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Reva, 31
United States, North Carolina, Swansboro

Offline, last seen Mon, 01 Dec 2025 10:12:11

About Me

If you cant communicate or speak your feelings and be honest with me....then keep on steppin. Ive been through this too many times and it does nothing but drive me crazy when I have to wonder what is going on.If you stand girls up, dont look like your pics, or have just gotten out of a relationship, please dont even stop here! I am at the point in my life that I would like to find someone to spend time with and it possibly turn into more. So I need to meet someone with the same situation. I just cannot take meeting someone great to find out they really cannot handle what I want and need from them. With that said....I wont put up with jerks or guys trying to get in my pants. I like someone feisty that knows what he wants, and will joke around with me or even make fun of my ditzy way of talking sometimes. If you dont laugh on a regular basis, like I said before...dont even stop. Im not perfect and not looking for someone who thinks they are. I just want the one that is perfect for me. Somewhere out there, Ill find it. I do know a few things that I want....tattoos, tall, and not shy. These are musts for me. Also, Im not into rap or hip hop unless Im dancing in a club, so if you dress with shirts down to your knees, or sag to the same place then your not gonna find anything here. I guess I can tell you about myself. I have 2 kids and they are always with me except every other weekend. They are number one and always will be. Ok now for the other stuff...I LOVE music! Whether live or my MP3, Im on it! Without it, I couldnt survive! I like being outdoors most of the time, in the winter not so much! Im a fun person, or I like to think I am. I dont hang out with stuffy serious people at all. I need a friend first then see where it goes, and not "friend" in the sense Im sure some of you are thinking..... :) If the friendship turns into more then Im great with that, but lets give it a bit of time. Also if you have your main pic as you with your shirt off or flexing your "muscles" then dont even waste your time here Oh and....Im not big on going out. If I do go out for some drinks its usually a hole in the wall bar I can sit and chill, or play pool at. I just dont want someone that goes out alot, but Id like someone that will still go out when we decide to do that or drink at home with me on weekends...whichever it may be. The best date I ever had was a walk on the canal at night...SO, a walk downtown somewhere or something along those lines is a great idea and wonderful way to get to know someone.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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