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Otelia, 35

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About Me

**Please read the following disclaimer before continuing-DO NOT message me or contact me if you are looking for any of the following: (f**k buddy/hook-up/friends with benefits/"sexting"/"cybersex"/extra-marital affair/anything similar to any of those listed above)...and I also have absolutely no interest or desire to see naked pictures of you. Some people say this but don't actually mean it-I MEAN IT.**Greetings, gents: I just relocated to the area and would like to meet some locals who can show me around town so I can make some friends and have some good people to just hang out and have some laughs with. I'm not ruling out "dating" by any means, but I'm not exactly "looking" for a relationship at the moment; if there's attraction & chemistry-great...if not, it would still be great to make some new friends and aquaintances. At this moment, I'm basically at a place where I'm starting all over in my life-and I'm determined not to repeat the same mistakes and choices that led me to need to start over in the first place. I consider myself to be a kind, decent, intelligent and honest person-BUT-I expect the same qualities in the people I allow in my life. I've learned & experienced a lot in my 35 years-most of the really important lessons I've learned were learned the hard way-but the key word here is "learned". I've learned that NO ONE is perfect-I'm certainly not-and therefore I'm not looking for perfection in another individual-but I am looking to surround myself with people who are always at least trying to better themselves for the sake of being better people. While I'm not a huge fan of meeting people online, I do know a few things about it-one of which is that when writing an online profile and talking about yourself, you're supposed to keep the tone light and fun and upbeat-talk about your hobbies and your taste in music and what you like to do for fun-those types of things. I am well aware of the fact that I am not your stereotypical woman-probably not in any sense of the word-and I am aware that the tone of this "online description" is somewhat serious and not at all "sun-shiny"...but I like to think that I am down-to-earth and I keep things real-and I would bet that if ***people read this, chances are 98 of them are going to continue on to the next profiles-but that's a good thing because I am interested in getting to know the 2 that didn't...those precious few who actually "get" what I'm saying and have the same or similar views. I'm much more interested in quality vs. quantity...it's the quality people I want in my life-I'm done with the other 98%...then I'd like to hear from you. I am NOT like most people-and I see that as a virtue-not a flaw. In the meantime...I look forward to hearing from you. I haven't been on a real first date in a very long time-so I'm game for just about anything within reason. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Skye

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Scant words can only give you an idea of who I am- learning more is up to you! Honest to a fault and hard working; I know what integrity, motivation, effort, and elbow grease can accomplish. On the flip side of that, I know how to play just as hard and enjoy being outdoors in the woods or on the water. I find happiness in little things like brightening the day of others and can make almost anyone laugh (unless you lack a sense of humor.. then I'm sorry). Faith, family and friends are very important, and I value quality time with them, especially my son. I have a very passionate and giving heart, a sharp wit, and am always a straight shooter. Interested in meeting a down to earth guy with similar interests and values to become friends first and see what develops.

  • Audria

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF YOU ARE JUST GOING TO MAKE A SEXUAL COMMENT, YOU WILL GET BLOCKED AND I WILL NOT RESPOND SICK OF THE PERVERTS!!!I'm a single mom w/ a 2yr old son. He is the most important thing in my life. If your interested in dating me it's a package deal, both of us or nothing. I am NOT looking for someone to be his daddy but you have to want to be a role model for him. I am as real as they get & tell you how it is. Due to life I am starting all over again &n doing it right this time. I am very driven & achieve every goal I set. I'm looking for someone to hang out with and become my best friend, someone to share the good times with and be there to help me through the bad times and vice versa. I am one of the most understanding girls you will ever meet & know no one is perfect. A long term relationship takes work and I dont quit things. I do not tolerate lying. I'm very honost and expect the same. Other than cheating if you tell the truth anything can be worked out with honosty and respect for easch other. In a nutshell that's me. I know I'm an awesome girl that treats her guy like the most wonderful thing in her life as long as I get it in return. I am currently attending college to become a substance abuse councelor but not looking to date someone that needs help. Just putting this out there, if your just going to send me a perverted message dont waste your time and second if I dont answer your message dont take it personal get a ot of them and unless you say something that is going to really stand out, I just keep on deleting, not being rude but I get some really weird messages on here.SO I dont appreciate an *** followed up by a nasty comment, seriously dont waste your time on me if I dont answer.I am up for anything ( don't use your imagination) I am a down to earth girl that loves doing the normal things. Don't have to do anything special to make me happy as long as you are easy to talk to and can take a joke, no stuffy uppity guys for me please.

  • Homemadejewej3

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-44

    Hi! My name is Homemadejewej3. I am never married other caucasian woman without kids from Wake Forest, North Carolina, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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