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Ailith, 35
United States, North Carolina, Whiteville

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About Me

Everyone that knows me would most likely tell you that I am a firm believer in things happening for a reason. I try to look for a lesson learned in everything that I go through, good or bad. Most importantly, I always try to count my blessings and not my sorrows. I am driven, independent, a little feisty and definitely know what I want. I am a romantic at heart, appreciate the "little things", fight for what I love and am dead set on challenging the norm. I will not settle for less than what I know I deserve in relationships and try to always ask for what I want and need from others. I speak the truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. I behave in ways that are in harmony with my personal values and make choices based on what I believe, and not what others believe. So, what would I like in my main man? For starters, he'd have to have a sense of humor, an open mind, be confident, a loyal and honest heart, be adventurous, never say no to trying something new and most importantly, not be afraid to laugh at himself and simply enjoy life. To me a successful relationship contains open and honest communication, knowing that you can always be counted on, a good balance between time apart and time spent together. In the end, it's about making each other better and adding to each other's lives. I LOVE this quote..."People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so out of control that you have to transform your life." I believe that life always has the best surprises for people who refuse to settle for anything but the best and have the relentless pursuit to seek out and appreciate the best...could that be you?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electronic Hip-Hop Chinese Portuguese Turkish Drag Racing Nascar
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