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Aspen, 31
United States, North Carolina, Waxhaw

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About Me

I am a single mother of one, who approaches dating with a kids not included attitude. Goals and Aspirations: When I grow up.....wait....is this a trick? I aspire to kind, empathetic, and a leader. I am working on my degree right now and I have to tell you that I'm the most excited kid in class....hmmmmm....most excited lady in class - often times the only lady. I have a long history of community involvement. My interests include Aboriginal rights, at risk youth, and building parks :)I took a survey recently that told me I was empathetic, intuitive, persuasive, and inventive -pretty much spot on with a side of brutal honesty and low tolerance for stupidity. I'm interested in finding someone who values conversation, ethics, family, and nature. I'd like to spend time with a man who has many interests, hobbies, friends and who doesn't put a whole lot of stock in televisions.I am the happiest I've ever been in my life :) now that's happy! And I hope you are too. I'm ready for some grown-up conversation with a man who likes traveling, dancing, history, art, politics, and cake. Please be:Self-sufficent, employed, not living in a half-way house, educated, handsome, tall, passionate about something or a lot of things, and charismatic. TV shows: National Geographic documentaries, Mad Men, HockeyMovies: not scaryBooks: Historical fiction nerdMen: see aboveMusic: I love the beatles and the occasional house beat. I dance regularly and sing very badly...in my car :) Happy fishing! Can we skip to the second date where I think you're cute and vice versa - much nicer and less nerves

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Disco Rock American Football
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