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Ellery, 32
United States, North Carolina, Southport

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About Me

I am 32 and recently divorced. Just happened to pick the wrong person to marry. I love live music, especially country and red dirt. I am currently not working now and haven't worked in almost 2 years now and it makes me crazy. It's kinda for personal reasons and I don't mind sharing them with the right person. I do not go out to bars and clubs as much as I would love to for the music but I am an alcoholic and have been sober almost 1 year now and I am very proud of that b/c I have had a crazy last year. I do have my AA in Business Admin but my ultimate goal was a BS in Justice Admin and I only have 2 semesters to get my degree but I got sick and was not able to finish school this May as I had planned. Crime and Law is my passion and even though I don't work in the field I am still knowledgeable in the area and love to talk about it and watch shows about it. I would love to meet my soul mate and have a family with in the next 4 years. I don't want to get married tomorrow or next month or anything but I think if you know it's right you know it. I have a friend that is 35 I believe now and he has beat it twice so I am on a team with his family to fun for him. I also love OSU Football or OSU in general...I bleed Orange but have can compromise with a Sooners Fan. My best friends husband played for the Sooners and I watch their games and cheer for them unless they are not playing OSU. Louis Cardinals baseball. I like to be outdoors as much as I do indoors. I am not afraid to get dirty. I grew up on a farm and I live my life my the standards and morals my grandparents *** me, or at least I try my best too. I am kinda old fashioned I guess. I love being on the lake and just hanging out or fishing even, but I don't like to run every weekend. I also like to spend some weekends at home relaxing and having dinner and watching a movie or cooking out with friends. I have a Shih Tzu Bella that is almost 5. She is the closest thing I have to a child. We have never been separated for more than about 10 days. She is very mild tempered and is not a little yapper dog. She only barks b/c my mom's dog bark really but she is sweet and loves everyone. She tries to be tough and bark at ppl but if they move towards her she turns and runs towards me. Geeze, I don't think I have much else to say about myself right now. PS I do have 3 tattoos, 2 of them are covered and one is on my foot but I am planning on 2 more before the year is over hopefully. I haven't been on a first date in a long time but I always think dinner is a good idea. I don't like movies or anything that keeps you from talking b/c it seems pointless to me if we can't talk and start to get to know each other. And even though I love live music I don't think that is a good first date either, too loud to talk. Bowling and arcades are fun with dinner, but I want to spend the first date getting to know who you are and you getting to know me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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