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United States, North Carolina, Valdese

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About Me

This needs to be revised when I got time.lol. .lets just simplify this since before was like a rediculous novel. im a bigger girl..if ya dont mind this then awesome :) message me...lol..im extremely outgoing. im always crackin jokes, goofing off, and doin whatever it takes to make people laugh. ive had alot of guys ask me bout all the hat pics..okay here's the thing. i have cancer. so yes, i always wear hats. until it gets to the point to where my hair grows out enough to where i dont feel like a monster or disgusting..i love ROCK AND METAL music. i can tolerate others..country realllllyyyyy wears me out tho lol..imma musician and a vocalist. i played drums for many years til i was in a bad car wreck that caused me to break my back ..had to have hip relocation and knee replacement..took me 9 weeks to learn how to walk again. so, yes i can walk..but playin the drums is a task that after 5 minutes im in severe pain. which sucks cuz its one of my passions. i love to sing and write songs. poetry, photography, drawing, painting..im very artsy. im also extremely blunt. i say what i mean and mean what i say. no questions asked. i really dont know what i'm looking for but i will know when i find it. right now im just looking for someone to hang out with..go out on dates with..and eventually maybe evolve into a relationship.im one of those girls (which i hear is rare) that im coompletely content on being alone..if i find a boyfriend..great..if i dont..fine by me!... i have a 2yr old daughter. she's freakin awesome and is mommy's lil rocker! that baby thrives on rock music just like me! her daddy passed away when i was 8 months pregnant with her, so he never got to see her. she never knew her daddy. i'm not looking for a daddy for her..i got this..he was the love of my life..and i just recently (like past 6 months) decided that i REALLY wanna try and move on..im sick and tired of sittin around bein in love with a ghost..i want closure..but it's like i cant have closure until i TRULY move on with someone..make sense?i dont want someone to feel sorry for me because im widowed..im good! im so tired of being a charity case.."oh poor cancer widowed girl..." yadda yadda yadda F*ckin bullsh*t..i dont need any charity..im doin jus' fine... i want someone to accept my kid and love her as his own if we end up in something long term . i dont do drugs, i dont do drama..no lying,..no cheating. and none of this is tolerated around me..im a recovering addict. been clean for 16 months as of right now. (feb. ***...so i refuse to let it in my life. if u smoke tree..thas kool..i dont mind it..i dont do it cuz i have no tolerance for it. 3 hits and im out lol but like i said i dont care if you do it. im talkin bout the hardcore shit. no 30's..no meth..heroin..blow..crack..etc. point is..is if ur looking for something real..here i am! im bout the realest b*tch ya know..and i got a bangin personality. i know this. gimme a chance and u will see!...also, i do like to drink on occasion. jager is my fave..prolly cuz im like 75% german..lol..so maybe if ya wanna come kick it with me and get a bottle of alcohol and get to know one another..then awesome..or whatever ya wanna do. im bout as easy goin as they come! hope to hear from ya'll! don't be a stranger! whatever man! im game!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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