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About Me

It's funny what time does; they say time is an illusion and that may be true; but one thing I have learned with the passage of time is that it's better to let things be rather than try to control their outcome.As one of my favorite writers says; "Life is the dancer and we are the dance". So we are to let life dance through us and be O.K. with whatever is.O.K.; enough rambling. I am on here because I would like more companionship in my life. I like men who are intelligent and who can converse and who are happy with who they are. I am not a high maintainance woman although I do appreciate the finer things in life. But my classification of finer things may include sunset walks, watching birds soar, watching a football game at home; doesn't take a lot to have a good time. I would like to travel again; have been home more in the last several years because I have two dogs; a dog lover is a must for me! I have been to Chile, Belize, the Dominican Republic, and various states but not yet to Europe or Asia. In due time I suppose...I think it's best to form friendships first; my Dad used to say that if you can count the number of true friends you have on the fingers of one hand, consider yourself lucky. If a connection is made through friendship, so be it. If not, you have a new friend!Just a note: I have experienced passion in my life and I realize it is not easy to find the ultimate connection I have experienced in the past easily. It's one of those things I think; you know it almost immediately when you've found it. And it is incomparable to anything else; so I for one, will not settle for anything less. A beach walk or meeting over coffee someplace where we can converse and get to know each other to see if there is a connection. Alternatively, we can go hangliding together and take it from there :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Michelyne

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I'm an easygoing, positive and "OUTDOORSY" chick!I've also been called energetic and laid back.(an OXYMORON??) I love to laugh and enjoy doing most ANYTHING!(with the exception of bungy jumping!lol)I'm very SPONTANEOUS and UP for FUN...ALWAYS! I love the BEACH and anything outdoors...; sand to snow to the wilderness. Motorcycles, quads, horses for sure! Being with those people you love is a MUST! SMILES, KISSES, good communication, and a daily dose of LAUGHTER are SO important to me! I love music and concerts. I want to make the most of what life has to offer me and I want to find that special someone to share it with! Keep it simple & FUN! It's NOT a job interview ;)

  • Luana

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I'm a pretty casual, laid back person looking for someone who likes to get out and explore the city, try new food, go for walks with or without our dogs, hold hands, have a drink, laugh together and make time for each other. I work full-time and have activities I love outside of work but I will always make time for someone special. I'd love to be your happy place.I don't think what you write here is all that important anymore.. people judge by photos to see if there is initial attraction and if so, talk to see if there is a bigger connection. I just finished reading the "5 Love Languages" -- really interesting book. Gave me a lot of insight into myself and what I need, and why some of my past relationships didn't work. It's a lot of work if your #1 language is their #5 but it can be done. The quiz is online at: http://www.5lovelanguages.com We will not be compatible if:- You "forgot" you had a wife or girlfriend- You're great at BS but really just want FWB without admitting it- You're rude to retail/restaurant staff or think they are beneath you- You show up drunk for lunch/dinner- You don't like to touch or be touched (holding hands, hugs, snuggling at the movies***You date so much you just call everyone sweetie or babe- Your idea of dating is never leaving the house (or my house)- Your life is so busy you can't even find 30 free minutes a week- Your first wife was your sister This is usually obvious after a few conversations...

  • Charmian

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    If your reading my profile then there must be some degree of interest in who I am, so let me give you a little insight into myself. At least I tend to think so!!! I would, however, be content to broaden my horizons. I can cook quite well and enjoy cooking for/with all of my friends or that special someone. I am not really into sporting events; however, I can find joy in enjoying another watch a mean game of foosball on occasion. I'm very versatile, I enjoy rock concerts and have seen several interesting shows. I also can enjoy cruises, black tie affairs, horse racing, and about anything else under this great sun of ours. The world is a showcase, and it is here for our enjoyment. I enjoy camping but due to my age I have learned that tent and sleeping bag camping is not necessarily the only way to go.I have four grown children, and have been divorced for about 17 years. While I enjoyed childrearing, I would not want to do it again, four children are plenty and there will be no more in my lifetime. I do enjoy spending time with my three beautiful grandsons. I am somewhat selective on whom I would like to meet, and where this would take place. We would need some great conversation to get to know each other a little bit, to get things started. I am a big fan of safety first.This is what I have to offer.....I am a family person, I am honest, intelligent, educated. I can be fun; I have a great sense of humor. I am a confident, self suffcient, serious type of lady. I have worked my whole life and expect that a friend would share a similar work ethic. I have worked at just about everything under the sun, and well respected in my endeavors. I have done limited travelelling and this is definitely an area of my life that I would like to expand upon. I do not want to come off sounding like somewhat of a snobbish person, but having some of these things in common would be a definite plus!I fortunately still have all of my teeth and most of my wits about me, and would like that to be a commnon thread as well. lolI'm in the healthcare field and enjoy taking care of people at work, not necessarily at home. I am a firm believer in life long learning and keeping fit and active throughout one's life span.I personally do not drink alcohol but do not mind if another tends to abide in such, as long as it is within reason. And I am not a drug user at all.Now, a little on my philosophy on dating/sexual issues. I am not interested in one of these new fangled relationships we like to call 'Friends With Benefits" (which, by the way, is not what I am looking for) and don't want to waste anyone's time, if this is on their agenda. Since there are a few of you who might not know the difference between Friends With Benefits, and Dating:The term, "Friends With Benefits" refers to an agreement between two people who are both friends and physically attracted to one another, and their agenda is to share a sexual relationship. Neither party is considered to be committed to the other, and either (or both) can start dating someone else at any time, with prior warning. Therefore, a "Friends With Benefits" arrangement is not considered dating, a relationship or even casual dating by most people who use the term. "Dating," on the other hand, does not imply that type of relationship, it involves more of a mutual attraction and a degree of committment, and is really more what I am looking for.Thanks, everyone, and happy fishing!!!! I am open to romance, which I would like to think often begins with casual dating and getting to know one another. It takes time and effort, I think, to get to know another person. I work hard and also like to enjoy my time off, and I try to make each moment count. I would enjoy a nice walk in a park, a movie, a dinner for two, a sporting event, or concert. But if you can think of another fun way to break the ice, I am open to ideas.

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