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Judith, 31
United States, North Carolina, Southport

Offline, last seen Thu, 30 Apr 2026 18:13:49

About Me

I'm very driven, motivated, and independent. I work hard towards my goals and have a great passion for the things I want to accomplish. I want to find someone who is motivated, driven, educated, and hard working like myself. Who shares the same morals and values. I can't stand lazy people who mooch off their significant other, been there done that. No thanks! I have been cheated on, the last by my former fiancé and I find myself to be very guarded. Trusting people does not come easily.I am currently working toward my Bachelors degree in business/marketing. I work 2 main jobs, one of which I volunteer for, teaching kids social skills, art, and helping with homework. The other I am an Administrative/Credentialing/Marketing specialist for a busy Ophthalmology practice. Working directly with the Administrator and Board of Directors. Then on top of that I have a couple side businesses of my own, making cakes, doing make-up/hair for events, event planning/catering, and photography. I don't have much free time, I work ***hours a week and attend school. Would like to find someone that would be supportive and won't hold me back. As I would be in return. I don't plan on putting my dreams and plans on hold again. If you are one to play games, I won't put up with it. I'm very upfront and open, I expect the same in return.When I do have downtime I enjoy baking, cooking, reading, traveling when I get the chance, road trips, spending time with friends, catering, taking my dog for walks, event planning, I love the beach and the sun.I mainly listen to Jazz, Classical, Swing, Big Band, and Hard Rock. I played the piano for many years, not so much any more. Still tinker with it at times.If you wanna talk just send me a message. If you don't have a picture don't bother messaging me I won't reply. If I don't respond to your message, I have read your profile and I'm not interested. Meeting for coffee

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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