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Rutha, 31

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Single mother of three beautiful.children.. Iv returned to school and working towards being a social worker. Im easy going love to laugh.and smile.. The littlest things in life matter to me most... Iv been.on.pof.before so.some of you.may recongnize me... I.dont want to.write to much.on.here then.it gives us less to.talk about... Im on here to.find someone that i.could potentially build a future with... I dont like dating ...i dont wanna meet a whole bunch of men. I.just would like to date one ;) i.do not want to be toyed with i do have feelings and a heart...so if im interested in someone and we date i dont see others and i expect the same...if ur just wanting to meet a nice lady to take.out once and a while to.have fun with...im not her... It seems almost impossible to.find someone honest these days... What happen.to.the gentleman.that sweeps the lady off her feet and make her feel special???? Seems like most.men r just.looking for sex-fun!!!! Dont get me wrong sex is great but im more of a person.who.gives herself to one person who.i tend to make something outa the relationship.But i do want to make one thing clear as i.usually do on.here but some just *** Please do not message if you.have no.pic....do not message me to.have threesomes not into.that....do not message me for hook ups ***nighters.. If ur just looking for fun.please scroll.threw to.the next lady... I.dont want to waste anybodies time or play games...and i expect the same.... O AND.NO.PENIS PICS PLZ!!!!! Lol if ur serious and still interested in chatting after reading profile plz feel free to msg! ;) prove me wrong that there is still.some good looking men.out there that have morals and a heart! That be discussed if we hit.it off chatting.... ;) if not.gd luck.and happy fishings...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Verda

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I've done the merry go round, I've been through the revolving door, and I feel like I want to meet someone I can stand still with for a minute and... don't you wanna stand still with me? - Sex and The City -I am looking for someone to share the fun moments in life. I really enjoy the outdoors, running, camping, hiking, trekking, snowboarding, snowshoeing, etc. I am easy going and don't mind getting out of my comfort zone to experience new things. I love to travel (very important to me! I will try everything at least once (if you can be convincing!) and I am not afraid to take on challenges. I have 2 doctorate degrees and I have a great career that, unfortunately, takes up a lot of my time... but I love what I do. If you can't handle a successful woman, don't send a message! I have been single for a 'long time' now, I'm an independent woman with no baggage (and expect the same from you). I know what I want and what I don't want. I'm looking for a man who's confident, ambitious, intelligent, active, who lives a healthy lifestyle, positive, able to make me laugh, etc. Are you my Mr. Right?!?Je suis une femme passionnée et ambitieuse. Je suis aventurière et spontanée, j'adore les voyages et rien n'est à mon épreuve!J'ai une carrière qui me passionne et je suis maintenant à la recherche d'un homme qui saura me complèter et qui mettra du piquant dans ma vie.Feras-tu l'affaire?

  • Edris

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Thanks for taking a look at my profile. Like most people, it's hard to define myself to others, but I will try.I work and this is important to me. I would like to date someone who also works or is seeking active employment.I like to cook, and I like to cook for groups of people, but I also work and parent so sometimes my time is too short to cook the way I want to.I am a parent. I have unlimited love for my kid. We do many family activities together. I do not want to bring her on a date, so please don't ask me to bring her along. She is her own person with her own personality and trying to curry her favour will not get you points, you need to impress me before she will be impressed. I also do not have an abundance of babysitters, going out on short notice is not easy for me so patience, understanding and notice are required. Much of my life and time is wrapped up in either work or being mom, but I do have interests outside of that. I enjoy watching scary movies, lots of reality TV (especially cooking shows), and I love to read (sci-fi and fantasy most of all). I love in depth conversations and occasionally doing something really off-the-wall stupidfun.I'd really like to find a companion, someone to talk to and to bounce ideas off of more than anything. Someone who isn't judgmental, who can realize that I have rough times too and doesn't mind simply listening without giving advice or outright ***'m comfortable with who I am for the most part. If you like what you are hearing send me a hello. Even if there is no romance, I am happy to chat. Coffee, of course.

  • Janett

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Ambivertnerdgeek. Sapiosexual. Digital artist. Vegan Fibromyalgia Goddess. Music obsessed. Sarcasm practitioner. Art fan. Readerwriterlearner. Sci-fi / fantasy obsessed. Wounded Healer. Astral traveller. Sleepless dancer.I saw a space photo which was labelled as a bipolar protoplanetary nebula, and it reminded me of some of the guys I've dated :). But yet that is the past, and I spend a lot more time looking towards the future. If you get the metaphors in the first sentence of this paragraph, let's talk :)."the love that consists in this:that two solitudes protect,and limit,and embrace each other."- RilkeThe six things I could never do without:- Love / spirituality [like, universal love for all, man :)]- Vegetables- All art-forms- Esoteric studies / psychology / general sciences- All forms of Humour- Nature / animalsI'm usually contemplating everything around me. I am more of a thinker than a talker, although when talking to someone I have things in common with, we can easily talk for hours about anything and everything (multimedia, humour, politics, people, science, life, randomness, whatever).For a possible long term relationship, here is what I'm looking for:I'm looking for a partner who has a lot of imagination, and is balanced enough emotionally to be able to just let his guard down and trust people. Or at least to let his guard down enough so that I can try to convince him that not all women are secretly selfish, shallow, vapid ****es just waiting to happen. When I convince a guy of this, even if we ultimately decide to just be friends, that makes me feel great :). I have an understanding of that type of situation; men can have those qualities just as easily. So, someone who isn't afraid to be himself, with no fear that his experiences and vulnerabilities will chase me away. I am a very caring and accepting person when given openness and honesty in exchange. A man who is confident, yet not arrogant, and knows what he wants. I'm rather forthright with what I want, and only want to be with someone who can give me the same in return.I would love to find a guy who takes the time to consider radically different points of view, even if just with the aim of pure learning, not necessarily to change his opinion. Someone who is comfortable entertaining ideas *** having set, unmoveable opinions. The ideal boyfriend would practice knowledge-gathering and contemplation, combined with multimedia appreciation. I'm only open to someone who is well-rounded enough to be at least a little bit spiritually curious in some way (you can even consider yourself to be atheist as there are different interpretations for what that means). But it's not always serious time - I'd like a joker who isn't afraid to just be silly sometimes and appreciates a wide range of humour.I would like someone who can balance romance with straight-up, throw-down sexytime, and even combine the two :). No, real romance is not shallow overly-commercialized stuff like flowers and expensive dates in the hopes of getting your poor neglected pants pal pleasured :P. It's flirting and giggles and cuddles in the sun, or in the rain :). It's a look, turning into a stare - leading to gentle caresses and soft kisses that grow passionate. It's timelessness lost in each others eyes. This is the stuff that can get a woman to write you poetry, gents. If you can find someone to make that sort of connection with.I'm looking for friends too and in general I prefer to meet people who are nerdy / arty / intelligent (without being arrogant), or some other self assessed variety of weirdness, and who like that. I thrive on conversations with all kinds of diverse people :).However...considering the majority of the people who message me on this site, I don't even know if anyone reads this, but I'm going to try. Please don't send a message if you have no photo (because that makes you look like a cheater or like you think you're ugly), or if all you are going to say is something like "Hi" or "How's it going?" or "You're sexy". Have an actual topic of conversation (I don't mean this to sound high-pressure, as if you have to say something complex and impressive - Just have something to say), otherwise you (possibly by mistake) make yourself look stupid and boring :). Make a random, ridiculous, humourous comment that sounds intriguing but that references something I might not know :). The more obscure the better even. I find it hard to understand why so many of you appear timid enough to look at a profile (multiple times and days as well), and yet can't seem to think of a basic subject to talk about. :) I'm a nice, fun person and don't mean to come off as some sort of hard-ass. It's just that people need to stop thinking that all they have to do is lazily present themselves and the other person will come up with something to talk about. Also, you will have more luck getting people to talk to you if you fill out at least some of your profile. Just some helpful advice.I am not looking for casual sex. In other words, don't be a random, predictable ****in creeper, unless you want to get owned. If you know what a troll is, trust me, you don't want to be spamming me your copypasta "dtf, measurements?" (besides, now my measurements are obvious considering all most people seem to do is look at pics *** also reading a profile - and I put up a pic of me that shows my chubby hourglass figure), snicker-worthy and predictable man-whore messages :). Message me to (maybe) figure that out together. Somewhere we can go and talk.

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