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Deb, 24
United States, New Jersey, Blackwood

Offline, last seen Sat, 20 Dec 2025 02:19:49

About Me

KCCODecided to try this website out as I have had multiple friends suggest that I give it a shot based on their luck. But, to be honest after having this profile up for just a few days, I've noticed there are many "different" men out there and so far this website has been a big disappointment. I feel like I have a better chance of being struck by lightning than finding someone I'd consider going out on a date with...but we shall see how it goes :) I am thee biggest football fan. As you can tell from my headline, I am a HUGE Ravens fan. Please don't ask me if this is because of the Superbowl win haha.Besides attending and watching football games, I keep very involved with my two little girls. I am an amazing mom to my almost three year old and my 16 month old. The love I have for them is indescribable. I enjoy spending my free time with family and friends. I enjoy going out for dinner and drinks, doing karaoke, and going to the comedy club. There is nothing like dirty comedy! I love playing a little golf even though I'm not the greatest. I cannot wait for it to get cold out! Fall and winter are easily my favorite seasons. I wish it would snow all year long! Look it up :)I'm not exactly sure what I'm looking for, but I do know I'm ready to see who's out there. Looking to possibly meet someone with similar interests, but also not really looking to jump into something serious right away.Please say something with substance. Saying "hi" is not going to get my attention. I am looking for someone who is intelligent and who has a great personality. Be witty, be original, be funny, be SOMETHING! I am picky and have certain criteria haha. Quite a bit of men on here come off as extremely fake and materialistic. I don't care how "fancy" you think you are, I could care less. Yes, I'm extremely blunt.*Using correct grammar goes a LONGGGGGG way:) (Your, you're, their, there, they're, etc)*If you have a shirtless pic, please PLEASE do not even bother messaging me. Clearly, you don't have much to offer personality wise if you feel the need to post a shirtless picture. I'm not even remotely impressed about your "muscles." Your mirror pics will make me laugh at you, and your "serious" face will make me laugh even harder. I'm looking for someone down to earth! I appreciate compliments in messages, but please say something interesting also. *If you send me a message and I don't reply, please do not send me another one...have I read your first one? Yes, probably, but if I haven't responded it's because I'm not interested OR get this...I'M BUSY...no way right?!?! Haha, I don't spend ***on here. I will try and get back to you but I have a very busy life and I'm always going. Plenty of Fish doesn't happen to be a huge priority of mine. Please do not ask me to hang out/go on a date in one of your first messages. I would wait weeks before even considering it.*I'm not looking for a father for my children, as they have an amazing father, but I am looking for a good role model. Going out is fun but if that's all you do with your life, you probably aren't the person for me. Dating a mom is no walk in the park...and honestly I'd rather be spending time with my daughters than going on a date. Harsh, but true. If you aren't scared about dating a single parent, that concerns me, you should be. I may sound rude and hypocritical right now, but I'm really not interested in dating a single dad. I respect what you do and I can completely relate but I'm not looking to blend into a whole new family. I'm sorry....*If you have pictures on your profile that have your children in them, I find that irresponsible and VERY off-putting. I will never respect someone who thinks it's okay to basically exploit their children.*Last rant... If you post on your profile about how lonely you are, please realize that this is thee biggest turnoff. Also, please don't be sending messages saying how much you got "screwed over" in your past relationships. Pushy, depressed, and desperate behavior is very unattractive.After reading this you may believe I'm high maintenance, which is very untrue. I am a very sweet and generous woman but I believe in being up-front about what I want or what I am looking for. I am not only considering myself when picking out someone to potentially date...I am considering two little girls and because of them I am going to be EXTREMELY particular. Have a great day! ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

House Pop French South American
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