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Destiny, 33

United States, North Carolina, Swansboro

Offline, last seen Tue, 11 Aug 2026 17:55:48

About Me

First and foremost, I am not looking for just a hook up or a sugar daddy. I have a decent job, my own place, and a brand new car. I'm a divorced mother of a gorgeous little girl. She just turned 7. She will always come first in my life. Her father and I get along and are still friends for her. That is something a new man in my life would have to accept. I have no intentions of getting back with him.. But I do it for my daughter. It was hard work at first but, I have decided she would be happier and grow up happier if she saw us getting along. I have ***custody and placement of her, so I only have her every other week. Some people think that is crazy. I didn't have an awesome husband but he is the best dad I could ask for. I know one day soon she will choose to stay with one of us *** go back and forth. I am ok with whatever she decides as long as she is happy. I don't need a man in her life to help me raise her, just someone to be with me when I don't have her. If you do get the chance to meet her consider yourself lucky. Lucky as in your sticking around for awhile. :) I do not want her to get attached to a man unless I know he will be around long term. It has happened before and I don't want us to go through that again. So right now my weeks without her consist of the gym and netflix. I don't like to go out drinking. I'd prefer a beer at home. I do like to go out socially once in awhile but I am ok to just chill at home and cuddle with a blanket and a movie. I am pretty laid back. It takes a lot to get me upset or bothered. If there is anything else you want to know..just ask. If I don't respond the first or second time to your message, I am most likely not interested. I don't have a lot of time to reply to all messages. So if you get an answer back.. something about you caught my attention. Also just a hi or hello will also probably not get an answer. It means you only looked at my pictures and didn't read my boring paragraph. Happy fishing and hope you find what you are looking for. :) Going out for a few drinks and appetizers to talk, maybe a walk or coffee depending on the weather... No movies for first date...can't get to know anyone that way.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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