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Bessy, 35
United States, North Carolina, Sylva

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About Me

I am a single mother of 3 children. Two teenagers and a 2 year old. I work full time and am very independent. If something needs fixed around the house and I am capable, I will fix it myself. I was in a marriage with a man who was verbally abusive and an addict. If you use drugs, I am simply not interested. Please do not waste my time. I am looking for someone I can laugh with and not be so serious all the time. I want to be happy and smile again! Someone who is family oriented and not a partier. I don't want someone who is at the bar all the time. But having a good time once in a while out isn't so bad. I like all kinds of music. I enjoy cooking and warm weather. I am responsible and am looking for the same in a relationship...an equal! Lunch, dinner, maybe a drink and a game of darts.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Reggae
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