet am not a very rule-bound person. Not that I don't believe in rules but I also believe doing the right thing sometimes requires understanding the intended spirit of the rules just as much. I believe we learn through our mistakes yet still hesitate about making new ones. Without blinking, I would give anything of myself to my family and friends but would stretch my own self- I am a very social person but prefer having a few very close friends. I’m intelligent but feel like I still have so much to learn.I don’t have a laundry list of what you need to be because attraction is a wonderfully complex thing. It often starts with physical attraction but there is nothing more attractive than a person who truly understands you, maybe even better than you understand yourself. And it's easy to tell when you're in the right relationship because when you are, you are each the better person for it. So if something I have said speaks to you, then I hope you take the time to speak to me. :) A test of chemistry but hopefully more fun than a chemistry test!
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Amparo
Online
Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 48-58
I\'m a happy person and I like to surround myself with positive people. No I do not live in a bubble, although sometimes I like to pretend I do. I\'m here looking to meet someone I can connect with.
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Odalys
Online
Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 49-59
It's funny what time does; they say time is an illusion and that may be true; but one thing I have learned with the passage of time is that it's better to let things be rather than try to control their outcome.As one of my favorite writers says; "Life is the dancer and we are the dance". So we are to let life dance through us and be O.K. with whatever is.O.K.; enough rambling. I am on here because I would like more companionship in my life. I like men who are intelligent and who can converse and who are happy with who they are. I am not a high maintainance woman although I do appreciate the finer things in life. But my classification of finer things may include sunset walks, watching birds soar, watching a football game at home; doesn't take a lot to have a good time. I would like to travel again; have been home more in the last several years because I have two dogs; a dog lover is a must for me! I have been to Chile, Belize, the Dominican Republic, and various states but not yet to Europe or Asia. In due time I suppose...I think it's best to form friendships first; my Dad used to say that if you can count the number of true friends you have on the fingers of one hand, consider yourself lucky. If a connection is made through friendship, so be it. If not, you have a new friend!Just a note: I have experienced passion in my life and I realize it is not easy to find the ultimate connection I have experienced in the past easily. It's one of those things I think; you know it almost immediately when you've found it. And it is incomparable to anything else; so I for one, will not settle for anything less. A beach walk or meeting over coffee someplace where we can converse and get to know each other to see if there is a connection. Alternatively, we can go hangliding together and take it from there :)