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Elma, 31
United States, North Carolina, Troy

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About Me

I am looking to meet someone who I can spend time with and get to know. I am a busy person and don't get a lot of free time to myself. I have a 3 year old son who means the world to me. I have many interests and will randomly talk about almost anything. I love to listen to others talk about their lives and find people in general facinating. I am a work in progress have been building on turning some of my weaknesses into strengths. I have a long way to go. Anyways I am an open book for the most part so feel free to send me a message.Quick update my status as a smoker will soon change. I'm in the process of quitting. Quitting smoking has been accomplished :DSeriously if you want to actually get to know me don't ask for racy photos. I've removed some photos because I'm tired of some of the ***'ve gotten. I'm ready to possibly settle down if I find the right person. I'm kinda getting tired of going to bed alone. I want that special someone to curl up beside me and enjoy our time together doing whatever.Things I want/need vs things I don't want/needWhat I want love, a shoulder to cry on, someone to hold me. What I need is patience, understanding, loyalty, honesty and to be told I’m pretty and have the person mean it.I don’t want to be lied to, cheated on or the girl who’s only there till something better comes along.I don’t need to be someone’s everything I just want to be someone’s. Lets pretend we're a couple and go to open houses and make up elaborate stories of how we met and what we do for a living when the person showing the house asks us about ourselves. Or we could just go for drinks :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Photography Watching Movies Caribbean Comedy
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