SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Jonette
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Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 32-42
I'm not the type of person that has my life planned out... Don't get me wrong, I have goals and aspirations and wish to reach them. But I also believe many things are out of our hands, and everything happens for a reason. I don't NEED to get married or have children, if someone were to come into my life and those options were there I wouldnt be against it either. I'm very upfront and honest and don't play games and deserve the same respect back, why waste anybodys time. I'm serious when I need to be and extremely fun when I want to be. I love to laugh and just enjoy life day to day.As far as what I'm looking for.... I have a pretty wide variety to whom I'm attracted to. Handsome man in a business suit to a sexy blue collar with tattoos. As long as your independant and are your own man and that spark or connection is there... well you know.;-)
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Kara
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Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 28-38
I'm a single mom of 4, ages 12, 10, and 9 year old twins, two girls and two boys (most pertinent and important fact first). I went back to school and got an associates degree in business administration. I graduated this past May. I hope to pursue a bachelors in accounting when things get a slight bit more adjusted with my job. I'm a sub school bus driver which can be nerve wracking at times. I'm waiting to get my own route so that my hours are a bit more stable. I'm a big nerd. I love, love, love books. All kinds from biographies, to history, mysteries, sci-fi, fantasy, and comics. I mostly listen to country, gospel, and some alternative. Not a huge radio head, keep the car on K-love. I'm love being creative and logical always an interesting combo. I'm big on neat but can overlook some messiness, I am a mom of four after all :) I am active in my church and believe in God and his word. I'm not in your face about it but would prefer to be with someone who is inclined that way. I'm never sure what to put on this. I vote for relaxed, low noise, lots of opportunities to talk. In my mind the whole goal is to see if we like each other enough to have a 2nd date.
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Janett
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Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 30-40
Ambivertnerdgeek. Sapiosexual. Digital artist. Vegan Fibromyalgia Goddess. Music obsessed. Sarcasm practitioner. Art fan. Readerwriterlearner. Sci-fi / fantasy obsessed. Wounded Healer. Astral traveller. Sleepless dancer.I saw a space photo which was labelled as a bipolar protoplanetary nebula, and it reminded me of some of the guys I've dated :). But yet that is the past, and I spend a lot more time looking towards the future. If you get the metaphors in the first sentence of this paragraph, let's talk :)."the love that consists in this:that two solitudes protect,and limit,and embrace each other."- RilkeThe six things I could never do without:- Love / spirituality [like, universal love for all, man :)]- Vegetables- All art-forms- Esoteric studies / psychology / general sciences- All forms of Humour- Nature / animalsI'm usually contemplating everything around me. I am more of a thinker than a talker, although when talking to someone I have things in common with, we can easily talk for hours about anything and everything (multimedia, humour, politics, people, science, life, randomness, whatever).For a possible long term relationship, here is what I'm looking for:I'm looking for a partner who has a lot of imagination, and is balanced enough emotionally to be able to just let his guard down and trust people. Or at least to let his guard down enough so that I can try to convince him that not all women are secretly selfish, shallow, vapid ****es just waiting to happen. When I convince a guy of this, even if we ultimately decide to just be friends, that makes me feel great :). I have an understanding of that type of situation; men can have those qualities just as easily. So, someone who isn't afraid to be himself, with no fear that his experiences and vulnerabilities will chase me away. I am a very caring and accepting person when given openness and honesty in exchange. A man who is confident, yet not arrogant, and knows what he wants. I'm rather forthright with what I want, and only want to be with someone who can give me the same in return.I would love to find a guy who takes the time to consider radically different points of view, even if just with the aim of pure learning, not necessarily to change his opinion. Someone who is comfortable entertaining ideas *** having set, unmoveable opinions. The ideal boyfriend would practice knowledge-gathering and contemplation, combined with multimedia appreciation. I'm only open to someone who is well-rounded enough to be at least a little bit spiritually curious in some way (you can even consider yourself to be atheist as there are different interpretations for what that means). But it's not always serious time - I'd like a joker who isn't afraid to just be silly sometimes and appreciates a wide range of humour.I would like someone who can balance romance with straight-up, throw-down sexytime, and even combine the two :). No, real romance is not shallow overly-commercialized stuff like flowers and expensive dates in the hopes of getting your poor neglected pants pal pleasured :P. It's flirting and giggles and cuddles in the sun, or in the rain :). It's a look, turning into a stare - leading to gentle caresses and soft kisses that grow passionate. It's timelessness lost in each others eyes. This is the stuff that can get a woman to write you poetry, gents. If you can find someone to make that sort of connection with.I'm looking for friends too and in general I prefer to meet people who are nerdy / arty / intelligent (without being arrogant), or some other self assessed variety of weirdness, and who like that. I thrive on conversations with all kinds of diverse people :).However...considering the majority of the people who message me on this site, I don't even know if anyone reads this, but I'm going to try. Please don't send a message if you have no photo (because that makes you look like a cheater or like you think you're ugly), or if all you are going to say is something like "Hi" or "How's it going?" or "You're sexy". Have an actual topic of conversation (I don't mean this to sound high-pressure, as if you have to say something complex and impressive - Just have something to say), otherwise you (possibly by mistake) make yourself look stupid and boring :). Make a random, ridiculous, humourous comment that sounds intriguing but that references something I might not know :). The more obscure the better even. I find it hard to understand why so many of you appear timid enough to look at a profile (multiple times and days as well), and yet can't seem to think of a basic subject to talk about. :) I'm a nice, fun person and don't mean to come off as some sort of hard-ass. It's just that people need to stop thinking that all they have to do is lazily present themselves and the other person will come up with something to talk about. Also, you will have more luck getting people to talk to you if you fill out at least some of your profile. Just some helpful advice.I am not looking for casual sex. In other words, don't be a random, predictable ****in creeper, unless you want to get owned. If you know what a troll is, trust me, you don't want to be spamming me your copypasta "dtf, measurements?" (besides, now my measurements are obvious considering all most people seem to do is look at pics *** also reading a profile - and I put up a pic of me that shows my chubby hourglass figure), snicker-worthy and predictable man-whore messages :). Message me to (maybe) figure that out together. Somewhere we can go and talk.