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Sunglasses on you for your main image? Get real.... Take them off.. Your not that cool if your hiding your looks. It's a dating site.. Dress to impress!A lot of people will catch your eye, but to have that one who has the ability to catch your heart there's no other significant feeling like it.....EVER!!So I have been online dating a while. Honestly only met a few guys I would ever want to meet again.Every Time I have met a guy they tell me I'm not the Usual meetville girl. Which they say positively.??? crazy stalker chicks????I won't compromise anymore. Meaning If you can't treat me well, like the classic old school date (though I'm not dependant on this all the time, just to start out) then what's the point. I have some seriously bad/funny stories...I hear the ratio of men to women on this site is off a bit too. I'm Picky guys. Never Married... No Kids... should tell you something...I am fairly independent, I like being active, I like learning all the time.I'm kinda a "smarty Pants", I love my family... All my aunts and uncles are still married....my parents still married... My grandparents never divorced.So I believe in Love and Relationships.I am interested in fit guys. Sure under all that fat on 90% of the guys is a great guy! I believe that, but if you're not at point where your able to deal with your unhealthy body then I believe you shouldn't be seeking a relationship to make you feel whole. You must do right by yourself and your body before you can make a woman happy. If your overweight don't message me... Log off and go for a jog...and tell yourself I'm gonna show her!Being honest is important to me...I won't answer you if: I am not attracted to you, if you're too old, if your too short, if you're overweight, if you do drugs... If you don't have more than 3 pics to prove you're really you then what can I say... PROVE IT Low key, Coffee... If you say Starbucks you get brownie points... Don't suggest a bar if you're smart you know why.If you think outside the box but within a safe range... You will get homemade brownies... lol Though this time of year it's likely Zucchini bread...Suggestions to impress girls:Try a profile picture w/ no hat, no sunglasses and a real smile. I like eyes I think they show a lot about a person, most girls do I think.Those long distance pics that you cant see your face, group shots when you cant tell which guy you are, range of age pictures so no one knows what you currently look like, says you're HIDING something. And Likely I won't answerIf you're not looking for something serious.... again please don't waist my time.I'm not here for Idle conversation regarding my profile....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Rhetta

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Where to begin ... A lot of people I know have had good luck with this site, so I'm giving it a shot. I am looking for a good, honest, respectful guy. I am a girl with a huge sense of humor and I can make the best of any situation that I am in. I love to laugh, have a good time and try new things. I have a job that I absolutely love that brings much excitement through out my day. I tend to work a lot of hours but having the right guy in my life would change that. I come from a small family but we are very close, though none of my family members live here. I would love to find my match who shares similar beliefs and values as I do. I'm not looking for someone to take me out all the time, or spend a lot of money. I am not looking for a one nightstand, or a summer fling and im not looking to talk to someone for 3 weeks via text and still not have had a single phone conversation or some perception on when we are going to meet. I'm a pretty simple girl to please as I believe it's the little things that matter most. I want to find a guy who I can smile with, share how our day went, and just be ourselves . I am a huge believer in respect. I respect everyone from the start but when I am disrespected that's where the line gets drawn. Honesty is a big thing with me. I don't lie or cheat and want the same thing in return. I know sometimes the honest truth can be hurtful however I'd rather be hurt then have the unknown with unanswered questions. I will give you my undivided attention, always and forever have your back and support you through everything you do as long as I am treated the way I deserve to be. I am seriously looking for someone that I can have an amazing and exciting relationship with that could possibly lead to forever. Anything as long as we have a good time

  • Jimmy

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I have had so many wonderful experiences in my life and am enjoying every moment. I am a college student and am focusing on environmental studies, geography, sustainability and GIS. I love college, but did not begin until I was 28 because I was too interested in experiencing the world first. I am a mother of a 6 year old boy whom I adore and is the center of my universe. My very favorite hobby is cooking. I am an avid vegetarian, animal rights activist, environmental activist and am focused on natural health and self-healing. I also enjoy road trips, hiking, camping, playing my guitar, art projects, reading, watching movies, spending time with friends and family, writing, researching and adoring my child. I do not watch television ever. I don't own one and I never have. Life is too short for all of that. I love many different types of music including reggae, bluegrass, classical, and a bunch of weird funky stuff. My main goal is to just be happy and enjoy my life and to give my son the best love I possibly can. I am fulfilling those with ease, but in my dream world, I would like to live closer to mountains and oceans, spend more time outdoors and contribute more to healing the problems with our world. I also would like to be more active and fit. I do not have a problem with weight, but I would like to be more hard-core with my abilities to thrive in mountain-climbing or zombie fighting. I have a laid back, sweet personality, but I am also sarcastic and playful. Sometimes, my friends have no idea when I am being serious or not. I want to keep growing and learning all throughout my life and would like to share time with someone who feels the same. There is an endless amount of knowledge to play with and an endless amount of adventures to be had.Update 1 ..if you only say hi, hi how are you, or how are you...I'm most likely not going to respond to you. I am interested in intellectual conversations and someone who has actually read my short outline and finds some aspect in common with me. I thrive on interesting and inspiring conversations..Not, Hi, how are you.....bo..rrr..iii.nnn...ggg............. .My first date with the next man I meet who I would like to spend time with could be played out in a number of ways. I always like going out to music or comedy shows, dinner, lunch, drinks, etc..yet, I would be just as satisfied with sitting in the sun in the park and talking. I think it depends on the person, the season and other circumstances..

  • Modesta

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Oh the long drawn out - "let's talk about myself part" we all hate....How do you describe yourself on paper, it never adds up to the real thing in my opinion. I'm on here looking for a few things - someone to hang with and have fun, hopefully there is a spark that leads to more...but I'm learning that's harder to find than you think. I'm at a point in my life where I'm happy with who I am and what I'm doing. Am I happy ***no - but who is. I believe in making the best out of life and what you've been given!I am a very independent woman, I believe a relationship is built on trust and compromise. I don't think you have to like the same things - but you do need to appreciate the other person for what they bring. I believe in partnership but also believe in independence. I want a partner who believes in equality for all, but especially in a relationship. Neither person should feel they are "paying for everything, or not able to afford things while the other is out playing." ***is key, but it needs to be based on income not on figures.Overall, I'm pretty simple. I love the arts, mainly theater. I also like football/sports (prefer it live vs. tv). I'm excited that college football is starting...ready for some SEC football! I like going out with friends/family, and I LOVE animals. I have two adorable cats who are my babies. I want to get a dog, but my schedule is not fair to a dog...cats love the "alone" time!I've been on a fitness kick since January and I'm really enjoying it. I also strive to eat healthy and cook most of the time. I'm doing it for me and to be healthy - not ever going to be model skinny and I'm fine with that. I've grown to like my curves and am happy with my body.I also love sports, but prefer to go to the stadium vs tv. I'm loving that SEC football is back - My Dad was a 4th Generation DC native, however I didn't grow up around here...but I still feel it's part of my family tradition to cheer the Skins on! For all other sports I don't have a "home team." NATS, Wizards, Caps are probably my teams just because I was born in the area.I'm also someone who can be comfortable in many situations: I like dressing up and going out (not a huge club fan, but it can be fun once in awhile), I like sitting at home in my comfy clothes. I can go to opera, I can go camping. I think you need to do it all as a couple - share both peoples passions. If you truly love each other - you enjoy the other's passion because you see them enjoying it. I am not a "car/motorcycle fan" but I get those are guys toys. As long as you put me above those (if we are a couple) I am fine. I don't believe those things (Really anything) should trump your partner.If you're interested in chatting - Shoot me a message, I believe friendship can turn into anything if the right connection is there.Also a few things I'm looking for in a man:If you are a guy who can be romantic, surprise a girl with flowers for no reason and you want a girl who can do the same. Think about it what girl doesn't want to be courted throughout life and what guy doesn't want a girl who is willing to come home, cook a nice meal (even if they are not the best cook) relax with their partner and dress sexy.I'm looking to just enjoy life with the right person, it's short. I want a guy who can dress up/down. Go to see a band/show or throw on the jeans and do a hike.Also if you just want to have fun and laugh. I believe everyone comes in our life for a reason and you can never have to many friends. I'm looking for friendship and a true partner but I am realistic you can't jump things. So if you are interested in chatting a bit, grabbing coffee, seeing the sites of the area, etc. Shoot me a message.Note: I am on here hoping Mr. Right will come "fishing" along. I am very realistic that you don't fall in love on the first date/first month (if you do there are some issues we'll discuss later). I want to meet someone - if we have chemistry - go on a second date, and if we find we like each other...get off this site and try things out. You can't have a meaningful relationship if you are still "fishing in the pond/sea!" I'm not on here for casual sex - I'm human, yes i enjoy that part of a relationship and I am far from a prude. But I have that option already and I'm looking for something more meaningful...so If you are married and looking for extra fun, just looking for a sex buddy, or not hoping that Ms. Right will fall in your lap - then we probably won't mesh. I like to make the first date interesting and unique. Surprise me! I am not one who needs extravagant things, a simple dinner out at Chilis (2 for $***is fine. Or maybe a picnic, bowling, going to see a show etc. The point of a first date to me is to see if there is any chemistry and if both parties want to get to know the other party better. To do that you have to make a bit of effort and go in with an open mind. You also need to go somewhere you can actually talk!

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