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Charis, 31
United States, North Carolina, Southport

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About Me

So if your type of person who likes spending time out in the woods or at the beach hikeing or just having good time with packed lunch out in the woods you and I might get along. If you aggree with no pants befor noon Sunday because Saterday was spent out doing something active and strenious. I'm a single parent have been for many years but I tink it makes me stronger. I enjoy spending time out and about doing things fun and not spending a lot of money doing it because some of the best things in life are free. I am an avid smart ass , i can find humor in the oddest times and places.I was in the military for 12 years, 8 of them on Active duty and the last 4 as a Reservist. Friends and family are very important to me and I am a very loyal and stubborn person.Below is something friend saw that was supposed to be the down side to being a Sagittarius i know them as my faults there are many like every one else that is human and kind hearted and if your into the whole cosmic sign thing it works. I am honest and blunt to the point . Could you challange me?Will you follow thru with plans ? Do you have loyalty and integrity with out them there is no honor ..Well if you made it that far here is were I will lose most of you . If you have spent any part of your life in recovery or are dealing with some sourt of substance issues dont even bother, I am not interested. If you have a problem with being honest or having honesty in your life go away. I find no point in lieing. If your goal in life is to move out of your parents better off not even trying. I am not looking to be a parent for a grown adult. If you think husteling is a job, I think not. If you got this far here is were your either going to be put off. I know what I like and what I dont so here is a list of things im not attracted to : Short men, darker skined guys, guys with long hair ( too many years in Army to see pony tailes on guys as much beyond sloppy) guys as wide as they are tall ( yes those of you who list your self as athetic sorry fat is fat) .. Happy Fishing n How about trip to park to people watch? Cup of coffee walk out beach. Any thing sounds good as long as there is an escape route.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Chinese Middle Eastern South American Adventure Music War Basketball
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