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Merri, 33
United States, North Carolina, Southport

Offline, last seen Thu, 30 Apr 2026 13:50:54

About Me

I've been on this site a few times, and each time I wonder why LOL...no offence, but it often seems like more work than it needs to be. People don't seem to read your profile and you both end up wasting your time, when you could be looking for someone you'd ACTUALLY have a connection with...BUT, I did meet some cool people and honestly, when it comes to dating, you have to pick through the bad ones to find the good ones no matter what the format (bar, online, etc.), so I figure since I'm not much of a bar person, I may as well post on here again and see what happens.Right off the bat, I'll tell you that I'm VERY outspoken, so that being said, I'll lay it all out on the table now...If you do not have a pic or are looking for a fling, don't bother messaging me. No matter how hard u try, I know what I want, & it won't happen LOL. Only those genuinely invested in getting to know me need to reply :)I'm a "big" girl. I'm not saying that to put myself down - I'm still a beautiful girl and it's something I'm working on for ME. Sadly, I hate that I need to mention that in my profile, but let's be honest, attraction is important so if you're not attracted to an overweight girl, you can move on now :). Other attributes? I'm sarcastic, fun, a BIG TIME music lover, and a girlie girl who also loves watching sports (esp football and baseball - GO TIGERS!!!). I could go on, but then what will we have to talk about?!? :)What am I looking for? Someone who loves sports and has a great sense of humour. There is no specific "appearance" that I am looking for, but I will be honest, if I read your profile and don't have an initial interest, I'm not going to waste my time, or yours, and simply move on. While I've listed that I'm looking for a relationship and ultimately want to find "the one", I also don't believe love can be found...that it just happens. So, I'd love to get to know people and see if that is the past we're destined for.Good luck in your search! Hope to hear from you soon :) You'd win me over if you took me to a sporting event and/or a concert :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Techno Chinese Action Sport Western Volleyball
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