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Ilene, 35
United States, North Carolina, Troy

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About Me

Not sure what to write here that you haven't read a million times in every profile you look at! Like everyone I guess I want someone to spend some quality time with. That being said I don't rush into things.....which is why I have "wants to date but nothing serious" selected. That isn't to say that I don't want serious, it just means I like to ease into things! It also doesn't mean I am looking for random hookups and three/foursomes so please stop messaging me if that's what you are after!!!! If your first message to me is crude and sexual ie: "hi do you like oral" I won't be replying. If that's the first and only thing you want to know about me we aren't a good match.I have worked hard to be sucessful for myself and have independence. I am not the girl who needs to know where you are and what you are doing ***and I expect the same. I don't like secrets and I think if there is trust then you don't need to have tabs on each other every second of every day! I do love the "I'm just thinking of you" text throughout the day though :) Let's put it this way......If you have ever gone for "a beer" after work and then ended up making a drunk phone call at 3am for a ride home I'm your girl......I will come get you no questions asked and not even mad!!!! But just remember what goes around comes around and sometimes payback is worse!!!! I will never be the old "ball and chain" and I won't date someone who wants to be mine!Things I love include:My family, my animals, my amazing friends, playing hockey, riding horses, laughing, sarcasm, outdoors, pubs.......I'm sure you get the idea!!Things I hate include:Lies, Negativity, Clingy people, snobs, those Chinese dragons you see in parades, being late.Not sure that anything I write here will set me apart from the rest. I believe that keeping your individuality when you become part of a couple is very important and I am hoping to find someone that feels the same!Thanks for reading and good luck!! Going to a nice pub and having a couple beers while watching hockey is a dream date to me!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Music Watching TV German Italian Japanese Portuguese History Music Dirt Bike Racing
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