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Abelia, 33

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About Me

Here it goes...I guess the best way to describe me, would be, to say, I'm infatuated with dichotomy...that is present in life, thought, and mostly myself. I enjoy the grace and elegance within me...and...can rock a college T and ratty sweats like its nobody's bizzzzness. I can be marvelously sophisticated...and...completely wild and ridiculous. Im sensitive... and... super tough...Willing to see all sides...and...stubborn like a cute mule...Point made.I put myself completely into whatever I do...live and love fiercely, wouldn't be able to survive without the outdoors and adventure, live for travel, live for the art of cooking, am definitely a geek and intelligence is very attractive to me, have been known to give my food to homeless people and befriend them, will hold onto a gum wrapper just so I can recycle it....can't stand consumerism! Believes there is peace in simplicity.Definitely a feminist in some respects but believes that chivalry should be alive and well in any respectable man.THE END**DISCLAIMER - If you are looking for a booty call or are making contact to be sexually innappropriate, rude, or crude please look elsewhere! I took a chance writing something genuine about myself and am only looking for the same in return.** If I am considering a date it will be because I have communicated with you for more than 30 seconds. I am not too far gone to believe that there is still a world where there are good men who are interested in putting the effort into a cute and sweet first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Hisako

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Hyaaa (: this is her daughter corto . ! I am making my momma do this so she can find a good country man and make new friends (: She is an amazing women ........................................................................................................

  • Jacey

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I am a mom to an awesome 4 year old. I am not looking for a step dad for my kid but you must like kids, that is kind of a prerequisite, though you won't be meeting her for at least many months, otherwise that would be creepy (notice the lack of pictures of her on my profile).I am a student, I am on my way to getting my certificate in radiologic technology (that means I'll be taking x-rays). School takes up a huge amount of my time but I absolutely love what I have chosen as my career path (finally). I am a city girl but I do like a good hike now and then. I like taking my daughter to the park on nice days or out to fairs. We get A LOT of ice cream. I am pretty boring most of the time on a week night, I pretty much just hang out with my kid. We do stuff, we play, get more ice cream, in the winter we make snow men. I'm trying to get her into crafts.I waitress. It sucks. I hate it. It makes dating incredibly difficult because I have the exact opposite schedule from most people. But it ways the bills while I'm in school so it serves its purpose for now.I can cook a decent meal. I wouldn't say I enjoy cooking. If I had the money I'd probably eat sushi, Indian or Mexican food every day. I'm pretty adventurous when it comes to cuisine. Falafel is awesome.I'm a beer snob. I'm also a music snob. Descendents, Refused, Fugazi, Death Cab, Modest Mouse, Wilco...if you haven't heard of them it's ok as long as you don't like country or exclusively hard core rap.I'm pretty funny and I'm pretty smart. That sounds totally conceited, sorry/not sorry. I like to make people laugh and I like someone who can make me laugh. I prefer dark, dry, witty and totally un PC. I like Bill hicks. I like art. Most art. I'd probably enjoy a trip to the art museum over a hike. True story. I am also incredibly low maintenance, I get my hair cut about twice a year. I wear strictly flip flops in the summer unless I dress up to go out. I have amazing friends "they say friends are the new family of the 21st century". Talking with friends over a few drinks is the perfect time. If there's a guitar and a fire pit it's even better.Let's see...about the person I'm looking for. You must be able to not only speak but write a full sentence using appropriate punctuation, spelling, grammar and capitals. An lol here and there is ok, but don't over do it (knowing the difference between your and you're will make it or break it).I need someone to match wits with me. Someone smart and funny. Someone who can help to drive the conversation. It can't go one way or the other, we both must be engaged. I am very liberal but my perspective mate is allowed their own opinion as long as they can back it up. A heated debate is welcome as long as it does not turn into arguing. I would rather someone sticks by their morals, values and opinions even if I disagree with them. But compromise must of course be at the end.I am not into sports, if you are that's ok. If you're checking the score on your phone every 5 seconds we probably won't gel. I missed that meeting.I do not want a bad boy. Not even a reformed bad boy. You are probably not reformed. They never are. I would like someone sensitive and caring, who thinks of others first. I'm damn independent but I'm not gonna complain if you hold the door for me.I will probably (most likely) not message you back if you have any pictures on your profile of you not wearing a shirt, or pictures taken in a bathroom mirror, especially a public bathroom mirror (gross) or throwing gang signs or with duck face (possibly grosser on a dude than a picture taken in a public bathroom). Also, I'm not trying to date anyone who lives more than a half hour away from me. It's just not logical. Paint ball. Cause I've always wanted to go.

  • Jeanne

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I am a single mom of two kids and perfer someone who has children. And I can't have anymore so it's very important you have your own. Things ususally don't work out between 2 people if 1 has kids and the other doesn't. I am a HUGE sports fan! I'm not the type to make you go watch it somewhere else I'm more of the type to sit next to you and watch it. I am in college right now getting my basics and working toward my Human Resources degree or Hospital Administration degree. I mainly listen to R&B but listen to everything.I am NOT looking for someone who is into games. I'm too grown for that....so if that's what you do then kick rocks. I'm not looking for a booty call and like I said I have 2 kids so I don't bring just anyone around them. I've been single for 4 years now and I would rather stay that way *** puttin up with BS. I'm outspoken and will tell you how I feel. I'm an outgoing person who loves to have fun and laugh. I have very low tolerence for childish people who claim they are grown. Also my friends are very important to me (they're just like family to me)so you also have to get along with them as well as me. I enjoy doing just about everything and GOD is a very important part of my life so if you are not GodFearing then you can bounce. I don't want a thug or someone who doesn't work. You MUST have your own transportation and take care of your kids. I am looking for someone who is honest and has goals in life. You tell me? Something different than just dinner would be nice..

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