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Gertrudis, 35
United States, North Carolina, Spruce Pine

Offline, last seen Sat, 10 Jan 2026 17:46:12

About Me

I'm going to start off by being honest, because I value honesty. That being said, I totally and shamelessly lied about my age in my profile. Although age 35 is displayed, I am actually ***and I don't want to miss meeting someone great simply because I didn't show up as a match). Anyway, I have been told many times over that I don’t look or act my age, but I’ll let you decide that. :)I have never been married nor do I have kids. Maybe.. but I think I just haven't found the right guy. I've made the mistake of giving Mr. Wrong the benefit of the doubt while Mr. Right slips by unnoticed. We've all been there but unlike many women my age, I just skipped the marriage/kids/divorce part of it. I know that's cheating.. Now that we got the lying and cheating out of the way, let's move on, shall we?I have a day job managing an office/company which does commodities trading. My other job is teaching and I also compete in amateur adult figure skating competitions. This is how I stay fit and this is how I challenge myself physically, mentally and emotionally. I love the mind/body connection it provides. This is my excuse as to why I am horrible at trivia. I love puzzles though :-)I drive a stick shift. I'm a Jewish/Greek hybrid. I enjoy playing cards. I don't like drama but it can be good in moderation. I don't like feta cheese. If you ask me about sports, your eyes will be met with a blank stare. I love being active yet I also enjoy lazy weekends at home, cooking and watching movies with someone I love. The same goes for movies. You're attractive and you like to stay fit. You like dressing up and hitting the town but you also enjoy doing low key activities at home. You're lighthearted and you have a good sense of humor. You don't like drama but you also agree that a little bit in moderation can be good. You are passionate and intimate. You are an adrenaline junky, maybe you're into an extreme sport or you like thrill rides, like roller coasters or shit, I don't know, bumper cars.. ? :) Really though, you could possess none of what I mentioned above (except for the passion and intimacy - that's mandatory), and for some reason we click. I don't want to put too many limits, here.. I'm thinking it would be fun to get together in a coffee shop of some sort or even a bar and start out playing a game. Maybe cards, chess (I've always wanted to learn but I'm clueless), or even some fun and interesting 'authentic' games I'm becoming familar with (I would take the lead on those). A date should be fun whether or not it leads to more. At the very least, a good friendship can come out of it. I'm open to other ideas as well but I thought it would be a fun way to get to know someone; to me it seems easier to be the best version of myself when engaged in some kind of activity. It could be a nice ice breaker which could make the transition into conversation more natural. Just a thought, I'm not stuck on the idea and I'm open to other ideas.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Crime Music War Western Cricket Motorcycle Racing
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