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Otelia, 35
United States, North Carolina, Wake Forest

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**Please read the following disclaimer before continuing-DO NOT message me or contact me if you are looking for any of the following: (f**k buddy/hook-up/friends with benefits/"sexting"/"cybersex"/extra-marital affair/anything similar to any of those listed above)...and I also have absolutely no interest or desire to see naked pictures of you. Some people say this but don't actually mean it-I MEAN IT.**Greetings, gents: I just relocated to the area and would like to meet some locals who can show me around town so I can make some friends and have some good people to just hang out and have some laughs with. I'm not ruling out "dating" by any means, but I'm not exactly "looking" for a relationship at the moment; if there's attraction & chemistry-great...if not, it would still be great to make some new friends and aquaintances. At this moment, I'm basically at a place where I'm starting all over in my life-and I'm determined not to repeat the same mistakes and choices that led me to need to start over in the first place. I consider myself to be a kind, decent, intelligent and honest person-BUT-I expect the same qualities in the people I allow in my life. I've learned & experienced a lot in my 35 years-most of the really important lessons I've learned were learned the hard way-but the key word here is "learned". I've learned that NO ONE is perfect-I'm certainly not-and therefore I'm not looking for perfection in another individual-but I am looking to surround myself with people who are always at least trying to better themselves for the sake of being better people. While I'm not a huge fan of meeting people online, I do know a few things about it-one of which is that when writing an online profile and talking about yourself, you're supposed to keep the tone light and fun and upbeat-talk about your hobbies and your taste in music and what you like to do for fun-those types of things. I am well aware of the fact that I am not your stereotypical woman-probably not in any sense of the word-and I am aware that the tone of this "online description" is somewhat serious and not at all "sun-shiny"...but I like to think that I am down-to-earth and I keep things real-and I would bet that if ***people read this, chances are 98 of them are going to continue on to the next profiles-but that's a good thing because I am interested in getting to know the 2 that didn't...those precious few who actually "get" what I'm saying and have the same or similar views. I'm much more interested in quality vs. quantity...it's the quality people I want in my life-I'm done with the other 98%...then I'd like to hear from you. I am NOT like most people-and I see that as a virtue-not a flaw. In the meantime...I look forward to hearing from you. I haven't been on a real first date in a very long time-so I'm game for just about anything within reason. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electro Funk Fishing Drama Romance Dirt Bike Racing
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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Please know what you are looking for on here and if it's to find a one night stand, fwb, *** or a pen pal just skip my profile please! If i was looking for any of those I wouldn't be on here I'd go to a barIf I think I might be interested in you I am not going to send a long message. Hi, how are you is usually what I send. That is simply because if you are interested in my profile you will write back and if you are not I did not waste a lot of your time or mine. If you message me and I don’t respond it’s not to be rude but for whatever reason I am just not seeing a possible connection. Sending message after message is not going to change my mind. I am sure most anyone on here can relate to the fact that most of our once single friends are now getting married and/or have families that keep them busy. The bar scene has gotten old and you are not going to date those who you work with. I am right there with you and that is why I think online dating is a great alternative to meeting new people. It’s a bit of a shame that some of the folks on here are on here for the wrong reasons and makes it hard for those of us who are seriously looking to meet someone. I am seriously looking to make a genuine connection which could be just friends or more. I do not believe meeting for the first time should ever be considered a date. Everyone sounds great on paper! Meeting in person is when you are going to know for sure if there is a connection and/or attraction. Before I would consider meeting there needs to be a decent flow of chatting via messaging on meetville, text and over the phone. I am not looking for perfection but someone who is a genuine good person that is open, respectful, honest, and positive. Someone that has a car, job, future goals, likes to spend time outside, enjoys traveling, spending time with friends and family, spontaneous at times and willing to try new things, does not drink all the time and at least moderately active and maintains a healthy balanced life style. A little about me- I am a very open person for the most part. I am comfortable with who I am and where I am. I have goals for the future. I enjoy doing just about anything. I'm a pretty good catch.. if your interested in knowing more don't be shy send a message! If not good luck. No dates the first meet.. meet somewhere in the middle.. perhaps a couple adult beverages.. casual and relaxed conversation..

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