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Otelia, 35

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About Me

**Please read the following disclaimer before continuing-DO NOT message me or contact me if you are looking for any of the following: (f**k buddy/hook-up/friends with benefits/"sexting"/"cybersex"/extra-marital affair/anything similar to any of those listed above)...and I also have absolutely no interest or desire to see naked pictures of you. Some people say this but don't actually mean it-I MEAN IT.**Greetings, gents: I just relocated to the area and would like to meet some locals who can show me around town so I can make some friends and have some good people to just hang out and have some laughs with. I'm not ruling out "dating" by any means, but I'm not exactly "looking" for a relationship at the moment; if there's attraction & chemistry-great...if not, it would still be great to make some new friends and aquaintances. At this moment, I'm basically at a place where I'm starting all over in my life-and I'm determined not to repeat the same mistakes and choices that led me to need to start over in the first place. I consider myself to be a kind, decent, intelligent and honest person-BUT-I expect the same qualities in the people I allow in my life. I've learned & experienced a lot in my 35 years-most of the really important lessons I've learned were learned the hard way-but the key word here is "learned". I've learned that NO ONE is perfect-I'm certainly not-and therefore I'm not looking for perfection in another individual-but I am looking to surround myself with people who are always at least trying to better themselves for the sake of being better people. While I'm not a huge fan of meeting people online, I do know a few things about it-one of which is that when writing an online profile and talking about yourself, you're supposed to keep the tone light and fun and upbeat-talk about your hobbies and your taste in music and what you like to do for fun-those types of things. I am well aware of the fact that I am not your stereotypical woman-probably not in any sense of the word-and I am aware that the tone of this "online description" is somewhat serious and not at all "sun-shiny"...but I like to think that I am down-to-earth and I keep things real-and I would bet that if ***people read this, chances are 98 of them are going to continue on to the next profiles-but that's a good thing because I am interested in getting to know the 2 that didn't...those precious few who actually "get" what I'm saying and have the same or similar views. I'm much more interested in quality vs. quantity...it's the quality people I want in my life-I'm done with the other 98%...then I'd like to hear from you. I am NOT like most people-and I see that as a virtue-not a flaw. In the meantime...I look forward to hearing from you. I haven't been on a real first date in a very long time-so I'm game for just about anything within reason. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sherron

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Well, I see you have moved past the pictures and actually want to read something about me. Great! I would love to write a whole section on who I am, but why, if you want to know anything send me a message and ask. You know start a conversation, what a novel idea. Open for suggestions

  • Cinthia

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    PassionatePositiveOptimisticMusic loverLaughterLoyalGiver~I have recently started practicing yoga and am in love w it. I love to eat clean and healthy. I love to laugh and always have a smile on my face. I love to find the humor in anything, laughing is good for the soul! Head on my shoulders and I know where Im going. Love to live and live to love. Music is the cure all and soul healer, can't live w out it. I have no regrets, everything you go through in life good or bad are life experiences and I learn from them to make myself a better person. Always remember with anything in life communication is key. Say what you MEAN and MEAN what you say- or simply dont say it at all. Don't let this pretty face fool you, as much as I like to dress up- you may find me in a hat and sweats. I'm a world of styles. Lets meet, greet, and see if we connect...and get to know one another.

  • Chaya

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I am a free-spirit masquerading as a responsible adult. By day, I work in a standard downtown office. I spend time enforcing dress code, explaining health care, and helping employees with their 401K. On the weekend I am off and running! I can't describe a "typical" weekend, it's almost always something different. I might be planting trees in the backyard, dragging my kids on an impromtu getaway, convincing my sister to skip yoga and go to Bar Louie...or maybe actually going to yoga :)I'm the kind of girl who wears high heels and dresses to the grocery store, but I also own more tools than any guy I ever dated (and I actually know how to use them). I'm fearless, confident and comfortable in my own skin. I love to learn new things. I love museums with special exhibits, new restaurants and random destinations. I love to keep my nightstand stocked with classic literature, working my way through the books one by one, just so I can know what all the fuss was about. I'm really happy, I really enjoy my life, I'm looking for someone who can say the same thing. And a few inches taller than I am...that would be good. First date basic...escalating to much more memorable after that.

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