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Melinda, 31
United States, North Carolina, Southport

Offline, last seen Sat, 29 Nov 2025 18:05:30

About Me

I am not your average girl ... I used to shoot competitively (though not the greatest, only a Marksman), I love to ride my motorcycle rain or shine, love to camp and am usually up for a new adventure. I usually rock my jeans or yoga pants and a hoodie, but appreciate the few and far between occasions where dressing up is appropriate. I have some awesome tattoos, most of which can be covered easily though I do love to show off my ink! :P I love to decompress by either snuggling up on the couch and watching movies or by going on a sight-seeing trip to somewhere rural (especially places by the water). I have a strong opinion about many things, but I enjoy discussions with people of differing opinions (and I do mean DISCUSSIONS, NOT arguments). I was recently in a motorcycle accident so I haven't been able to hit the gym like I normally do since June, but in a few months I should be cleared to again. Just started walking around again, so hoping to be back weight lifting, playing volleyball and hiking again soon! :)A few other points you may need to know ... due to a lot of bad events in his life, I now have custody of my awesome ***year old nephew so I a "package deal" (currently foster parent, potentially adopting). I am also extremely patriotic, so if you are going to say anything against our soldiers, you better back away slowly now! I'm not looking for a revolving door of guys, so if you're looking for a hook up please save us both some time and effort. Not trying to sound bad, just trying to save everybody some hassle and heartache. ***Note: if there is no clear face picture if you on here, I equate that to hiding and I'm not a fan of that! Also, I can pay my own bills, open my own pickle jars & change my own oil (aka I'm not looking for somebody to take care if me)!***If I have not scared you off yet, feel free to drop me a line. ;)***GO BEAVS and GO NINERS!*** Dive bar for a burger and pool or something interactive like put put golf or go carts

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Craft Making Canadian Irish Japanese South American Nascar
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