Total users: 61,256,834 Online users: 220,812
Merri, 33
United States, North Carolina, Southport

Offline, last seen Fri, 06 Feb 2026 14:15:09

About Me

I've been on this site a few times, and each time I wonder why LOL...no offence, but it often seems like more work than it needs to be. People don't seem to read your profile and you both end up wasting your time, when you could be looking for someone you'd ACTUALLY have a connection with...BUT, I did meet some cool people and honestly, when it comes to dating, you have to pick through the bad ones to find the good ones no matter what the format (bar, online, etc.), so I figure since I'm not much of a bar person, I may as well post on here again and see what happens.Right off the bat, I'll tell you that I'm VERY outspoken, so that being said, I'll lay it all out on the table now...If you do not have a pic or are looking for a fling, don't bother messaging me. No matter how hard u try, I know what I want, & it won't happen LOL. Only those genuinely invested in getting to know me need to reply :)I'm a "big" girl. I'm not saying that to put myself down - I'm still a beautiful girl and it's something I'm working on for ME. Sadly, I hate that I need to mention that in my profile, but let's be honest, attraction is important so if you're not attracted to an overweight girl, you can move on now :). Other attributes? I'm sarcastic, fun, a BIG TIME music lover, and a girlie girl who also loves watching sports (esp football and baseball - GO TIGERS!!!). I could go on, but then what will we have to talk about?!? :)What am I looking for? Someone who loves sports and has a great sense of humour. There is no specific "appearance" that I am looking for, but I will be honest, if I read your profile and don't have an initial interest, I'm not going to waste my time, or yours, and simply move on. While I've listed that I'm looking for a relationship and ultimately want to find "the one", I also don't believe love can be found...that it just happens. So, I'd love to get to know people and see if that is the past we're destined for.Good luck in your search! Hope to hear from you soon :) You'd win me over if you took me to a sporting event and/or a concert :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Techno Chinese Action Sport Western Volleyball
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Elidia from Southport | Woman | 31 years old | Capricorn
    Elidia

    Offline

    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Real men love real women. I'm a big nerd, I've always been on computers designing something or playing a game. If you have bf3 for ps3 then you have just met your next bestfriend! If you don't mind that I have to be at home most days then we will get along great. I have obligations that require me to be home a lot, if we get to know one another ill let you know why. ***important stuff below ---I haven't been in a relationship for awhile, because I rather not be with someone unless we make each other completely happy. I used to have a lot of failed relationships and dated the wrong types of guys. Now I'm just trying to for the first time make a real effort to find a guy I can be with for a long time. Someone who can be my best friend. Ps. I love to play video games (bf3), movies, go for walks, i love pets, and whatever feels like fun.+ looks aren't important so please just be yourself.(i'm open to dating females) I'm not big on dating, I rather we just hang out and see if we get along. No pressure, dates are too much pressure.

    Chat
  • Pok from Southport | Woman | 32 years old | Cancer
    Pok

    Offline

    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I am a fun loving and caring person. I have 2 kids that are my life. I enjoy the outdoors. I love to camp, fish and want to go hunting. I am a country girl all the way. i am looking for a good down to earth fun loving honest caring loyal guy willing to accept my kids in their life as well and vice versa. i dont like drama and not into head games. i like quiet nites in but also enjoy spur of the moment fun things also. if you have any other questions please feel free to msg me :)

    Chat
  • Micah from Southport | Woman | 34 years old | Pisces
    Micah

    Offline

    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    Just looking.... but would like to meet a really nice guy... I am a working mom, I love to spend time with my 8 year old son... I enjoy the simple things in life... I love Muskoka! Well, I can add to this later, if you have any questions just ask.

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: