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Chastity, 34
United States, North Carolina, Waxhaw

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About Me

Sunglasses on you for your main image? Get real.... Take them off.. Your not that cool if your hiding your looks. It's a dating site.. Dress to impress!A lot of people will catch your eye, but to have that one who has the ability to catch your heart there's no other significant feeling like it.....EVER!!So I have been online dating a while. Honestly only met a few guys I would ever want to meet again.Every Time I have met a guy they tell me I'm not the Usual meetville girl. Which they say positively.??? crazy stalker chicks????I won't compromise anymore. Meaning If you can't treat me well, like the classic old school date (though I'm not dependant on this all the time, just to start out) then what's the point. I have some seriously bad/funny stories...I hear the ratio of men to women on this site is off a bit too. I'm Picky guys. Never Married... No Kids... should tell you something...I am fairly independent, I like being active, I like learning all the time.I'm kinda a "smarty Pants", I love my family... All my aunts and uncles are still married....my parents still married... My grandparents never divorced.So I believe in Love and Relationships.I am interested in fit guys. Sure under all that fat on 90% of the guys is a great guy! I believe that, but if you're not at point where your able to deal with your unhealthy body then I believe you shouldn't be seeking a relationship to make you feel whole. You must do right by yourself and your body before you can make a woman happy. If your overweight don't message me... Log off and go for a jog...and tell yourself I'm gonna show her!Being honest is important to me...I won't answer you if: I am not attracted to you, if you're too old, if your too short, if you're overweight, if you do drugs... If you don't have more than 3 pics to prove you're really you then what can I say... PROVE IT Low key, Coffee... If you say Starbucks you get brownie points... Don't suggest a bar if you're smart you know why.If you think outside the box but within a safe range... You will get homemade brownies... lol Though this time of year it's likely Zucchini bread...Suggestions to impress girls:Try a profile picture w/ no hat, no sunglasses and a real smile. I like eyes I think they show a lot about a person, most girls do I think.Those long distance pics that you cant see your face, group shots when you cant tell which guy you are, range of age pictures so no one knows what you currently look like, says you're HIDING something. And Likely I won't answerIf you're not looking for something serious.... again please don't waist my time.I'm not here for Idle conversation regarding my profile....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Country Watching Movies Music War
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